How To Read ANYONE

  • Опубликовано:  Год назад
  • How To Read ANYONE
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    Today we are going to cover the skill of reading people. Which is an awesome skill - to be able to know what someone is thinking or feeling will save you a lot of grief. You won’t look silly talking to someone who is not interested, you’ll get a better of idea of who is interested and isn’t saying anything.

    But we won’t stop there

    Because one of the most amazing things that developing your ability to read an individual does is that it enables you to improve. And I saw in the comments, a lot of you were asking what I studied to be able to do the charisma breakdowns - truly there was no class - it was just a matter of doing these steps over and over. And there is a science to it.

    So let’s get into

    1. Increase self-awareness
    2. Find where their attention is (eye contact is huge)
    3. Get good at identifying micro-expressions, potentially use this site: www.microexpressionstest.com/m...
    4. Identify common patterns
    5. Make predictions based on people's body language
    6. Experiment in your own life

    Hope you find that helpful in identifying the body language to read people.

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Комментарии: 3 409

  • Bodmerocity
    Bodmerocity День назад

    Just an aside: Mostly people will interpret looking away as a sign that someone isn't paying attention, but sometimes ADHD people will look away when they're trying to listen very closely. We're kind of limited by how much sensory information we can process in a given moment, so looking away is a way of de-prioritizing sight in favor of sound. I also often tilt an ear toward the speaker 1.) to better hear, and 2.) as a hint that I am listening.

  • Hello World
    Hello World День назад

    His mouth is huge

  • Stephen Henkel
    Stephen Henkel День назад

    Your voice has good timbre. Also, good hand gestures, very palm-up and illustrative.
    Why do you shave your arms though? Does it have anything to do with psychology?

  • Mike Nolan
    Mike Nolan День назад

    you look like the scout from tf2 lol

  • Sam Njogu
    Sam Njogu 2 дня назад

    Your videos are useful

  • Charlie M.P.
    Charlie M.P. 3 дня назад

    Thanks for your insights! And on another note: beautiful smile.

  • gravity destructor
    gravity destructor 3 дня назад

    Just because someone is not looking at you in your eyes when you are talking does not mean that they are not listening. Take people with Autism for instance. People with Autism have trouble looking at a person's eyes when they are talking instead they look at the person's mouth or they look around the room or some people are just better at listening when they are doing other things like drawing. That's how it works for me anyways. Plus not everybody who you are trying to read is going to act the same way body Behavior wise. So what will be especially difficult to read people who you are not used to being around with those types of quirks. So usually you would end up reading them the wrong way and getting the wrong opinion about them. Which is where you have to draw the line between your ability to read people, and your ability to trust people.

  • SClearS
    SClearS 3 дня назад

    This video always showed up on my suggestions, before knowing Charisma on Command, didn't wanna see it 'cause I thought it was just a video with a cute guy in the thumbnail.

  • Cat Lis
    Cat Lis 4 дня назад

    You look like a younger Michael Fassbender.

  • Everyday Coconuts
    Everyday Coconuts 4 дня назад

    I get awkward at work, over thinking what & what I can not say & do all the time. Always worried about over stepping a line at work while being social & friendly to my co workers. I tend to completely loose my personality by trying to be what I think is acceptable or what they want in an employee so my personality flat lines & becomes robotic.

  • LongGameValue
    LongGameValue 4 дня назад

    "Let me know" [video request] ... ok, you asked for it...
    So, lets say that someone learned, more or less, the idea's in this video (self awareness, paterrn recognition, predictions, experiments, real life experience), let's say that person is me...
    So, i learned all that to a junior high school equivalent, i try to tell people, but because they fear the consequences of my knowledge of their actions, they choose ignorance, repeating things like "you don't know me".
    Also, attempting to ease tensions by being accepting of their mistakes wouldn't work, because they are deathly afraid of the consequences, they'd be dead to me, as i am to them...
    How do you manipulate them into coming out?
    They made such awful mistakes that would make any future relationship a formality, meaning the time invested would never make them worth trusting with my life again. They know that, so they choose to be ignorant about any evidence i have on them. They try to kill me. They kill my children by making me infertile. They entice literally everyone into taking some ownership of their cause, and thus preventing my options for seeking help.

    How do you get a confession out of anyone?... keep in mind if you don't get a confession, they will continue to try kill you and continue to be nasty in anyway they can think of because it's easier to do that than have any descent in their ranks...
    (You didn't "ask" for this... but i found an excuse to write it)

    • LongGameValue
      LongGameValue 4 дня назад

      P.s. my skill in this area may actually be in senior high school. If you think about each level of school as a conscious grasp on the final level, which would be where someone like Derren Brown attends.


  • canater gaming
    canater gaming 5 дней назад

    he would be a great hanzo main

  • Oran Wilson
    Oran Wilson 5 дней назад

    I only found your channel today I'm gonna try a lot of your tips🤙

  • Ronald samuel
    Ronald samuel 5 дней назад

    Lmao this guy always uses body language hands face expressions changes voice smiles and try's to relate I like how u make these videos u sneaky mfer CHARISMA ON COMMAND

  • Luke Fazzard
    Luke Fazzard 6 дней назад

    And your friend is a funny one working out for a year and only then noticing its not what he thought.
    Let me know how he gained 40lbs without putting on weight too.

  • Luke Fazzard
    Luke Fazzard 6 дней назад

    Leave this stuff to adults with life experience. You might be good but nothing can beat age and experience that comes with it.

  • Beanshkabob
    Beanshkabob 8 дней назад

    yeah but how do you stop thinking about these things whenever you interact with people? having these things in mind seems to take away from the validity of the moment and I get caught up in trying to change my expressions... does this go away after a while or is this like a permanent problem with knowing this knowledge? whats your experience?

  • aquadise e
    aquadise e 10 дней назад

    I don't know why but nearly EVERYONE I know has told me a big secret and told me to keep it to myself and not tell. The thing is, I let them do all the talking and I don't say a word. Of course, I'll tell them if I agree with what there saying and whatnot but I don't tell them about OTHER people. I guess that's what makes me them trust me. I just look them in the eye and I listen and I don't react or gasp or laugh. I just listen. It sounds a bit creepy but I love it when people do that for me and it seems to work so.
    Only one thing; don't speak about other people to others. They'll pick up the type of person you are which is NOT a good person.

  • Keith Mintz
    Keith Mintz 10 дней назад

    First step is very true! Must know yourself! If you know yourself and your own emotions, you have full control of yourself and life situations. Knowing that, you can absolutely be able to read others as well! Great video!

  • Tim for you to leave planet earth thanks

    His voice kinda reminds me of terrytv

  • Takeiteasy buttakeit
    Takeiteasy buttakeit 10 дней назад

    Are you using the sign language for deaf people? Looks line a ventilator.

  • Googoosh
    Googoosh 11 дней назад +1

    Anyone else instantly pause the video and scroll to the comments looking to see what people think of the mouth on this guy?

  • Pedro Francescon Cittolin
    Pedro Francescon Cittolin 11 дней назад

    8:03 
    ops

  • kat douglas
    kat douglas 12 дней назад

    he opens his mouth really wide

  • Bobby Richardson
    Bobby Richardson 13 дней назад

    Man you love your black v-necks haha

  • Juliqn Mihov
    Juliqn Mihov 13 дней назад

    In my opinion, very good way of practice and learning these stuff is simply playing poker (on live) obviously I like the game and I enjoy that method but.. it is really helpful cause every hand you make predictions and you check them If they are correct, so this works like an experiment..

  • Rock 4 Life
    Rock 4 Life 13 дней назад

    The first video I seen and I already subscribed. Good job!

  • RUPAM MANDAL
    RUPAM MANDAL 14 дней назад

    Sorry, but your movements feels like done consciously and not natural. After some minutes I minimized the window to just listen to you.

  • sofia barbery
    sofia barbery 15 дней назад

    You are incredible , i really admire you and every video i see i try to put it in practice

  • Vincent Abulencia
    Vincent Abulencia 16 дней назад

    I'm just curious. On a job interview, how do you handle the "will call you back" and possible turn around the scenario to the point that the interviewer will feel that he/she should definitely call you back?

  • MenstruationNation
    MenstruationNation 17 дней назад

    can you make a video on becoming self aware like that please

  • Lazy Filmer
    Lazy Filmer 19 дней назад

    Hello, my names Terisa Lisbene im with CBI and this is Jane

  • Jeremy Mangum
    Jeremy Mangum 19 дней назад

    lol i just got a ty lopez ad hahahhaa

  • Brent Lancaster
    Brent Lancaster 23 дня назад

    "how did you learn to understand people Charlie?" Answer: "I started by reading people" wow, really ?

  • chuchuchuchia
    chuchuchuchia 26 дней назад

    How the hell did he speak fluidly got 11 minutes straight wtf

  • Max Cantor
    Max Cantor 26 дней назад +1

    I enjoyed this video.

    • Max Cantor
      Max Cantor 25 дней назад

      Charlie, Thank you for your best selling book ! Highly recommended. Let me know if I can write a book recommendation for you. -Max


    • Charisma on Command
      Charisma on Command  26 дней назад

      ~ Glad you're enjoying it!


  • Gabe Dubbs
    Gabe Dubbs 27 дней назад +1

    He has a lovely mouth... kinda gay to say but it's true

  • Arlena Witt
    Arlena Witt 28 дней назад

    This is excellent advice! Much easier to implement for someone who is good at observing and analyzing the world. What I'm especially impressed with, though, is how you shot this whole video in one take. Kudos. :)
    I'm new to your channel, but I'm happy to stay and watch your previous work. Thanks for sharing your insights and skills!

  • Mingzhao Xu
    Mingzhao Xu 29 дней назад

    Love the GOT stuff!

  • R A I N L O V E S
    R A I N L O V E S Месяц назад

    You can probably fit two tennis balls in his mouth

  • heomappro1
    heomappro1 Месяц назад

    Never a fan of neck shirt.

  • M M
    M M Месяц назад

    THE LIBRARY IS OPEN

  • Robbie Helson
    Robbie Helson Месяц назад

    You motivate me!

  • MrKey656
    MrKey656 Месяц назад

    you lost me dude

  • DeepFried Wat3rMel0n
    DeepFried Wat3rMel0n Месяц назад

    Dude have you considered being a model? Unless you have a micropenis you pretty much look like an ideal human being.

  • DeepFried Wat3rMel0n
    DeepFried Wat3rMel0n Месяц назад

    why do I feel like he could be a perfect Patrick Bateman.

  • Petru B
    Petru B Месяц назад

    To understand better put video on 0.5 speed

  • Skate 24/7
    Skate 24/7 Месяц назад +1

    me and you are similar on this subject

  • Edward Downs
    Edward Downs Месяц назад

    God smile

  • Peach Glow Reyah
    Peach Glow Reyah Месяц назад

    wow your teeth are amazing! xx

  • MaybeFancy
    MaybeFancy Месяц назад

    He talks with his hands so much

  • 57uff 57uff
    57uff 57uff Месяц назад

    Who is this Jew?

  • Gay Retard
    Gay Retard Месяц назад

    3:07 Payday 2 security guard confirmed.

  • Crystal Ann Paul RCBS
    Crystal Ann Paul RCBS Месяц назад

    Knew this guy, he was SUCH a social bee. Veeery charismatic! Knew exactly what to say to who and literally everybody liked him to the extend that they trusted him blindly. He was pretty good at the mind reading thing himself. Got closer to him.... Saw first hand how controlling, selfish and demanding he was. It was kinda scary tbh. He was like that all that while. He just hid it really well. He knew how to change his personality in order to read anyones mind and also make them like him more!

  • Onnethox
    Onnethox Месяц назад

    8:42 LMFAOO😂😂😂 good video man!

  • Politico Raso
    Politico Raso Месяц назад

    What you say is based on own experience ?, I think not, that you are too young and therefore everything is cardboard, inside you there is a small and dark being that seeks applause and admirers that are a notch in your revolver. A pity that you want to solve the life to others and have yours become a disaster. XD .....

  • Politico Raso
    Politico Raso Месяц назад

    Lo que dices ¿está basado en experiencia propia?, yo creo que no, que eres demasiado joven y por tanto todo es cartón, dentro hay un ser pequeño y oscuro que busca aplausos y admiradoras que supongan una muesca más en tu revolver. Una pena que quieras solucionar la vida a otros y tengas la tuya hecha un desastre. XD....

  • JamesSkuzz
    JamesSkuzz Месяц назад

    Can you do a video on how to smile properly. Thnx

  • Niel Augustinus
    Niel Augustinus Месяц назад

    I have watched a few videos so far ,and Charlie you have become my number 1 role model !Maybe it is my age talking(14) but you're AMAZING.

  • Monica Monroe
    Monica Monroe Месяц назад

    I loved the video

  • Shared Knowledge
    Shared Knowledge Месяц назад

    Please do Hervey Spector from Suits

  • sebastiano durgaj
    sebastiano durgaj Месяц назад

    could you suggest any book of charisma and psycology please

  • Horizebra
    Horizebra Месяц назад

    you are smart and hot woah

  • Ksana Karpenko
    Ksana Karpenko Месяц назад

    his movements are like from a 3D movie

  • MEGHA ARMY
    MEGHA ARMY Месяц назад

    WHAT HE'S SAYING IS SO ACCURATE. YOU JUST NEED TO SIMPLY OBSERVE. FOR EXAMPLE, IF YOU SEE A LADY IN THE BUS WITH A RING ON HER LEFT RING FINGER AND SHE WAS TALKING TO A FRIEND ABOUT THE DRESS SHE WORE AT A WEDDING AND SHE SEEMS EXTREMELY PASSIONATE ABOUT IT AND TALKING ABOUT THE GUESTS THAT WERE THERE YOU CAN ASSUME SHE'S NEWLY WED. OF COURSE THESE ARE REALLY SIMPLE SITUATIONS AND THINGS COULD ESCALATE TO A BIGGER SCALE AND THERE ARE LESS SIGNS WITH MORE INFORMATION THAN YOU THINK AND NOTICE SO TO UNDERSTAND AND PREDICT, YOU SIMPLY NEED TO OBSERVE AND ASK YOURSELF QUESTIONS LIKE WAS SHE DIVORCED AND THEN REMARRIED? BECAUSE HER FRIEND KEEPS EXAGGERATING HOW "OMAR IS SO MUCH BETTER THAN THAT DOUCHE NOAH. UGH I'M SO RELIEVED FATIMA. THIS IS A NEW START TO A BETTER LIFE". IT'S SIMPLE BUT YOU NEED TO NOTICE EVEN THE MOST SUBTLE HINTS THAT CAN GIVE AWAY SO MUCH INFORMATION FOR YOU TO BE INTERPERSONAL- SMART.

  • Ilija Vuletić
    Ilija Vuletić Месяц назад

    Your biceps are distracting me dude. no homo

  • Angela Torres
    Angela Torres Месяц назад

    hi charlie, i am watching this video for the first time and surely will watch your other videos. i'm very interested in reading and analyzing people's body language, reaction, and gestures. like you, i'm very observant to people because i wanna know the whys and hows of everything. a lot of learning ahead! thank you

    • Charisma on Command
      Charisma on Command  Месяц назад

      ~ Thanks for watching Angela! Feel free to subscribe for more videos if you haven't done so yet :-)


  • Shae Shero
    Shae Shero Месяц назад

    He pretty much looks like Connor Murphy lol

  • David Enright
    David Enright Месяц назад

    why do you always wear black? Is it similar to Steve Jobs' idea on clothes?

  • Electronics2hot
    Electronics2hot 2 месяца назад

    ur are smart motherfucker. why i say this is due to the amazing fact u've found a material to make a video and u have search in google and u know nothing about it and still u talk here jibberish. well done motherfucker good job

  • kate
    kate 2 месяца назад

    you have big hands

  • Andrew Guerrero
    Andrew Guerrero 2 месяца назад

    Why is the douche bag in the commercial always out of breath when giving advice lol

  • Karly Vilato
    Karly Vilato 2 месяца назад

    Thats cool

  • Michelle Jessica
    Michelle Jessica 2 месяца назад

    My question is how do you stop reading people. Like "turn it off" per say. Before I knew I had ADHD I just knew I talked alot, so I started reading people so I could know when to shut up or change the conversation. Anyhow without knowing exact tells as you say, i am able to read people quite well, but it sucks when it's something negative towards you. How do you deal with that?

  • aeralv
    aeralv 2 месяца назад

    Smile responsibly man! You're making me drunk. > ~ <

  • Antweezy
    Antweezy 2 месяца назад

    dang, you're good.

  • Juan Manuel Sanchez
    Juan Manuel Sanchez 2 месяца назад

    You have a great personality

  • Nefelibata
    Nefelibata 2 месяца назад

    You can't read me you asshat.

  • Karum Bored
    Karum Bored 2 месяца назад

    He looks like brendon urie from Panic! At the Disco

  • Tank
    Tank 2 месяца назад

    A-N-Y-O-N-E

  • candymountainn
    candymountainn 2 месяца назад

    "but don't go just yet" bye lmao

  • Maranda H
    Maranda H 2 месяца назад

    Hot damn young man, you are completely charismatic and captivating. Job well well done! Applause!!!

  • ملاك أبو شوشة
    ملاك أبو شوشة 2 месяца назад

    خخخخخ

  • Sean Carter
    Sean Carter 2 месяца назад

    WAYA LUKIN AT DA VIDEOS YA LUKIN AT?

  • mariana martinez
    mariana martinez 2 месяца назад

    UR SOOOO HOTTT

  • Kaizoku
    Kaizoku 2 месяца назад

    Staring contest challenge Charlie special edition, three levels:

    Level 1: 8:42
    Level 2: 8:43
    Level 3: 8:44


    Bonus level: 8:46
    Good luck.

  • Wonshuan 6
    Wonshuan 6 2 месяца назад

    First, look at the word as a whole. It's in all caps, so there's emphasis on it. Try reading the sentence up to that point to figure out exactly what kind of emphasis that is. Then, to the actual word. Start at the left and move your way to the right. First is A, in this case it's gonna sound like the word "eh." Next you see an N, nothing fancy here, just the N sound. The Y, in this case it makes the sound like E, so up to this point we have "eh-nee" or just the word "any." Got it? The next step is important here, the "O" is going to sound like it has a W on it, something like "Wuh." Just add an N on the end, and you've got it! The "E" doesn't really make any sound, it's just sorta there because it likes to force itself into everything. Most people actually get these sounds right, they just mess up the order. But if you get it right, you'll be sure to read the word "Anyone" perfectly.

  • mike g
    mike g 2 месяца назад

    i can read people...

  • Kevin Lobo
    Kevin Lobo 2 месяца назад

    3:44 Yes... Elsewhere... you know where

  • Lauzzy Asknes
    Lauzzy Asknes 2 месяца назад

    That smile... Super killer 😏😂😍

  • Chloe Clark
    Chloe Clark 2 месяца назад

    He looks like a character that would be in a virtual game.

  • ZaeTheOtaku
    ZaeTheOtaku 2 месяца назад

    I may be overconfident, but I'm pretty sure I was doing all this sub-consciously or semi-consciously.

  • Ayana Waves
    Ayana Waves 2 месяца назад

    Wtf u handsome

  • Dragons
    Dragons 2 месяца назад

    I am not the best a reading people but I can just tell when the video is about to end when a youtuber starts making really big hand jesters and say stuff like plz like, comment, and subscribe

  • Happy Sparrow
    Happy Sparrow 2 месяца назад

    I love that you say that charisma and magnetism are an aggregate of our mindset, not just something we are born with. The idea that I can work on this is great. I'm watching all your videos to implement your methods, what a helpful channel. I wish you could teach my boyfriend how to look like he's listening jk 😅

  • Happy Sparrow
    Happy Sparrow 2 месяца назад

    Haha, you testing the bug eye theory was hilarious!

  • Faith Oladele
    Faith Oladele 2 месяца назад

    what about texts? how would you ready anyone from texts because texts can be misunderstood quite easily, the reader's mental tone could be different from the writers.

  • Pedro Capusso
    Pedro Capusso 2 месяца назад

    You look like a Sim character that gets laid a lot.

    • Pedro Capusso
      Pedro Capusso 2 месяца назад

      Btw, your videos are great.


  • Jonny Williams
    Jonny Williams 2 месяца назад

    one thing is, if you've ever played the "whats the password" game, after playing a few times, say something random and funny



    they will start considering whether to let you in or not

  • José Luis Fernández Somarriba
    José Luis Fernández Somarriba 2 месяца назад

    I think your advantage probably comes from some kind of autism or asperger disorder, the unability to actually just fell the natural interaction guided you into a model where you could quantify the probability of a reaction.

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