How To Read ANYONE

  • Опубликовано:  1 год назад
  • How To Read ANYONE
    Today we are going to cover the skill of reading people. Which is an awesome skill - to be able to know what someone is thinking or feeling will save you a lot of grief. You won’t look silly talking to someone who is not interested, you’ll get a better of idea of who is interested and isn’t saying anything.

    But we won’t stop there

    Because one of the most amazing things that developing your ability to read an individual does is that it enables you to improve. And I saw in the comments, a lot of you were asking what I studied to be able to do the charisma breakdowns - truly there was no class - it was just a matter of doing these steps over and over. And there is a science to it.

    So let’s get into

    1. Increase self-awareness
    2. Find where their attention is (eye contact is huge)
    3. Get good at identifying micro-expressions, potentially use this site:
    4. Identify common patterns
    5. Make predictions based on people's body language
    6. Experiment in your own life

    Hope you find that helpful in identifying the body language to read people.

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  • Длительность: 11:19
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Комментарии: 3 302

  • David Enright
    David Enright 1 день назад

    why do you always wear black? Is it similar to Steve Jobs' idea on clothes?

  • Electronics2hot
    Electronics2hot 5 дней назад

    ur are smart motherfucker. why i say this is due to the amazing fact u've found a material to make a video and u have search in google and u know nothing about it and still u talk here jibberish. well done motherfucker good job

  • kate
    kate 6 дней назад

    you have big hands

  • Andrew Guerrero
    Andrew Guerrero 6 дней назад

    Why is the douche bag in the commercial always out of breath when giving advice lol

  • Karly Vilato
    Karly Vilato 6 дней назад

    Thats cool

  • Michelle Jessica
    Michelle Jessica 7 дней назад

    My question is how do you stop reading people. Like "turn it off" per say. Before I knew I had ADHD I just knew I talked alot, so I started reading people so I could know when to shut up or change the conversation. Anyhow without knowing exact tells as you say, i am able to read people quite well, but it sucks when it's something negative towards you. How do you deal with that?

  • aeralv
    aeralv 8 дней назад

    Smile responsibly man! You're making me drunk. > ~ <

  • Antweezy
    Antweezy 8 дней назад

    dang, you're good.

  • JuanM Sanchez
    JuanM Sanchez 9 дней назад

    You have a great personality

  • tardcakez
    tardcakez 9 дней назад

    You can't read me you asshat.

  • Karum Bored
    Karum Bored 10 дней назад

    He looks like brendon urie from Panic! At the Disco

  • Tank
    Tank 11 дней назад


  • candymountainn
    candymountainn 12 дней назад

    "but don't go just yet" bye lmao

  • Maranda H
    Maranda H 12 дней назад

    Hot damn young man, you are completely charismatic and captivating. Job well well done! Applause!!!

  • ملاك أبو شوشة
    ملاك أبو شوشة 12 дней назад


  • Sean Carter
    Sean Carter 13 дней назад


  • mariana martinez
    mariana martinez 14 дней назад


  • Kaizoku
    Kaizoku 16 дней назад

    Staring contest challenge Charlie special edition, three levels:

    Level 1: 8:42
    Level 2: 8:43
    Level 3: 8:44

    Bonus level: 8:46
    Good luck.

  • Wonshuan 6
    Wonshuan 6 16 дней назад

    First, look at the word as a whole. It's in all caps, so there's emphasis on it. Try reading the sentence up to that point to figure out exactly what kind of emphasis that is. Then, to the actual word. Start at the left and move your way to the right. First is A, in this case it's gonna sound like the word "eh." Next you see an N, nothing fancy here, just the N sound. The Y, in this case it makes the sound like E, so up to this point we have "eh-nee" or just the word "any." Got it? The next step is important here, the "O" is going to sound like it has a W on it, something like "Wuh." Just add an N on the end, and you've got it! The "E" doesn't really make any sound, it's just sorta there because it likes to force itself into everything. Most people actually get these sounds right, they just mess up the order. But if you get it right, you'll be sure to read the word "Anyone" perfectly.

  • mike g
    mike g 18 дней назад

    i can read people...

  • Kevin Lobo
    Kevin Lobo 18 дней назад

    3:44 Yes... Elsewhere... you know where

  • Lauzzy Asknes
    Lauzzy Asknes 18 дней назад

    That smile... Super killer 😏😂😍

  • Chloe Clark
    Chloe Clark 18 дней назад

    He looks like a character that would be in a virtual game.

  • ZaethexGaming
    ZaethexGaming 19 дней назад

    I may be overconfident, but I'm pretty sure I was doing all this sub-consciously or semi-consciously.

  • Ayana Waves
    Ayana Waves 19 дней назад

    Wtf u handsome

  • カリソンハロルド
    カリソンハロルド 20 дней назад

    I am not the best a reading people but I can just tell when the video is about to end when a youtuber starts making really big hand jesters and say stuff like plz like, comment, and subscribe

  • Happy Sparrow
    Happy Sparrow 20 дней назад

    I love that you say that charisma and magnetism are an aggregate of our mindset, not just something we are born with. The idea that I can work on this is great. I'm watching all your videos to implement your methods, what a helpful channel. I wish you could teach my boyfriend how to look like he's listening jk 😅

  • Happy Sparrow
    Happy Sparrow 20 дней назад

    Haha, you testing the bug eye theory was hilarious!

  • Faith Oladele
    Faith Oladele 20 дней назад

    what about texts? how would you ready anyone from texts because texts can be misunderstood quite easily, the reader's mental tone could be different from the writers.

  • Pedro Capusso
    Pedro Capusso 20 дней назад

    You look like a Sim character that gets laid a lot.

  • Jonny Williams
    Jonny Williams 20 дней назад

    one thing is, if you've ever played the "whats the password" game, after playing a few times, say something random and funny

    they will start considering whether to let you in or not

  • José Luis Fernández Somarriba
    José Luis Fernández Somarriba 21 день назад

    I think your advantage probably comes from some kind of autism or asperger disorder, the unability to actually just fell the natural interaction guided you into a model where you could quantify the probability of a reaction.

  • Yahary Brambila
    Yahary Brambila 21 день назад

    I can't focos

  • JJ Brazer
    JJ Brazer 22 дня назад

    You look like jeff the killer, but you have a great channel, Subscribed

  • marcio azevedo
    marcio azevedo 23 дня назад

    Yes, some people are born charismatic and do most of this things by instinct, however you can be an introvert who decided to change your faith and do some research on the matter, have you ever seen a charismatic kid? Google it..

  • Tila Moura
    Tila Moura 23 дня назад

    That smile 😍😱

  • LiSuper
    LiSuper 23 дня назад

    Every video I watch always says that 'No eye contact is bad'

    I'm so confused as to whether my crush likes me or not...

  • אופיר אופיר
    אופיר אופיר 25 дней назад

    Good one. good advice.

  • R. Grantaire
    R. Grantaire 25 дней назад


  • Starsail
    Starsail 26 дней назад

    Someone's gotta say it, He won the gene lottery.

  • Nosebleeds Everyday
    Nosebleeds Everyday 26 дней назад

    I just stared at his wide mouth the whole time.

  • Shanice Mcfayden
    Shanice Mcfayden 26 дней назад

    that smile im dead

  • josefina jordan
    josefina jordan 28 дней назад

    Is he an animation (it can sound stupid but he looks like one)?

    SOZZYLAND 28 дней назад

    candy mountain Charley!!!

      SOZZYLAND 28 дней назад

      may you do a video about Outcome independence

  • Oblatios Romero
    Oblatios Romero 29 дней назад

    easiest way to remain an enigma to everyone. literally answer everything with "I don't care" and keep the same enthusiastic expression you get while filing taxes.
    The trick is to not be interesting to anyone if you don't want to be read.

  • Brooke Dixon
    Brooke Dixon 1 месяц назад

    I love your intelligence as well as your smile (:

  • Backflash Express
    Backflash Express 1 месяц назад

    I can not recognize patterns in fractal geometry.

  • Yelena Kapilian
    Yelena Kapilian 1 месяц назад

    You use your arms too much

  • Marina Beacroft
    Marina Beacroft 1 месяц назад

    I didn't even watch the vid I already know how to read people

  • Tobias Knudsen
    Tobias Knudsen 1 месяц назад

    Once major defense implication urge cover mask

  • Nathanial Clabaugh
    Nathanial Clabaugh 1 месяц назад

    It's great to finally find a video on this subject that isn't simply 'this=that'. Really informative, excellently constructed. Subscribed.

  • Erik Dianas
    Erik Dianas 1 месяц назад

    Lmao did anyone notice he broke and cracked at 8:03 lol he said "hot" hahahah did anyone catch that cause trust me I played it over it's not height cause he's talking in terms of muscle size and using his own terms and body checking he double paces in terms of speed of his words and looks twice over usually that' means u said something wrong and you sped up cause u were embarrassed... hmmm I think he liked him hahah

  • My's Corner
    My's Corner 1 месяц назад

    I know how to read anyone. Go on a website where you can search names and type in their name, BOOM. You know everything cx

  • Alissa Sousa
    Alissa Sousa 1 месяц назад

    or..... I could just ask help to the Lightman Group

  • Jedi®ebelKid™
    Jedi®ebelKid™ 1 месяц назад

    Just do what I do. I assume that no one likes me and subsequently I have no need to impress them and I'm free to say and do whatever I want and they can fuck off if they don't like it. I'm way more charismatic than the old me who wanted to be on everyone's good side. Then I just whip out my dick.

    Girls are like: Oh my!! He's such a completly rude asshole but he's soooooo damn charismatic that I have to blow him immediately then make him a grilled cheese sandwich.

    If you want BJ's and Grilled Cheese then buy my DVD set for $99.99.

  • Tactical Stuff
    Tactical Stuff 1 месяц назад

    Nice! can u make a video about how to buy mars beginer tuturial?

  • NEE
    NEE 1 месяц назад

    3:20 So what happen people aren't interested? How do you get them interested?

  • catherine t
    catherine t 1 месяц назад

    I legit clicked on this because I thought it was a tutorial on throwing shade xD lmao

  • Mr.Lahey
    Mr.Lahey 1 месяц назад

    A better way to watch your body language is to watch the video without audio just to see if you can make sense of his sign language. His gestures should be simple enough for a child to understand.

  • Katch'emAll
    Katch'emAll 1 месяц назад

    You're mouth is huge. I like it

  • Lady Slytherin
    Lady Slytherin 1 месяц назад

    Well or someone isn't looking in your eyes becouse he cant... Or it makes him feel uncomftabale (do you write it like this? sry no English XD)

  • Gayham
    Gayham 1 месяц назад

    If I get good charisma can I get in your pants?

  • lauren
    lauren 1 месяц назад

    Read her....Drag her

  • Agustin Granados
    Agustin Granados 1 месяц назад

    Camerón Díaz and him are the same person.

  • Helena Mannkopf
    Helena Mannkopf 1 месяц назад

    Now this is Youtube quality 👌😊

  • Jake Keller
    Jake Keller 1 месяц назад

    i like the quality of these videos

  • Kandice Angela Santos
    Kandice Angela Santos 1 месяц назад

    It's easy. Just read the word 'ANYONE' like 'ENIWAN'.

  • SandNigga
    SandNigga 1 месяц назад

    daaaamn his mouth is wide like them cartoons

  • petrzalkai
    petrzalkai 1 месяц назад

    well, i think you are actually lonely

  • Aminata Sano
    Aminata Sano 1 месяц назад

    um... is this graphic design or is this a real person???? i seriously cant tell

  • KidiGal
    KidiGal 1 месяц назад

    My sister was having a hard time sleeping, I was watching this video and she stopped texting and fell asleep. She fell asleep to your voice xD

  • Coralynn Hoak
    Coralynn Hoak 1 месяц назад

    you have a big mouth

  • Charlie Valentine-Louttit
    Charlie Valentine-Louttit 1 месяц назад

    yo teeth are too white... but in a good way and my name is charlie so good on ya!

  • Demonic Moriarty
    Demonic Moriarty 1 месяц назад

    This video was getting into important videos playlist territory with how often this popped into my recommended

  • Quality Queen
    Quality Queen 1 месяц назад

    your next line is-

  • Ashlynn Pimentel
    Ashlynn Pimentel 1 месяц назад

    Instant sub ❤️👍

  • Peach Black
    Peach Black 1 месяц назад

    and dont forget the SENSE OF HUMOR thing. like you have. haha You have that awesome way to tell things too. I like your smile. *subscribes*

  • Claudio Castro
    Claudio Castro 1 месяц назад

    Are you still leaving in Brazil?

  • Bauer D
    Bauer D 1 месяц назад

    LOVE your channel, please keep giving us more! :)

  • Smeeze
    Smeeze 1 месяц назад

    ily man but my cat attacked your moving hands on the screen so i don't know about him

  • Undertale - Parodys
    Undertale - Parodys 1 месяц назад

    I put my middle finger up and fold the rest down
    I find this yoga finger pose reduces stress while driving.

  • BMKC Coleman
    BMKC Coleman 1 месяц назад

    Social Engineering Fundamentals.

  • Spooky Child
    Spooky Child 1 месяц назад

    I remember that since I was a kid that I would watch people, but more for a psychological reason. I wanted to understand people better, and when you're trying to concluded to why someone behaves a certain way, you notice these cues, and what your own "give away" is. What makes people realize that you have this or that going on in your home life or head? So, every interesting.

    Also, where does Charlie's charisma stem and reveal itself? Hand motions and general body behavior. Women
    and effeminate men have a tendency to use a lot of hand motions while talking. Some manlier men do too, but not as often. However, its very inviting and attractive to see in a person, so charisma is present. If the motions are too big, they may be off putting. if you keep things in your bubble, people like it, and feel safer.

  • 21 dunshines
    21 dunshines 1 месяц назад

    dang ima use this

  • Kevin Lopez
    Kevin Lopez 1 месяц назад

    The library is now open

  • Irama Zamora
    Irama Zamora 1 месяц назад

    I have that naturally

  • Gamer Girl
    Gamer Girl 1 месяц назад

    this is gonna help me so much because I can't trust many people at my school cause they have been liars so I have to know how to read them if they are lying

  • Kube Dog
    Kube Dog 1 месяц назад

    If you jerk off at a party, you get a lot of different reactions. But you have to be really in tune with yourself and others to experience it fully.

  • Jovee Gillen
    Jovee Gillen 1 месяц назад

    It's hard for me sometimes because my dad has resting bitchface.

  • Francisca Sanchez Badilla
    Francisca Sanchez Badilla 1 месяц назад

    what is going on with his arms and hand gestures?!?!? I feel like im watching some wierd animation.

  • Raleti 9
    Raleti 9 1 месяц назад

    I laughed so hard when he was explaining the big eye story

  • Kuzu Mochi
    Kuzu Mochi 1 месяц назад

    The Whol Darn Thing "Body"

  • Luca Perugini
    Luca Perugini 1 месяц назад

    i was expecting the drag queen term of "Read"

    its basically a joking roast. and they are cut throat

  • Hello Darkness
    Hello Darkness 1 месяц назад

    is it just me or i feel like sometimes he looks like a 3-D person on sims😂

    TheCODFA1LIUR3 1 месяц назад

    I find this channel really interesting, but I can't help but feel like a sociopath whenever I watch this

  • Bárbara R
    Bárbara R 1 месяц назад

    I consider myself a person that likes to hear over talk, when i listen to ppl i do it fully, but I have a problem to make eye contact. I just... can't. is REALLY hard for me to do it and at the begining with ppl i don't know is kinda awkard. And they probably get the notion than i am not hearing them. After they get to know me they just stop trying to see me in the eye XD so... hu... yeah.

  • Erin Music
    Erin Music 1 месяц назад

    There's a good ted talk on this too

  • KiRi KamikazE
    KiRi KamikazE 1 месяц назад

    I love ppl who speak as fast as me :*

  • kathy gallardo
    kathy gallardo 1 месяц назад

    how do i stop being so goddamn cynical and nyhilistic?