How To Read ANYONE

  • Опубликовано: 13 май 2016
  • How To Read ANYONE
    Today we are going to cover the skill of reading people. Which is an awesome skill - to be able to know what someone is thinking or feeling will save you a lot of grief. You won’t look silly talking to someone who is not interested, you’ll get a better of idea of who is interested and isn’t saying anything.
    But we won’t stop there
    Because one of the most amazing things that developing your ability to read an individual does is that it enables you to improve. And I saw in the comments, a lot of you were asking what I studied to be able to do the charisma breakdowns - truly there was no class - it was just a matter of doing these steps over and over. And there is a science to it.
    So let’s get into
    1. Increase self-awareness
    2. Find where their attention is (eye contact is huge)
    3. Get good at identifying micro-expressions, potentially use this site:
    4. Identify common patterns
    5. Make predictions based on people's body language
    6. Experiment in your own life
    Hope you find that helpful in identifying the body language to read people.
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Комментарии • 3 823

  • Kay Sandoval
    Kay Sandoval День назад

    Are your teeth real?

  • s0mebody irre1evant
    s0mebody irre1evant День назад

    Me: *watches this*
    Friend: *sits next to me*
    Me: You hate me don't you? You think I'm creepy and that I seem annoying. You have a suspicion that I have a crush on the same person as you and you want to eliminate the competition, even though I very obviously have no chance.
    Friend: ...
    Me: ...
    Friend: *backs away slowly*

  • TheAssassin409
    TheAssassin409 3 дня назад

    for the record, i got 0% on that 10 question microexpression test.

  • Lu cy
    Lu cy 4 дня назад

    U have a beautiful smile

  • Star Baby
    Star Baby 5 дней назад

    I can’t read i bon’t get it I am only 8

  • Mariam Arshad
    Mariam Arshad 6 дней назад

    Love this dude

  • Krista Sprinkle
    Krista Sprinkle 7 дней назад

    You think that's what they refer to as giants in the bible?

  • Krista Sprinkle
    Krista Sprinkle 7 дней назад

    I'm experimenting and I can see your aura and your energy. With the skilled body language your aura makes you twice your size

  • Anthony Silva
    Anthony Silva 7 дней назад

    Guys im doing a cheating its becuase im doing my homework

  • Ed Findlay
    Ed Findlay 7 дней назад

    I just don't trust this guy. I'll save you 11 minutes. Just ask how they feel about Trump.

  • Kavya Aggarwal
    Kavya Aggarwal 7 дней назад

    Wow! I like your channel! You gained a subscribe and obviously a like too.....

    • Charisma on Command
      Charisma on Command  4 дня назад

      ~ Glad you're liking the channel Kavya! Welcome onboard. :-)

  • Fishy Fisch
    Fishy Fisch 10 дней назад

    If it weren't for my social anxiety of my introversion, I might be able to understand the body language easier.

  • Freya the Valkyrie
    Freya the Valkyrie 11 дней назад +1

    Watching so much RHOA. Hahahaha

  • Ilanie B
    Ilanie B 11 дней назад

    I am self aware and realise some of this body language bur then I concentrate so hard on my own Body language and then I fewl really awkward.

  • Ima NinjaPig
    Ima NinjaPig 12 дней назад

    I figured out yesterday that I am unusually good at reading people and there repressed emotions

  • Me High
    Me High 14 дней назад

    Girls be like:
    -yes daddy, read mee, harder.

  • jadams
    jadams 14 дней назад

    Thank you so much. This video has helped much so!

  • saikrishna parshi
    saikrishna parshi 16 дней назад

    I don't know if it's anything specific with me, but whenever people talk and behave the way you did in the video I automatically distrust and am put off by them. A lot of people see it as confident and convincing speaking, but I only ever see it used by salesmen and people trying to sell me something. It always seems like they're over acting and putting way too much thought into making their movements and voice friendly and convincing to try to reel people in. Which I guess works on some people, but I'm always really bothered by it. I don't know if anyone else feels the same way or if there's a more detailed explanation to it. 14MSE0331

  • Bottle of Rakija
    Bottle of Rakija 20 дней назад

    Well...the amount of stuff i genuinely never knew about makes md think im prob a psycho...then again i searched "how to undestand what people are feeling"

  • funitude
    funitude 22 дня назад

    I feel like I am listening to an automaton, or a ten year old trying to explain something about himself.

  • superreuben14
    superreuben14 23 дня назад

    dude comb your hair

  • Deep Bhaisare
    Deep Bhaisare 24 дня назад

    You need to restrict loud hand gestures!

  • hospitalcakewalk
    hospitalcakewalk 28 дней назад

    I'm INTP so I can predict anything. Reading emotions is extremely hard but body language is easy....

  • Роман Плетнев
    Роман Плетнев 28 дней назад

    dude why are you smiling so much? You're great with straight face but I dunno this smiling just looks creepy and fake-ish

  • Joe Harrison
    Joe Harrison Месяц назад

    Here, read this: anyone

  • Forrest Munden
    Forrest Munden Месяц назад

    1 minute if annoying body language is all it took for me to leave this video

  • Alan Ramirez
    Alan Ramirez Месяц назад

    Yeah Sherlock Holmes it...yeah I do this all the time 😌

  • This is Bronze
    This is Bronze Месяц назад

    Forcing your palms to show up, forcing your posture, everything seems forced, but nice try bro.

  • john marston
    john marston Месяц назад

    your body language man

  • Success Caliber Daniel Han
    Success Caliber Daniel Han Месяц назад

    great content man Love

  • TheCoolestKian
    TheCoolestKian Месяц назад

    I came to this video so I could learn how to read the word. I still can’t read it. Click bait.

  • killerflash123
    killerflash123 Месяц назад

    How do you guess commit on a video

  • marixsa santos
    marixsa santos Месяц назад

    I can't stare at people because my glare is so strong it can come off as too assertive, aggressive or scare them (some have told me) so I tend to look down at their chin rather than their eyes and this can sometime be read the wrong way (as shy, clueless, or not caring which most of the time it's not true)

  • marian čejka
    marian čejka Месяц назад

    dude? are u using lipstick? :D lol

  • phoenix_king04
    phoenix_king04 Месяц назад

    "professional skater"

  • Lord Nia
    Lord Nia Месяц назад

    U can be a great friend for everyone!

  • Regi F.
    Regi F. Месяц назад

    awwww his smile is so cute

  • Questhero101
    Questhero101 Месяц назад

    "To read others, you have to read yourself."
    *_W O K E_*

  • Yvette Smith
    Yvette Smith Месяц назад


  • Yvette Smith
    Yvette Smith Месяц назад

    I felt the same about this once.....true , sorry to say that is how I explain what I do!!

  • Yvette Smith
    Yvette Smith Месяц назад


  • Ramayana Roxas
    Ramayana Roxas Месяц назад


  • graham watts
    graham watts Месяц назад

    Been really enjoying your great videos,...ive learned so much in such a short time. Very important to improve our interations...thanks so much!

  • Benson Zhu
    Benson Zhu Месяц назад

    I thought the title said HOW TO READ. Like books and stuff LOL. I was like Wtf

  • Shazzkid
    Shazzkid Месяц назад +1

    The hand gestures are a nice touch, bit deliberate tho, especially with the frame aligned to show them.

  • Luvo Vevo
    Luvo Vevo Месяц назад

    Lmao I thought he meant drag queen read people lmao nvm

  • Professor Neila
    Professor Neila Месяц назад

    Hi thank you for making these videos. I can see you're very good at this but at the same time youre not an asshole.
    In particular, thank you for writing the summary. The summary is fantastic! Please keep it up and please continue writing a short summary in every video thank you.

  • Taz
    Taz Месяц назад

    He gives me a friend vibe with the personality he’s showing, that’s what I’m like and it’s what I’m trying to move away from to become more like mysterious cuz that’s always the person I’m more drawn to...

  • Ravikanth Iyer
    Ravikanth Iyer Месяц назад


  • I Am The Champ
    I Am The Champ Месяц назад +1

    Yeah Charlie !!!!!!!!! thank you very much

  • butti aassdd
    butti aassdd Месяц назад

    I wish they made a video about How to "Read Someone to Filth".
    any ways i enjoyed trying to implement and use the techniques in this video. Nice work!!

  • dani k
    dani k Месяц назад

    He sort of looks like Reggie from Riverdale

  • dani k
    dani k Месяц назад

    I want to work for CSIS as like an agent, so I will need to know how to profile someone.

  • Sky Leonidas
    Sky Leonidas Месяц назад

    goddamm i hate you soo much and i dont know why

  • Lotta Krap
    Lotta Krap Месяц назад +1

    I’m a misanthrope

  • Billy Barbosa
    Billy Barbosa Месяц назад

    I can't be the only one who thinks this has a SCARY amount of views

  • Isaac Herod
    Isaac Herod Месяц назад

    It all lies in those micro-expressions. Its more intuitive than you lead on though. Not that it can't be learned, just that its gonna be pretty hard to get the hang of it.

  • Fadila xq
    Fadila xq Месяц назад

    That big eye thing tho 😂

  • Jesús Ginard
    Jesús Ginard Месяц назад

    I've never seen a bigger mouth in my life

  • K Vedisha
    K Vedisha 2 месяца назад

    Can u please do a vedio on how to know a person is prevent or not

  • Baked Bacon
    Baked Bacon 2 месяца назад

    ok and if u read people what can u do with it?

  • silvermoonshineX3
    silvermoonshineX3 2 месяца назад

    do you know the Myers-briggs personality type indicator? This sounds a lot like the INFJ type. They appear to have a "sixth sense" for predicting stuff, when actually they are just reaally good at seeing patterns, just like you said! wow

  • John Pham
    John Pham 2 месяца назад

    I can literally read anyone it's so easy like just watch

  • Adam
    Adam 2 месяца назад

    Taking that test has made me realise have have very little empathy

  • Ug Lee
    Ug Lee 2 месяца назад

    that's a cool t-shirt!

  • 작세사
    작세사 2 месяца назад

    People who have self-awareness are hard to read as their behaviour could be deceptive or balanced-out, what is more accurate will be simply listen and not get influenced by the actions they show.

  • Dr. Mr. Jeff
    Dr. Mr. Jeff 2 месяца назад

    your body reminds me of CGI for some reason...

  • Brian A
    Brian A 2 месяца назад

    I just found this guy. very interesting videos but i can't tell if it's just this guys own opinions and observations or did he study this somewhere

  • potorrero
    potorrero 2 месяца назад

    Your facial expressions makes you look like a male version of Cameron Diaz. :D

  • Reality Guy
    Reality Guy 2 месяца назад

    i call it "people observation" and i often do that... maybe that's the reason why people call me annoying and make them admitt their mistake

  • Adrian Eriksen
    Adrian Eriksen 2 месяца назад

    thank you

  • Is This Rain?
    Is This Rain? 2 месяца назад

    Jim Clemente (FBI profiler) said that the best way to practice your profiling is by sitting in a public space, listening to a random person's conversation (a person you do not know), and making justified conclusions on their intents and origins.

  • anne weber
    anne weber 2 месяца назад

    This one was more about how one is perceived by others, rather than how to read what other people may be thinking, about you or about whatever the topic

  • manuel villarreal
    manuel villarreal 2 месяца назад

    I love this video so much, you articulated something I have been wanting to convey to my wife for such a long time. THANK YOU!

  • Peyton Robinson
    Peyton Robinson 2 месяца назад

    Thank god. I'm trying to learn and observe other people since I can hardly send a simple "thanks" without double-checking fifty times. These tips really helped me.

  • Asher Yin
    Asher Yin 2 месяца назад

    3:03 you’re welcome

  • big nosed train
    big nosed train 2 месяца назад

    You look like Martin Garrix!

  • Hizkil Cassamo
    Hizkil Cassamo 2 месяца назад


  • Aragorn Arathorn
    Aragorn Arathorn 2 месяца назад

    Why do I get the sense that for someone who makes videos about how to get charisma, you practically have none? You seem to be on the one hand boring and on the other twerpy.

  • Energy Life
    Energy Life 2 месяца назад


  • Dan Berlin
    Dan Berlin 2 месяца назад

    What kind of lights do you use to get that light and background?

  • Amber Chaba
    Amber Chaba 2 месяца назад

    This was a good break down. Im good at reading people as is but i think this can further it.

  • Liv Eithing Maze
    Liv Eithing Maze 2 месяца назад

    That may be the blackest shirt I think I've ever seen.

  • Mr. Strawberry
    Mr. Strawberry 2 месяца назад

    I am one of the easiest people to read when a hot girl does eye contact with me I blush

  • Thomas Gannon
    Thomas Gannon 2 месяца назад

    God your mouth is massive!

  • Gen Kyo
    Gen Kyo 2 месяца назад

    If he has put on 40 pounds, how does he still have the same size and weight?

  • Rabie Guella
    Rabie Guella 2 месяца назад

    AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Read a book brah!

  • caskyy
    caskyy 2 месяца назад

    i thought read in like throwing shade oops......

  • A Mishel
    A Mishel 2 месяца назад

    IMHO charisma IS inherited, like height, eye color, perfect pitch etc. But it can be improved, and you are a great teacher.

  • Isabela Sabau
    Isabela Sabau 2 месяца назад

    This is so cool. I am passionate about body language and I really liked this video. It was si funny when I heard you telling about predictions because this is what i usually do.

  • This is howit's done
    This is howit's done 2 месяца назад

    You points are fantastic. I'd like to suggest an improvement to your speaking style. You switch mid sentence from descriptive speech to dialogue. This is distracting, and destroys thought patterns. It's hard to follow.

  • imicca
    imicca 2 месяца назад

    90% of what you said can work as long as you are ARTICULATE and careful with your words, pacing and intelligence of word choice.

  • Fiasel Almanea
    Fiasel Almanea 2 месяца назад

    I know a guy who doesn’t know anything you’re talking about but he does it well enough to know not to teach others
    That’s I think natural not gained but I think anyone can gain it through watching your videos 👌🏽👍🏼👍🏼

  • David Bowen
    David Bowen 2 месяца назад

    Can't take you too seriously with that Emo hair cut, given that your subject matter is charisma XD

  • Anthony Vescio
    Anthony Vescio 2 месяца назад

    I hate when speakers are taught to communicate more with their hands and then you can tell that they were taught to communicate more with their hands. #unnatural

  • real rap
    real rap 2 месяца назад


  • dallvin nilson
    dallvin nilson 3 месяца назад

    im 12 and every Girl in my class loves me because i make them feel good and they say im funny , i dont have so many friends though. Theyre like obsessed with me even though im not charismatic or something . I can read them clearly and sometimes i even manipulate them but not in a bad way . I just make Experiments . ;D like this comment if i should Show you a simple but powerfull technique to manipulate People especially Girls or just every human being (its harmless, it doesnt hurt anyone)
    btw i have one question : am i a Psychopath or a narcissist ?

  • Dish Laydie
    Dish Laydie 3 месяца назад

    I love your video topics, but is there a way to make them shorter, maybe 5 min?

  • TheShanshuprophecy
    TheShanshuprophecy 3 месяца назад

    Great clip but I don’t think it’s really about reading people but rather how to pay attention to general social cues - there’s a big difference - I don’t think there is one actual example or suggestion in the whole clip on reading a specific person - maybe be a little more careful with your titling? 😊

  • Ngawang Kalden
    Ngawang Kalden 3 месяца назад

    i found the metro man