we broke up!

  • Published on Sep 11, 2019
  • Breaking up is hard, but this ones a good break up.
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  • Joe Jitsukawa
    Joe Jitsukawa  Month ago +968

    I’m trying to go down and like every comment to show that I read it. All the love and hate included. It doesn’t mean I agree with anyone, especially the hate toward Jess. Fuck you losers that have any hate for her.

      ORTHEAUX 14 days ago

      wishing you both the best of luck in your futures! breakups are natural, and i’ve been a quiet supporter of the JK team since i was a teenager. saw y’all get together, watched bart & geo go from long term to when they got married & saw them have their son, was there when julia arrived *and* when she left, and when gina was a new face and david was making goofy commentary videos before the commentary community even existed.
      i’ll have respect for y’all together and separately and i really hope that you guys can handle your business in private without too much speculation from any randoms(including me lmao! but i’m not gonna do ya like that). really, take care of yourselves and keep on keepin’ on! joemalia is standing strong! 💪🌻✨

    • SD Kitty
      SD Kitty 17 days ago

      Joe Jitsukawa it’s no ones fault you guys do what’s best for you, best of luck

    • Yap Harry
      Yap Harry 25 days ago +1

      I'm actually gg thru the same shit as you, 5 lovely years but we were v different. Weren't meant to be but things happen :'( But idk how to cope w it. She really want to be best friends but its just so difficult as we spent a huge amt of time of our life tgt and i still have feelings for her

    • john t
      john t 27 days ago

      We got haters commenting on us for show y'all love. Ha for no reason at all. It comes with the territory. Stay up bro.

    • black cricket
      black cricket 28 days ago

      Lmao you absolute cornball

  • Krista DeF
    Krista DeF 14 hours ago

    The respect is remarkable I hope to have that. Respect, I haven’t had any of it yet from male partners. I look forward to one day where I’m so adult and so is my partner that we can speak this way to one another.

  • Nostalgic Millennial

    He's an Aries she's a Cancer so....

  • Sincerly Nobody
    Sincerly Nobody Day ago

    40:55 song?

  • Danny D
    Danny D 2 days ago

    Imagine at the end they start making out and having sex infront of cam and they r like, " u know what we r back" 😂 sorry Joe. Just had to do that

  • Danny D
    Danny D 2 days ago

    All the girl fan of joe like, m single.

  • Danny D
    Danny D 2 days ago

    Jeeeeez. Can u guys stop. Wtf. 9:00. "U were my first love" jeeeeez. Don't kill me. Watching Joe romantic side is like just another level.

  • Danny D
    Danny D 2 days ago

    Sorry. Not tryna make fun of the situation but 8:50, I felt like they had a moment and they gonna kiss.

  • Danny D
    Danny D 2 days ago

    Dayum. I don't know what's it like to have like a maturity breakup. What do u need to be able to some like that

  • Danny D
    Danny D 2 days ago

    Dayuuuum. Jeeeeez. I am always a Joe fan. Dont know why I unsubscribed? But after awhile I watched his video and it's a sad video. This is like a sad scene of a movie.

  • Danny D
    Danny D 2 days ago

    Dayum. I feel like Joe's gonna cry. Now I feel sad too. Jeeeez. Wtf.

  • Ivan Siu
    Ivan Siu 2 days ago

    Its heart breaking to watch. But I completely understand the whole thing about separate through understanding. It's very mature and rational decision that both of you have made. Stay strong.

  • Che Clawvara
    Che Clawvara 3 days ago +1

    This is a VERY healthy break up.
    You guys did it RIGHT!
    All in all: I wish nothing but the best for you two, I wish you guys luck in the dating pool (however long it takes), and thank you both for the memories, for sharing the relationship as well as it's ending with us. I am so happy Jess isn't leaving JK or the podcast and it means a lot that you two are gonna still be friends. Love you both!

  • Derrick Wong
    Derrick Wong 5 days ago +2

    One of the most mature breakups on youtube

  • KillKau6Minit Youtube Channel

    I HOPE jess not taking drug this time

  • Veggies by Eos
    Veggies by Eos 6 days ago

    I'm going through exactly this right now, and it's so so fucking hard. I know exactly how you guys feel. I'm working to try to feel better every day but I haven't felt better yet. I hope I do soon. Love you guys though. At least I know I'm not alone in going through this.

  • David Motiri
    David Motiri 7 days ago

    This really hurt me,..especially seeing Jess cry.

  • j0epark1
    j0epark1 7 days ago +2

    You can tell Joe still wanted to be with her. 🥺

  • Jack Middleton
    Jack Middleton 7 days ago

    Was it so bad that neither of you have to wonder if you will ever find better?

  • wafflepiepancake
    wafflepiepancake 8 days ago +2

    Tl;dr -
    Joe doesn’t want to commit/have family/kids yet. Jess does

  • Sasha Bharti
    Sasha Bharti 9 days ago +4

    My grandmother use to say : everything that life throws at you is designed to split couples up , money , jobs ,moving houses you name it. So if things don’t work out it’s perfectly ok it’s obviously not the right time for the two of you who knows maybe in the future things will be right . Being in a relationship that doesn’t work is detrimental for the both of you in the long run! Treasure the good memories you had because life doesn’t give you many of them ! I applaud the both of you for realising that this wasn’t working ! Time really heals all wounds !

  • Manda Panda G
    Manda Panda G 9 days ago +1

    😭 I watched this a second time bc I need these feels. I talked to someone close to me yesterday and was a little blindsided with her telling me that she wants to leave her husband and she just isn't attracted to him anymore in that way. He seemed so delusional to it. She told him a few weeks ago and he isn't accepting it. It's so sad. The whole situation. And my relationship is (and has been for awhile) being so tested. Seeing Joe be so emotionally honest is so cathartic. You can tell that he still loves jess so much but knows they aren't right together. It's so tough when you don't feel like yourself anymore. You can see the heavy emotion and also see a weight being lifted. I'm sorry that you have to explain yourself to the youtube world as well as friends and family. I'm sure that's so hard. I've watched jk news and some other videos since, sorry to give you a comment notification on this, if you even see it, but i needed the feels i guess today. It's a hard day for me and its nice to see a video like this. Thank you for being so honest. 😭

  • LAX2SanGabriel
    LAX2SanGabriel 9 days ago

    The word is: compatability.

  • Katlin Garduño
    Katlin Garduño 9 days ago +1

    Damn I thought y’all were gonna get married

  • OK_V
    OK_V 11 days ago +1

    *Move over David and Liza we got a new breakup I won't get over 😭😭*

  • beastmasterbg
    beastmasterbg 11 days ago

    seems like shes dumping him

  • Bridget Robinson
    Bridget Robinson 11 days ago

    I don’t have time to watch the full video someone tell me why they broke up

  • Aurii Chan
    Aurii Chan 12 days ago

    finally got through and watched the whole thing and making me think about my relationship oof... im gonna go be a puddle in my bed now...

  • Iyam Casimiro
    Iyam Casimiro 12 days ago


  • `Theultrayoshi `
    `Theultrayoshi ` 12 days ago

    ngl 7 ads is overkill

  • lamoskgr Moskow
    lamoskgr Moskow 12 days ago

    Damn, I don't know why this is so heartbreaking to watch. Had I known earlier, I would have definitely prayed for this relationship to work

  • lamoskgr Moskow
    lamoskgr Moskow 12 days ago

    I can't hide that I really wanted you guys to last. But that's life. We love Jessica because she brought up a different side of Joe. I wish you guys the best. Happiness in whatever form ❤️

  • Alexander TC
    Alexander TC 13 days ago


  • louis delarampe
    louis delarampe 13 days ago +2

    I haven't been keeping up with jknews lately. I watched Bart's vlog in Hawaï, when I saw my nibba Joe alone, I knew something like this has happened... :(

  • Paula boss
    Paula boss 14 days ago

    Honestly as long you guys are happy that matters fuck what ppl say it all matter if you guys are in good terms.

  • Kevin Luong Official
    Kevin Luong Official 14 days ago

    I would've just called it a 'shit test' women throw that test at men

  • MattVega
    MattVega 14 days ago +2

    Smh. It’s funny how she said “ you’re such a nice guy , you don’t fire anyone, even if they don’t belong anymore” lol

  • goku son
    goku son 14 days ago

    Woahhhhh that fanart izzz coool bro

  • Analie H
    Analie H 16 days ago

    We love you guys regardless! I hope this brings you both more happiness and joy in life ❤️

  • mbr715
    mbr715 17 days ago


  • XiTe
    XiTe 17 days ago +3

    Bro, you dodged a bullet.

  • James Wisrik
    James Wisrik 17 days ago +2

    Next! Wait until they start dating others.... you guys will date others with in days and weeks!

  • James Wisrik
    James Wisrik 17 days ago +2

    You wanted to adapt 4 African kids, 2 Russian girls, 5 Canadians boys, but other person didn't. It became boring. I think she likes chicks and he wants more sushi!

  • Erika Redfield
    Erika Redfield 17 days ago +3

    Anyone else notice Jess has now deleted her channel? Or maybe just privated it? It's disappointing, but on the other hand it seemed pretty clear in most videos that she wasn't enjoying being a youtuber, so I'm glad she's doing what she meeds to do. Just disappointed that we're not seeing her in any videos recently on Jknews, Hey Bitch, etc.

  • Smita More
    Smita More 18 days ago

    But I couldn’t watch full video it’s sad I’m crying. I think that’s fine... and we understand things happen. Hoping really good for both of u and specially for Jess she is such a good soul.

    GLOBAL POSER 18 days ago

    Never be cool with breaking up...but as long as ya both are fine with it ....eunf said

  • Miguel Moreno
    Miguel Moreno 18 days ago +6

    You're not TRUE if you can see the REAL reason why she's leaving you. The rest are just excuses for what she really wants.. wanna hear it?

  • Alex
    Alex 19 days ago +4

    Joe if you think shes wasn't atleast talking to another guy months ago your a dumbass, sorry but a girl never breaks up if she doesn't have another prospect

  • Vaioleti Solomona
    Vaioleti Solomona 19 days ago

    😢😢😢😢😢 No you are a lovely couple 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥

  • Daniel Ppa
    Daniel Ppa 19 days ago

    Sad dk but dam. Best of luck

  • Allison Pollard
    Allison Pollard 19 days ago

    I was not expecting that!!!! I love you guys tho 😂

  • seenie bear
    seenie bear 19 days ago +3

    I thought Jessica was gay idk she gives me that vibe

  • 5Days
    5Days 20 days ago +5


  • Weak Pullout Game
    Weak Pullout Game 20 days ago +3

    Jess is ruining the vibe on jk news (at least at the moment I wrote this).

  • Animepro100
    Animepro100 21 day ago +1

    2015 r.i.p Brown
    2019 r.i.p Jechika.
    ....I feel for you joe.

  • #1 Nets fan
    #1 Nets fan 21 day ago +2

    U mean she left ur dumb ass cause u got boring

  • 딸기Strwbearii
    딸기Strwbearii 22 days ago

    I’m glad there’s more love than hate. And I love that we’re still seeing/going to see Jess on JK.
    Edit: and I know I’m late but when she was going in on nosey, negative people and hate👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽 still don’t get how people don’t understand that. Mind yo business.

  • Dah Poe
    Dah Poe 22 days ago

    Poor joe

  • Alli Peña
    Alli Peña 22 days ago +1

    My boyfriend and I nearly broke up for similar reasons. A lot of what you guys are saying in this video really reminds me of that near break up. If I'm being honest we're not 100% recovered and we're working through it but I can totally understand why you guys broke up. I think for us it was just "I don't need to be with you, we don't currently want the same things, but we can keep going and see if there's way to make what we both want overlap". That said we're not nearly as far as long (about 10 months) and you guys were 5 years in so I guess we'll just see where it goes.

  • Leticia Ortiz
    Leticia Ortiz 22 days ago

    I feel like eventually you guys would get back together when you've achieved more of what you want to in life. Love isn't an easy road and maybe this is just one of the bumps in your guys' journey. Good things take time and you guys have love. As much as amma miss you guys together, I glad that you get what makes you happy. Love you both!!!