What Makes a Trans Chick "Cool"?

  • Published on May 20, 2016
  • Bearing has the answer-just be more like Blaire White!
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Comments • 1 477

  • Demonsplaining
    Demonsplaining 3 days ago

    Why is Blaire White talking to the bear from Total Drama Island?

  • Pafemanti
    Pafemanti 5 days ago

    _Rocky Balboa_ ??? Did you mean Dr. Frank-N-Furter, of the _Rocky_ Horror Picture Show? :-)

  • Nonya Bees wax
    Nonya Bees wax 18 days ago

    When are you coming back girlie. We miss you

  • shortforsophie
    shortforsophie 20 days ago

    It’s not coddling or infantilizing someone to treat them with the same respect you’d show any other human being.
    But then again, I tend to err on the side of “don’t fucking damage other humans!!” Like, if you’re being a dick, I will tell you so, regardless of whom you’re telling to drink poison...
    If some individuals find that offensive, that’s fine, I can refrain from advocating on their particular behalf.

  • Emma Cat
    Emma Cat 25 days ago +1

    Female and male privilege don't exist. Attractive person privilege and wealth privilege exist, but gender privilege doesn't exist.

  • Emma Cat
    Emma Cat 25 days ago +1

    When I was more unattractive, I was treated like shit. When I got a little more conventionally attractive, men started being nicer to me. Like, when I started wearing makeup, when I lost some weight, covered up my acne, etc., men would do things like buy me drinks, hold doors for me, ask for my number. Sometimes I got unwanted attention, but overall my experience as a 7-7.5 versus being a 2-3 was immensely better.

  • Emma Cat
    Emma Cat 25 days ago +1

    When I was more unattractive, I was treated like shit. When I got a little more conventionally attractive, people started being nicer to me. Like, when I started wearing makeup, when I lost some weight, covered up my acne, etc., people would do things like buy me drinks, hold doors for me, ask for my number. Sometimes I got unwanted attention, but overall my experience as a 7-7.5 versus being a 2-3 was immensely better.

  • Hannah Thompson
    Hannah Thompson 26 days ago +1

    I love how the first surgery that comes to mind for her is FFS, which is what she ended up getting

  • Cookitwith Lemon
    Cookitwith Lemon 29 days ago

    I do agree, the only comment I’d make to people before they comment.
    Look for the context of her statements and if she doesn’t explicitly say she’s referring to her trans status then presume she isn’t.
    While she shouldn’t speak for all women, considering her extremely traumatic experience it is fair for Blaire to take time and decide for herself how she wants to view herself in regards to her own trauma and the rapist that made her a victim. Not everything she says is explicitly about gender and not all of the comments made about being a victim were in reference to the trans communities legitimacy as victims of our current society. It’s not an excuse for her into,eralance and insensitivity but wether she likes it or not she is a rape victim and from personal experience we can’t change our consent or that we were victimised but we can choose not to view ourselves on a continuing basis, as a victim, that’s her personal coping mechanism and it will undoubtedly bleed into her views on and her rejection of anything that categorises her as a woman. I don’t have the platform to effect others the way that she can but if my close circle were filled with educated feminists I’m sure they would correct my emotional rankings that I’m not a victim just because I’m a woman, that I wasn’t a victim before I was raped, quite rightly they point out that while they aren’t mutually exclusive, the chances were higher. Less on that and more words to express that it could be a coping mechanism, infact, it is, that girl is hurting, that girl is angry, that girl feels denied of her strength and like contra, she is evolving on a platform, everyone goes through puberty and needs time to find themselves post transition, everything she says could be irrelevant in a year, she could fully understand her relationship with victimisation and stop using her platform to project those issues onto the community at large.
    I fully accept I could be wrong, I often am, it’s not wrong to call her out but have in mind the context of her incredibly painful experience being forced to feels like her wants and needs are absolutely nothing for another’s sexual satisfaction, it’s incredibly humiliating to be treated this way and even when we think we’ve fully rebuilt ourselves we still construct our personality around what is easy, digestible, in my experience, wanting to be whatever would make the type of person that victimised me think I was worth respecting, listening to and realistically, obtaining consent from. But hey, that’s just a theory, a victim theory. Before I hit send. I do not condone the suffering of so much as a mosquito, I respect everybody’s rights and everybody’s pain I just think Contrapoints channel is a place of nuance and while her points all stand for the topic itself, blaire isn’t a topic, she’s a person and these are the lines we should all read between, she’s not cancer, she’s not truscum, she is a survivor who is in transition and thinks the only way to not hate herself is to set herself apart from what she considers the reason people hate her community, on this occasion that is victimhood, the more we understand that the less pain and outrage she’s capable of causing with her public platform.
    Happy to be corrected if I’m wrong, I’m the first to admit that I project my own experience and have a distorted and unhealthy across the board empathy, (that says correct me, not roast me, otherwise, have at it.)

  • Chocolate Rocket
    Chocolate Rocket Month ago +3

    Contra is RUclip's real coolest trans chick

    THE SHY SPOONER Month ago

    I'm trans and I don't care if you talk about my junk. Do I want to chop it off, even while writing this? yes.

  • Pogo the Clown
    Pogo the Clown Month ago

    what's wrong with slobs that have bulbous guts

  • Allisin Mztrx
    Allisin Mztrx Month ago


  • Gnostic atheist
    Gnostic atheist Month ago

    I think you didn't want to accept the the existence of female privilege because deep down you knew you where female

  • diego chica
    diego chica Month ago

    I can't look away@!!

  • PewDiePies Dingleberries

    Lmao fuckin dingdongs!

  • Man Spreader
    Man Spreader Month ago

    sorry weirdos,nothing cool about gender dysphoria and nothing cool about you either

  • Lord Colin
    Lord Colin Month ago +1

    I would nail jesus to a cross for an apple right now.

  • carolyn williams
    carolyn williams Month ago +1

    milo is such a piece of shit

  • Study of Gaming
    Study of Gaming Month ago

    Love the Dark Brotherhood reference.

  • cerulean blue
    cerulean blue Month ago

    He was so hot as a mangina 😭

  • Sarah Acuff
    Sarah Acuff Month ago

    i’d love to see her revisit this topic now

  • Hayden Ross
    Hayden Ross Month ago

    Oof "im not trans" hunny i got some news for you

  • risha a
    risha a Month ago

    im a woman and ppl dont smile at me

  • Vitor Seincê
    Vitor Seincê Month ago

    Fuck, I used to be subscribed to both these assholes...

  • Tokiroonie WaroonieTooth

    Love the dark brotherhood reference

  • HyperSpify
    HyperSpify Month ago

    1:32 this is so ironic given Contra's latest video

  • Matty B
    Matty B Month ago +1

    “Im not trans and I don’t know what it’s like to be trans”. Oh how times have changed

  • Breast Milk Alabama
    Breast Milk Alabama Month ago +1

    Now you have almost 2x more subs than him

  • Breast Milk Alabama

    When contrapoints was a man

  • Ana Caeiro
    Ana Caeiro Month ago

    7:29 interesting u seem to have no idea

  • Luxam
    Luxam 2 months ago

    Guess what Natalie, YOU are the coolest trans chick on RUclip now. Move over Blaire.

  • Zadie Fluxx
    Zadie Fluxx 2 months ago

    Blaire whiteboard thriving this channel is dead news

  • K C
    K C 2 months ago +1

    "violence begets trans people"? She may also be the coolest trans chick in this asshole's eyes because she feeds nicely into the (false) idea that women are fucking idiots.

  • Leo Oel
    Leo Oel 2 months ago

    Wow...um...sexy man...but I respect the transition...BUT...wow...

  • marshland dickhole
    marshland dickhole 2 months ago +1

    As an Australian, i am ashamed on behalf of this man. You wanna bring bears down to your level too, bro?

  • Elsie Chicken
    Elsie Chicken 2 months ago +1

    ok,,,, so tiffany tumbles is on the freedom report. life imitates art i guess

  • Somebresome
    Somebresome 2 months ago

    Blaire White? More like Blaire Witch, yameen?

  • Arno Nym
    Arno Nym 2 months ago

    If there is worshiping of Our beloved holy mother Anita Sarkeesian i must smash that like-Button!!

  • Matt Trulock
    Matt Trulock 2 months ago

    If there’s anyone I’d listen to about which trans person is the “real” trans person, it’d be the failed musician who had to change his entire image because he traced a cartoon bear

  • Christian Toomey
    Christian Toomey 3 months ago

    I laugh at that intro everytime

  • leah
    leah 3 months ago +1

    wow milo stewart is in the video they went to my school that’s crazy

    • Kcaj Does Stuff
      Kcaj Does Stuff 3 months ago

      @leah That's really cool

    • leah
      leah 3 months ago +1

      Kcaj Does Stuff yup. they were a year older than me and we had biology together

    • Kcaj Does Stuff
      Kcaj Does Stuff 3 months ago


  • Jaxon Basra
    Jaxon Basra 3 months ago +4

    If only people who look and act like women should be allowed in Women's bathrooms, does that mean Butch Lesbians should also be excluded? And if they are worried about people who "aren't woman enough" coming into women's bathrooms, shouldn't gay men also be excluded because they don't correspond to the typical image of a man?

  • Bebx
    Bebx 3 months ago +1

    Contra = eggg

  • richie rich
    richie rich 3 months ago +3

    She told me to blow myself with a blow torch- owwwwwwwwwwwww 😂😂😂 why are you so hilarious

  • richie rich
    richie rich 3 months ago +3

    I think she confused the privilege of being a woman with pretty privilege... there’s a difference

  • ScattySafari
    ScattySafari 3 months ago +8

    "I'm not a victim. I'm NOT a victim!" Ok Tiffan-oops I mean Blaire.

  • Young Leaper
    Young Leaper 3 months ago

    Trans people are the most honestly people in the world, especially in 2019

  • Dominic D'Cocco
    Dominic D'Cocco 3 months ago

    Where are the spanish subtitles, dude?
    The Latinoamerican people need them.

  • evelyn forever
    evelyn forever 3 months ago +1

    guys, Blair was violently raped before she transitioned.. she talks about it in her video with shane.

    • Kcaj Does Stuff
      Kcaj Does Stuff 3 months ago +4

      I don't know the context on this, but why does that change anything?

  • Asdfg Asdfg
    Asdfg Asdfg 3 months ago +6

    Ah, vintage Contrapoints🍷🍷🍷☺️

  • Kamilla Gunzinger
    Kamilla Gunzinger 3 months ago +9

    So Blair is a transwoman equivalent of "I'm not like other girls~"

  • Maxwell
    Maxwell 3 months ago +3

    lmao she thought she wasn't trans

  • isarule
    isarule 3 months ago +3

    Blaire saying we should be happy that ‘people’ (men) open doors for us and smile at us (women smile too but what’s the real “privilege” in women smiling at women) is the same argument that people use when they say we should we happy that men cat call us. It’s stupid. Like, I open doors for men and I smile at men do they don’t receive some degree of privilege for that? Oh wait

  • Bert
    Bert 3 months ago +6

    hearing Natalie’s voice pre transition is WILD
    she’s come so far and I’m so proud of her journey

  • Mysllaw M.
    Mysllaw M. 3 months ago +6

    "not challenging the status quo is the new punk rock" - Blaire White

  • Scally Cowell
    Scally Cowell 3 months ago +2

    Ah, tokens.
    Otherwise know as, “I like you only because you’re a minority that’s useful to my bigoted narrative only by the way of you parroting it, however if you ever stop saying what I want you to, I’ll throw you under the bus without hesitation.”
    These types of people think that being a house slave is better than being a field slave, instead of asking why they’d want to be a slave in the begin with.
    Her and Milo both.

  • Ellie G.
    Ellie G. 3 months ago +1

    as a cis person, i have privileges. as a woman, i do not. as a person with a moderately conventionally cute face, i have privileges. it ain't that deep blaire, your privileges are because you're gorgeous.

  • Sarah
    Sarah 3 months ago +3

    Blaire is the original “not like other trans women” trans woman #notlikeothertranswomen #imacooltranswoman

  • Sarah
    Sarah 3 months ago +2

    The questions he was asking her..:what a disgusting pig. Who is that loser anyways? Actually spare me I could not give a shit