Value in Becoming A Born-Again Virgin? | The View

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  • Sacha Nikoll Laine
    Sacha Nikoll Laine Месяц назад

    I have a friend from Saudi Arabia who slept around like a freaking koala. She was engaged to a guy back home, had surgery before she got married. The guy was so naive, he praised her parents for raising a respectable young woman. I laughed so hard, I had a headache.

  • bigmac23ist
    bigmac23ist Месяц назад

    On these social things I love Jed....but politics is a different story. I would be friends with her but politics needs to be off the table

  • Zechariah Cameron
    Zechariah Cameron 2 месяца назад

    This is why people cheat, because everyone acts like sex is everything. Once someone has sex, they want more of it and go to someone else if they aren't happy. Sex is an addiction.

  • Zechariah Cameron
    Zechariah Cameron 2 месяца назад

    Sarah is ridiculous. Sex isn't everything and people only bring up the negative situations not the positive ones.

  • Zechariah Cameron
    Zechariah Cameron 2 месяца назад +1

    Come on Paula, you aren't missing out on crap. You married the guy, have kids with him, and can have sex forever. She's one if the sane ones, but is falling for the media's narrative that sex is everything.

  • Anli Qi
    Anli Qi 3 месяца назад +1

    It would've been a little more entertaining with both Candace and Raven here.

  • TheClumzylerch
    TheClumzylerch 3 месяца назад

    Born again virgin? No such thing as born again virgins.

  • Nazli Nazareth
    Nazli Nazareth 4 месяца назад +1

    It's not just Catholics most religions

    • Sacha Nikoll Laine
      Sacha Nikoll Laine Месяц назад

      Nazli Nazareth I'm religious and I think it's a bunch of bs.

  • Calvin George
    Calvin George 4 месяца назад

    LOL, the level of self delusion is off the scale !!!!!

  • Misskt15
    Misskt15 5 месяцев назад

    woman of faith but evil on belief.

  • djalexia
    djalexia 6 месяцев назад

    Love this girl, chirpy, funny, sensitive and very bright...Sara... :)

  • deborah van rijn
    deborah van rijn 6 месяцев назад

    love sarah. she is honest🤣

  • k mn
    k mn 7 месяцев назад

    Whats with all the fruit talk? lmao

  • Andrea Kae
    Andrea Kae 8 месяцев назад +6

    I hate the argument that it is the most sacred thing that you can give somebody. I get that it can be special but I think the most sacred thing you can give somebody is trust, and sharing your vulnerabilities and your deepest secrets and fears and dreams. And letting somebody get to know the person you really are and decide whether they want to be with you knowing all of that. To me that is much more sacred than a physical act.

    • Sacha Nikoll Laine
      Sacha Nikoll Laine Месяц назад +1

      I agree

    • Zoie
      Zoie 6 месяцев назад +2

      I wish you could hear me clapping at your comment. Very well stated.

  • Ľæůřęņ
    Ľæůřęņ 8 месяцев назад +3

    I think yoy needa test drive before you buy.🚗

  • Freya
    Freya 8 месяцев назад

    just because you take something into consideration doesnt mean you are elevating it

  • 1988vikable
    1988vikable 8 месяцев назад

    I think what they mean by being a "born again virgin" is not necessarily being a REAL virgin again but more of a symbolical meaning, that if you wait you are honoring and treasuring the unity of the two until that special day. which would mean a lot more because it was a test of your love for each other.

  • applejuicyjuice
    applejuicyjuice 8 месяцев назад +8

    If you wanna abstain from sex great. If you wanna bang every guy on the first date... do you boo boo.

    • d m
      d m 5 месяцев назад

      I agree apple juicy/do you. don't trya jack me and we're good. Know? :)

  • Boadsy
    Boadsy 8 месяцев назад +1

    It works with some, it's not for others; what exactly is the discussion here?
    Oh, I see why men hate this show, now. Wow.

  • agt24
    agt24 8 месяцев назад +2


  • Courtney Nazaire
    Courtney Nazaire 8 месяцев назад +5

    This segment was interesting to watch lol. I personally am waiting for marriage. It is a faith based decision, but also something that just makes sense. Sex is more than just physical. It's one of the most intimate acts you can partake in with someone. In my opinion only one person is deserving of that. That person will see me in my purest form and I don't want to hand that out to just anyone.
    As far as being afraid of not having sexual chemistry, I believe in 2 things (1) If you are with the right person, it can happen naturally or (2) that's something you two can work on! The beauty of saving each other for marriage is that you get the opportunity to explore each other's bodies and learn likes/dislikes.
    Anyhow, this is my opinion and I'd like to think it's a pretty good one!

  • Jasmine Rochester
    Jasmine Rochester 8 месяцев назад +7

    What's with people and virginity? It's nothing special. Nothing to be admired for. Have sex if you like. Abstain if you like. Being a virgin doesn't make you clean or clever. It just makes you a virgin.

    • Sacha Nikoll Laine
      Sacha Nikoll Laine Месяц назад

      I agree, I'm tired of people acting like they are giving the guy a gift. It's a piece of flesh.

    • J.K.
      J.K. 2 месяца назад

      thank you...the only normal answer up in here.

  • Ornacia
    Ornacia 8 месяцев назад

    Baby when youve popped your cherry...

  • Luthor Bratt
    Luthor Bratt 8 месяцев назад +3

    "Born-again virgin" lol

  • first comment
    first comment 8 месяцев назад

    so weird that I've been considering this!
    I know its controversial, but just interested in learning more.

  • Michael Robinson
    Michael Robinson 8 месяцев назад +4

    Stupidest thing ever!! Once you've been penetrated you can NOT be UN-penetrated!! Waiting to have sex with someone new is not being a born again VIRGIN, its called WAITING TO HAVE TO SEX because you're tired of giving it up so easily and then it not lasting with that person. My opinion is if I am going to be with someone for the rest of my life I want to make sure they can satisfy me completely so we're having sex, living together, sharing responsibilities (NOT HAVING KIDS THOUGH) before we put a ring on it and I am stuck with it forever!

  • Yair Celis
    Yair Celis 8 месяцев назад

    so, any single ladies between the ages of 18 and 25 want to have sex before we start dating? you know... for compatibility and stuff...

  • Hachi Osman
    Hachi Osman 8 месяцев назад +3

    For people or this case women who would defend to the death about pro choice and lecture everyone that people have the right over their bodies . They sure forget easy what they preach 😒. And last time I checked doesn't born again Christian/virgin meant you're going back to believing sex before is a sin and thus wait until marriage 🤔?

  • AsSheLikesIt
    AsSheLikesIt 8 месяцев назад

    There are few things in life for which lack of experience in a benefit. Marriage is no exception.

  • Laura L. Parr
    Laura L. Parr 8 месяцев назад

    Yes Sarah slay!

  • One Brokegirl
    One Brokegirl 8 месяцев назад +6

    you have to test drive the car before you buy it

  • Firstname Lastname
    Firstname Lastname 8 месяцев назад

    Speaking of virgins, imagine your virginity being stolen from you as a child! Near Washington DC? Help bring attention to sexual child abuse and trafficking: PLEASE, Join citizens on March 25th at 11am: INVESTIGATE PIZZAGATE/ Pedogate, A PEACEFUL Demonstration in DC at The White House/ Lafayette Park.

  • ermasing
    ermasing 9 месяцев назад

    I'm a BAV. I haven't had sex since August 2014!!!

  • Fatma Al-Ubeidi
    Fatma Al-Ubeidi 9 месяцев назад +1

    this group is way better without Whoopi

  • DeAnna Mayes
    DeAnna Mayes 9 месяцев назад +17

    Coming from a faith based standpoint, I've been with my now fiancé for three years and we will be having sex for the first time on our wedding night. Has it been hard to say no??? Heck yea!!!!! But in the Bible the reason virginity is so sacred is because once the hymen is broken and there is blood, the blood signifies a blood covenant between you, your husband and God. I get that many people have different beliefs but for me, it's important to give myself to just one person and have that be special for me and for him.

    • Anthea Amonini
      Anthea Amonini Месяц назад

      Ignorance is bliss

    • J.K.
      J.K. 2 месяца назад +1

      that is the stupidest thing ive ever heard. but i guess we all have a right to believe in stupid things.

    • Zoie
      Zoie 6 месяцев назад +5

      Not only that but it stresses the importance of a woman's virginity but not a man's. Ehhhh.........

    • Maip video
      Maip video 9 месяцев назад +7

      DeAnna Mayes that sounds great if the whole hymen thing was true but it can break anytime during normal activities like exercise. Some women are even born without it and not all women "bleed" their first time especially if the sex is slow and gentle as it hopefully should be. Even during biblical times, sometimes mothers would be afraid that their daughters wouldn't bleed and would instruct them to make a cut on their thighs so they would bleed even though they were virgins. Sadly the hymen theory has persisted to today where it's even possible to have rehymenation surgury. There's no problem with people who want to wait till marriage to have sex, but the hymen theory has got to go, it's so inaccurate.

    • Scientific Guitarist
      Scientific Guitarist 9 месяцев назад +2

      DeAnna Mayesa thanks same here,my views are mine really based on the word of God,no one compels me to do so,it's my own sacred faith with my God and people don't have to agree.

  • Flawa 1
    Flawa 1 9 месяцев назад +5

    You are not "born-again" anything. Once you lost your virginity, you are not a virgin. You can abstain from sex with your next partner until you get married.

  • tangled55
    tangled55 9 месяцев назад

    Jedidiah been fuckin'?

  • Patrick P
    Patrick P 9 месяцев назад

    Why does Sara tell Paula twice thank you ?

  • Asriana Ariffin
    Asriana Ariffin 9 месяцев назад +35

    Jed's hair is on point today. For real....

  • CSpan1993
    CSpan1993 9 месяцев назад

    does sarah put blush on her chin?

  • bmc
    bmc 9 месяцев назад +4

    Joy Behar is all B! Old woman with the big dirty mouth!

  • luke smith
    luke smith 9 месяцев назад +2

    so weird how much I agree with Jed outside of politics...alot more than say sunny but once they get into politics based conversation its completely different

  • thatkidd jennifer
    thatkidd jennifer 9 месяцев назад +15

    Watch out for these born-again virgins they're usually hoes in disguise, and their body count is probably over 20

    • Sacha Nikoll Laine
      Sacha Nikoll Laine Месяц назад

      thatkidd jennifer LMAO. So true.

    • Anna Kohler
      Anna Kohler 8 месяцев назад +4

      Think about it--- women date up until their late 30's sometimes before getting married. You could date one man a year from 16-36 and end up w/ 20 by the time you get married and they'd all be long term relationships.

    • Judy Holiday
      Judy Holiday 9 месяцев назад +1

      20 is mind boggling to me  guess I am more old fashioned than I realized..

    • mistymorning195
      mistymorning195 9 месяцев назад +7

      thatkidd jennifer - we're "hoes" if we've had more than 20 sexual partners??? Wow... I think that makes a looooot of women "hoes" then. Lol. And probably most women you've slept with are "hoes" by that definition. (that is, if you've ever slept with women, of course...)

    • victoria hale
      victoria hale 9 месяцев назад +4

      thatkidd jennifer is 20 a lot ? Lol

  • Zyrah Orihara
    Zyrah Orihara 9 месяцев назад +1

    lol like they said once you take a bite of fruit it doesn't matter what it won't change. But just cuz your not a virgin is fine its 2017 just take care.

  • selbyfan2305
    selbyfan2305 9 месяцев назад +6

    "I'm a fruit girl." I love Sarah so much!!!

  • Francis
    Francis 9 месяцев назад +168

    Sarah really needs her own daytime chat show, she's so funny, personable and has a great spirit!

    • d m
      d m 5 месяцев назад +3

      she is super sweet it's true

  • Sam B.
    Sam B. 9 месяцев назад +8

    To Jedediah's boyfriend: don't do it man.

  • Sara Gonzalez
    Sara Gonzalez 9 месяцев назад +2

    It's not that hard ladies... I've tasted many apples, oranges, bananas etc and while it isn't easy it is absolutely possible.
    Jed the good thing about waiting for sex is if it doesn't work the first time you have your whole life together to get it right

  • R Navs
    R Navs 9 месяцев назад +7

    these women talking over each other gives me a headache.

  • Lo Oo
    Lo Oo 9 месяцев назад +1

    It's a PEACH, Joy

  • swiperboy sb
    swiperboy sb 9 месяцев назад +7

    lol hoes just wanna do-over

  • rachel1120ify
    rachel1120ify 9 месяцев назад +5

    I'm not a born again virgin, I just haven't had sex since 2008. Once you lose your virginity, you can't get it back.

  • Ashley22288
    Ashley22288 9 месяцев назад +10

    Sarah looks beautiful today.

  • Penny Author
    Penny Author 9 месяцев назад +12

    Omg the energy is so light without Whoopie interrupting and yelling at everyone! It now seems like other talk shows where people treat each other with some respect and not one person dominates.

  • jerimiah johnston
    jerimiah johnston 9 месяцев назад

    no such fucking thing

  • Andeavor
    Andeavor 9 месяцев назад +87

    Thank God I'm an atheist, I don't have to deal with nonsense like this.

    • d m
      d m 5 месяцев назад

      That's right Dorrett P = Well said!!

    • thayneboneone
      thayneboneone 8 месяцев назад +3

      There are some good reasons for abstaining from sex.
      Sexual transmitted disease.

  • Ky Weed
    Ky Weed 9 месяцев назад +4

    Waiting till marriage to have sex is the worst idea ever- cuz if the sex turns out to be horrible, that's gonna have a terrible impact on the marriage 👎

  • runrockwater
    runrockwater 9 месяцев назад

    haha its a way to pick out the good apples after a series of bad ones

  • Sevipants19
    Sevipants19 9 месяцев назад +8

    You can only be a virgin again in your heart.

    • mistymorning195
      mistymorning195 9 месяцев назад +5

      Sevipants19 ....not even there. You can't erase past sexual experiences. Just live with them. It's fine. Everyone has sex. It's not a big deal. That's how we were all born.

  • StingingwithqueenC
    StingingwithqueenC 9 месяцев назад +82

    I agree with Jed completely. Sex and living together before marriage is important.

    • Zechariah Cameron
      Zechariah Cameron 2 месяца назад

      Oh stop it, if you stop caring about sex so much then waiting won't matter. Why does being in bed matter, you don't date or fall in love with someone because of sex

    • lexaneli
      lexaneli 4 месяца назад

      lol funny

    • Anna Kohler
      Anna Kohler 8 месяцев назад +3

      Brianna my question is why are you taking relationship advice from a man who's never been married? LMAO-- only in Catholicism is it okay to have a Vegan managing the butcher shop!

    • Anna Kohler
      Anna Kohler 8 месяцев назад +4

      I won't live with someone prior to marriage but by all means I will have sex with them. Ever hear of a micro penis? Look it up. If you don't test drive the car you could end up with a husband with a micro penis.... Let me tell you if I found that out on my wedding night I'll be googling "annulment law" at 1am and calling random divorce attorneys offices hoping their paging service can get me in touch with them ASAP!

    • StingingwithqueenC
      StingingwithqueenC 9 месяцев назад +1

      Correlation does not equal causation. For every study you find that says a certain thing, I can find one that says the exact opposite.

  • padillalili
    padillalili 9 месяцев назад +58

    I find it really crazy how much I agree with Jed on many aspects of life and then as soon as policy enters the picture I cannot relate. It's like we were walking and talking from point A to B and then C comes and she spits on me. 😑

    • T Jackson
      T Jackson 7 месяцев назад +7

      The accuracy, I wanna love her but her views on politics is trash!

  • Gina
    Gina 9 месяцев назад +16

    Virginity doesn't exist.

  • Gina
    Gina 9 месяцев назад +2

    Please comment on this if you can see it? I don't think my comments are posting .

  • I'm Always Right
    I'm Always Right 9 месяцев назад +2

    Sarah looks so cute

  • cristina solano
    cristina solano 9 месяцев назад

    Whatever! But they shouldn't share their intimacy. No body cares!

  • R A
    R A 9 месяцев назад +5

    Paula is so boring

  • Elaine Marie
    Elaine Marie 9 месяцев назад +15

    "Not to change food groups..."
    "Vegetables are nasty."
    DEAD 😂😂😂

  • Jonathan Michael
    Jonathan Michael 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for posting this, The View! 😀

  • 4daluvofnikki
    4daluvofnikki 9 месяцев назад +112

    I really think they need to stop calling it a Second Virginity or Born Again Virgin. You can only be a virgin once. What this is really should be called is abstaining from Sex until Marriage.
    You can test drive the relationship live together before marriage and still end up divorced. Since when has that ever been a predictor of marital success.? There is nothing wrong with making sure the person you are marrying is compatible in all facets of life outside of sex before you marry. I truly believe if you love the person you can learn how to please one another sexually.

    • Zechariah Cameron
      Zechariah Cameron 2 месяца назад


    • Ema Star
      Ema Star 8 месяцев назад

      amen sista

    • Anna Kohler
      Anna Kohler 8 месяцев назад

      Ever hear of a micro penis? Look it up. Don't test the car out before you buy and you could end up with a husband that has one of those things!

  • JTyme08
    JTyme08 9 месяцев назад +32

    Haha I love Sarah... just something about her that seems happy all the time. I like those kind of people.

    • eden melaku
      eden melaku 13 дней назад

      JTyme08 true ,you can see her heart through her face ; genuine

  • Claire Knight
    Claire Knight 9 месяцев назад +132

    Virginity is a construct created by men to control women's sexual behavior

    • Zoie
      Zoie 6 месяцев назад

      Maip video....I'm glad that someone has the brains to actually understood where the original commenter was going with this thought. It's incomplete. You explained it perfectly.

    • run away pacman!
      run away pacman! 8 месяцев назад

      Virginity means the state of never having had sexual intercourse.
      Gender has nothing to do with anything, so i have no idea how it could oppressive women.

    • Marie Abbasi
      Marie Abbasi 8 месяцев назад

      +Claire Knight So should men not be more careful with a woman who has never had sex? He should just shove it in and expect her to not be nervous at all because it's "just a construct"? Just because something is a construct doesn't mean it's not valuable to some people.

    • first comment
      first comment 8 месяцев назад +2

      Claire Knight it is definitely disturbing that men don't suffer with these questions in the same way as women.

    • Naturally
      Naturally 9 месяцев назад +1

      Claire Knight Interesting perspective

  • rodney1279
    rodney1279 9 месяцев назад +5

    For starters there is not such thing as born-again virgin. Being a virgin means you have done anything sexual with anyone yet. However, there is a such thing as being celibate meaning that you have had sex but you are now choosing to abstain from it until you are Married. I was celibate for 3 years before I married my wife and now we have been happily married for 11 years.

    • JTyme08
      JTyme08 9 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah I think it depends on your level of maturity and ability to categorize. The truth is most young men just want to have sex and don't actually like the individual they're having sex with. So for them abstinence could be the way to find a partner who they're really interested in. But for those who already have the ability to separate lust from love, abstaining from sex may not make as much sense.

    • rodney1279
      rodney1279 9 месяцев назад +1

      Mani M I did so because when we are married it is more spicier. I have done it before I was married in my other relationships and we did not stay together for life. It was sex no love.

    • Mani M
      Mani M 9 месяцев назад

      rodney1279 why did you deprive yourself? Life's too short and there's no after life. You lose brah!

  • Claire Knight
    Claire Knight 9 месяцев назад +19

    People who call themselves "born-again" anything are always the most hypocritical people out there always trying to come up with ways to try and excuse their behavior and still appear self-righteous in front of everyone

    • J.K.
      J.K. 2 месяца назад

      What behaviour are they excusing? Having sex is a bad thing? Since when was having consensual sex a bad thing? What is wrong with you people/ Let people have however much sex, with however many people they want. this is coming from a "VIRGIN" as you people like to call it.

    • mistymorning195
      mistymorning195 9 месяцев назад

      Claire Knight - so true!!! And nobody is really a "born again anything." We're born once. We live and make choices, some good ones, some bad ones, we (hopefully) learn from mistakes... but once you've had sex, you're not a virgin anymore. That's it. Live with it. You can choose to abstain from sex at any time, but you're no longer a virgin. Just deal with it. (Besides, who wants to have their virginity back!? It was bad enough the first time. 😝)

    • Steph V
      Steph V 9 месяцев назад +2

      +Texanwildflower there's a difference between waiting a while longer to give it up for the next person vs. calling yourself a 'born again virgin'. It's the latter that comes across as phony.

    • Texanwildflower
      Texanwildflower 9 месяцев назад +3

      Claire Knight as someone who has waited their whole life, I find no harm in it. People want to wait , why shame them for that decision ? They see how sex may have negatively affected their relationships in the past and they want to wait. I am happy for people who make that decision because it really helps you find deep meaningful relationships.

  • jonathan lopez
    jonathan lopez 9 месяцев назад

    if Joy and Whoopy go the panel will be crazy.

  • SuperBullaMan
    SuperBullaMan 9 месяцев назад +62

    Once your Hymen is broken ,you're no Virgin!!

    • Alexandra Flowers
      Alexandra Flowers 4 месяца назад +1

      Lauren Mia Wrong that's all myth.

    • Lauren Mia
      Lauren Mia 8 месяцев назад +22

      hymens can break from riding a bicycle or falling so maybe lean a bit about human anatomy before commenting...

    • Valentine Kwaghtsule
      Valentine Kwaghtsule 8 месяцев назад +2

      Liz Tew thanks for the knowledge preach on Preacher👏👏

    • SuperBullaMan
      SuperBullaMan 9 месяцев назад +3

      Once we start having Wet Dreams and start using jergins, then we become men lol!!

  • marlon harrison
    marlon harrison 9 месяцев назад +2

    I wanting in marriage and people think I'm weird for that.

    • cristal lll
      cristal lll 9 месяцев назад +2

      You're not and u know that. Shut up lol. Be confident