How To Read ANYONE

  • Опубликовано: 13 май 2016
  • How To Read ANYONE
    Today we are going to cover the skill of reading people. Which is an awesome skill - to be able to know what someone is thinking or feeling will save you a lot of grief. You won’t look silly talking to someone who is not interested, you’ll get a better of idea of who is interested and isn’t saying anything.
    But we won’t stop there
    Because one of the most amazing things that developing your ability to read an individual does is that it enables you to improve. And I saw in the comments, a lot of you were asking what I studied to be able to do the charisma breakdowns - truly there was no class - it was just a matter of doing these steps over and over. And there is a science to it.
    So let’s get into
    1. Increase self-awareness
    2. Find where their attention is (eye contact is huge)
    3. Get good at identifying micro-expressions, potentially use this site:
    4. Identify common patterns
    5. Make predictions based on people's body language
    6. Experiment in your own life
    Hope you find that helpful in identifying the body language to read people.
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Комментарии • 3 870

  • Short On Ideas
    Short On Ideas Час назад

    Sugi ni omae wa

  • Logicalicious
    Logicalicious День назад

    Whenever I talk to anyone I immediately tone in to how they are reacting with me and the way they are talking with facial expression. I also put myself in their shoes and think about how I’d respond to what I say if I was a regular human being. Such as statistics in a way. I look and observer with a very open mind. From that I just instinctively know what they are gunna day or how they are truly feeling.

  • fahmohh
    fahmohh 4 дня назад

    Are you related to Connor Murphy?! You look like him

  • Gorrest Fump
    Gorrest Fump 6 дней назад

    How the fudge are his teeth so perfect? Lol.

  • Ashley Murphy
    Ashley Murphy 6 дней назад

    A great video would be how to not be awkward

  • s w i f t
    s w i f t 8 дней назад

    Love from NEPAL🇳🇵

  • Mercedes Dubourg
    Mercedes Dubourg 9 дней назад

    this is like an episode from lie to me

  • S T Ξ Λ L T H
    S T Ξ Λ L T H 10 дней назад

    ‘Hi I’m a lizard” in the ad

  • Terese Maple
    Terese Maple 11 дней назад

    Sounds a bit like Sherlock Holmes😍😂

  • Cringes
    Cringes 12 дней назад

    Wanna be a federal agent so here I am

  • MR WHO
    MR WHO 13 дней назад

    Can you guys also see Cameron Diaz's smile in Charlie's smile?

  • Miguel Plata
    Miguel Plata 19 дней назад

    Actual science research shows emotions are guesses and predictions of the mind, that are not always conscious and not express on the face. Our emotions are actually learned and these paterns are activated when aparticular estimuli triggers a memory and the reaction is the emotion, but as everybody has different experiences, people react different and some people don't even express emotions on their faces.

  • Richard Asanov
    Richard Asanov 24 дня назад


  • World's Biggest Booty Hoes
    World's Biggest Booty Hoes 24 дня назад

    It's pretty clear that you're a sociopath and so is anyone who needs your "advice."

  • Ricky
    Ricky 25 дней назад

    I'd read him anytime... damn he's cute

  • Kyle Kaloi
    Kyle Kaloi 27 дней назад

    I always wanted to find out if sally was dating joe etc... but how can i bribe the dark brotherhood?

  • Kyle Kaloi
    Kyle Kaloi 27 дней назад

    Do i need to do karate with my hands whenever i make a point?

  • Gopo Sino
    Gopo Sino 28 дней назад

    I hve 6 boy friend...tell me how I find real one who loves me by hearr.?

  • Jasmine Coker
    Jasmine Coker 29 дней назад

    I once dated a guy who would often "banter" with me by calling me awkward, nervous, gross or weird. The way he would say it seemed very cute and joking, but I noticed that they weren't really one-off things and he would constantly say those things to me. I would usually just own it and say things like "yeh I know that's why everyone likes me!" or "it's apart of my overall charm" and smile and brush it off, because I don't necessarily think these particular traits are always negative, and so you shouldn't have to be defensive. But if I ever said it to him, he'd go quiet or not respond straight away. This pattern in behaviour led me to believe that he was calling me these things because these are things that he himself is insecure about. I never ever felt like a shy or nervous person around anybody else except him. I could be wrong, but I think he was just projecting his own insecurities onto me? I'm not entirely sure, but has anyone else experienced this?

  • SoniaK Mk
    SoniaK Mk Месяц назад

    What have you studied? @Charisma on Command

    • SoniaK Mk
      SoniaK Mk 27 дней назад

      so what has philosophy to do with body language? No lo entiendo...

    • Charisma on Command
      Charisma on Command  28 дней назад

      ~ Philosophy and Spanish as an undergrad

  • Widya Wicaksono
    Widya Wicaksono Месяц назад

    wow, just woah

  • Sue Mason
    Sue Mason Месяц назад

    You're wrong.........

  • Sue Mason
    Sue Mason Месяц назад

    In the real world?

  • Kacy T
    Kacy T Месяц назад +1

    He's the Sherlock Holmes of psychology

  • dan
    dan Месяц назад

    When I am sad I always try to smile
    So my friends won't worry about me
    But somehow my friends always finds out when I am sad

  • Saba Dk
    Saba Dk Месяц назад

    hope you know that you've created a new strain of addiction by making these videos

  • Azured
    Azured Месяц назад

    Your next line is... Nice try tricking me.

  • Cosmic Sanctuary
    Cosmic Sanctuary Месяц назад

    There’s too much negative space around you. So for someone with ADD/ADHD (like me), it’s not very visually engaging. Maybe get closer to the camera and change your background to be a darker color. It’s going to be very engaging, even for people without attention problems.

  • Admin Romeo
    Admin Romeo Месяц назад

    If you look at me, Death is written all over me. Really easy to read.

  • PK Ralph
    PK Ralph Месяц назад

    Not to brag but I can read people naturally, more or less how he’s describing it. I think some people just have that ability naturally which is really cool, it’s like a super power, but a curse too.

  • Holy_Hand_Grenade-of-Antioch
    Holy_Hand_Grenade-of-Antioch Месяц назад

    I guess if you’ve been living in the jungle for your whole life this could be new information. Look for something more substantive if you really want to learn something.
    This is just a RUclip version of a buzzfeed article.

  • C_ Farther
    C_ Farther Месяц назад

    Every syllable had hand gestures. obviously public speaking was not this guy's skill.

  • Matarese Circle
    Matarese Circle Месяц назад

    This reminds me of dr.Lightman and tv show Lie to Me. This is so Awesome!

    OSMI MAURIL Месяц назад

    Thank you

  • The Drangler
    The Drangler Месяц назад

    2:30 I absolutely cant stand when people don’t pick up on that. I’M TRYING TO LEAVE, I HAVE THINGS TO DO!!!

  • Lanier Nelson
    Lanier Nelson Месяц назад

    What is your background? Where did you learn this? Just curious

  • Marck Globals
    Marck Globals Месяц назад

    C o C

  • Ali alsalem
    Ali alsalem Месяц назад

    When people lie they blink

  • torrace12
    torrace12 Месяц назад

    if u reasearch the "ten thousand subconscious facial expressions" It is possible to predict amazing "impossible" things

  • valerie Nightshade
    valerie Nightshade Месяц назад

    How to be manipulative and phony?

  • Gh0stYeen
    Gh0stYeen Месяц назад

    I think I can read people well. I can usually figure out their intentions just by what they say. But isn’t that something everyone can do or is it just a trait for some?

  • Brother King Prophet Blake Devon Auger/Sawan

    And what’s game of thrones brother ahaha I don’t watch tv 📺 no more then now I know that it’s how the elites program you

  • MP
    MP Месяц назад

    Your arm tan/lack of tan was distracting but cool video tho

  • Honesti Bradford
    Honesti Bradford Месяц назад

    You have the most amazing smile

  • Nancy Runyon
    Nancy Runyon Месяц назад

    I once got a job offered to me because I was persistent. I make it a habit call potential employer and not wait for them to call me to check on the status of my application. In fact the former boss of mine told me that is why he hired me because I was persistent. By calling him back you show that you are interested in getting the job.

  • Kay Sandoval
    Kay Sandoval 2 месяца назад

    Are your teeth real?

  • Mocha Corgi
    Mocha Corgi 2 месяца назад

    Me: *watches this*
    Friend: *sits next to me*
    Me: You hate me don't you? You think I'm creepy and that I seem annoying. You have a suspicion that I have a crush on the same person as you and you want to eliminate the competition, even though I very obviously have no chance.
    Friend: ...
    Me: ...
    Friend: *backs away slowly*

  • TheAssassin409
    TheAssassin409 2 месяца назад

    for the record, i got 0% on that 10 question microexpression test.

  • Lu cy
    Lu cy 2 месяца назад

    U have a beautiful smile

  • Star Baby
    Star Baby 2 месяца назад

    I can’t read i bon’t get it I am only 8

  • Mariam Arshad
    Mariam Arshad 2 месяца назад

    Love this dude

  • Krista Sprinkle
    Krista Sprinkle 2 месяца назад

    You think that's what they refer to as giants in the bible?

  • Krista Sprinkle
    Krista Sprinkle 2 месяца назад

    I'm experimenting and I can see your aura and your energy. With the skilled body language your aura makes you twice your size

  • Anthony Silva
    Anthony Silva 2 месяца назад

    Guys im doing a cheating its becuase im doing my homework

  • Ed Findlay
    Ed Findlay 2 месяца назад

    I just don't trust this guy. I'll save you 11 minutes. Just ask how they feel about Trump.

  • Kavya Aggarwal
    Kavya Aggarwal 2 месяца назад

    Wow! I like your channel! You gained a subscribe and obviously a like too.....

    • Charisma on Command
      Charisma on Command  2 месяца назад

      ~ Glad you're liking the channel Kavya! Welcome onboard. :-)

  • Fishy Fisch
    Fishy Fisch 2 месяца назад

    If it weren't for my social anxiety of my introversion, I might be able to understand the body language easier.

  • Freya the Valkyrie
    Freya the Valkyrie 2 месяца назад +1

    Watching so much RHOA. Hahahaha

  • Ilanie B
    Ilanie B 2 месяца назад

    I am self aware and realise some of this body language bur then I concentrate so hard on my own Body language and then I fewl really awkward.

  • Ima NinjaPig
    Ima NinjaPig 2 месяца назад

    I figured out yesterday that I am unusually good at reading people and there repressed emotions

  • Me High
    Me High 2 месяца назад

    Girls be like:
    -yes daddy, read mee, harder.

  • jadams
    jadams 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much. This video has helped much so!

  • saikrishna parshi
    saikrishna parshi 2 месяца назад

    I don't know if it's anything specific with me, but whenever people talk and behave the way you did in the video I automatically distrust and am put off by them. A lot of people see it as confident and convincing speaking, but I only ever see it used by salesmen and people trying to sell me something. It always seems like they're over acting and putting way too much thought into making their movements and voice friendly and convincing to try to reel people in. Which I guess works on some people, but I'm always really bothered by it. I don't know if anyone else feels the same way or if there's a more detailed explanation to it. 14MSE0331

  • Bottle of Rakija
    Bottle of Rakija 2 месяца назад

    Well...the amount of stuff i genuinely never knew about makes md think im prob a psycho...then again i searched "how to undestand what people are feeling"

  • funitude
    funitude 2 месяца назад

    I feel like I am listening to an automaton, or a ten year old trying to explain something about himself.

  • superreuben14
    superreuben14 2 месяца назад

    dude comb your hair

  • Deep Bhaisare
    Deep Bhaisare 2 месяца назад

    You need to restrict loud hand gestures!

  • hospitalcakewalk
    hospitalcakewalk 2 месяца назад

    I'm INTP so I can predict anything. Reading emotions is extremely hard but body language is easy....

  • Роман Плетнев
    Роман Плетнев 2 месяца назад

    dude why are you smiling so much? You're great with straight face but I dunno this smiling just looks creepy and fake-ish

  • Joe Harrison
    Joe Harrison 2 месяца назад

    Here, read this: anyone

  • Forrest Munden
    Forrest Munden 3 месяца назад

    1 minute if annoying body language is all it took for me to leave this video

  • Alan Ramirez
    Alan Ramirez 3 месяца назад

    Yeah Sherlock Holmes it...yeah I do this all the time 😌

  • This is Bronze
    This is Bronze 3 месяца назад

    Forcing your palms to show up, forcing your posture, everything seems forced, but nice try bro.

  • Success Caliber Daniel Han
    Success Caliber Daniel Han 3 месяца назад

    great content man Love

  • TheCoolestKian
    TheCoolestKian 3 месяца назад

    I came to this video so I could learn how to read the word. I still can’t read it. Click bait.

  • killerflash123
    killerflash123 3 месяца назад

    How do you guess commit on a video

  • marixsa santos
    marixsa santos 3 месяца назад

    I can't stare at people because my glare is so strong it can come off as too assertive, aggressive or scare them (some have told me) so I tend to look down at their chin rather than their eyes and this can sometime be read the wrong way (as shy, clueless, or not caring which most of the time it's not true)

  • marian čejka
    marian čejka 3 месяца назад

    dude? are u using lipstick? :D lol

  • phoenix_king04
    phoenix_king04 3 месяца назад

    "professional skater"

  • Lord Nia
    Lord Nia 3 месяца назад

    U can be a great friend for everyone!

  • Reggie
    Reggie 3 месяца назад

    awwww his smile is so cute

  • Questhero101
    Questhero101 3 месяца назад

    "To read others, you have to read yourself."
    *_W O K E_*

  • Yvette Smith
    Yvette Smith 3 месяца назад


  • Yvette Smith
    Yvette Smith 3 месяца назад

    I felt the same about this once.....true , sorry to say that is how I explain what I do!!

  • Yvette Smith
    Yvette Smith 3 месяца назад


  • Ramayana Roxas
    Ramayana Roxas 3 месяца назад


  • graham watts
    graham watts 3 месяца назад

    Been really enjoying your great videos,...ive learned so much in such a short time. Very important to improve our interations...thanks so much!

  • Benson Zhu
    Benson Zhu 3 месяца назад

    I thought the title said HOW TO READ. Like books and stuff LOL. I was like Wtf

  • Shazzkid
    Shazzkid 3 месяца назад +1

    The hand gestures are a nice touch, bit deliberate tho, especially with the frame aligned to show them.

  • Luvo Vevo
    Luvo Vevo 3 месяца назад

    Lmao I thought he meant drag queen read people lmao nvm

  • Professor Neila
    Professor Neila 3 месяца назад

    Hi thank you for making these videos. I can see you're very good at this but at the same time youre not an asshole.
    In particular, thank you for writing the summary. The summary is fantastic! Please keep it up and please continue writing a short summary in every video thank you.

  • Taz
    Taz 3 месяца назад

    He gives me a friend vibe with the personality he’s showing, that’s what I’m like and it’s what I’m trying to move away from to become more like mysterious cuz that’s always the person I’m more drawn to...

  • Ravikanth Iyer
    Ravikanth Iyer 3 месяца назад


  • I Am The Champ
    I Am The Champ 3 месяца назад +1

    Yeah Charlie !!!!!!!!! thank you very much

  • butti aassdd
    butti aassdd 3 месяца назад

    I wish they made a video about How to "Read Someone to Filth".
    any ways i enjoyed trying to implement and use the techniques in this video. Nice work!!

  • dani k
    dani k 3 месяца назад

    He sort of looks like Reggie from Riverdale

  • dani k
    dani k 3 месяца назад

    I want to work for CSIS as like an agent, so I will need to know how to profile someone.

  • Sky Leonidas
    Sky Leonidas 3 месяца назад

    goddamm i hate you soo much and i dont know why

  • Lotta Krap
    Lotta Krap 3 месяца назад +1

    I’m a misanthrope

  • Billy Barbosa
    Billy Barbosa 3 месяца назад

    I can't be the only one who thinks this has a SCARY amount of views