Value in Becoming A Born-Again Virgin? | The View

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  • S B
    S B Месяц назад

    Test drive, I get that!

  • Chelsea Nesmejanow
    Chelsea Nesmejanow Месяц назад

    I am a Christian and have been most of my life. I had sex before marriage and so did my husband. Before we met we found our faith, during our dating relationship we abstained from sex till our wedding night. It was very hard both physically and emotionally but I am so glad and grateful we waited. We never used the term born again virgin, I don’t understand that. It’s simply biblical and called repentance.

  • James Craig
    James Craig Месяц назад

    I have never heard not sexually compatible. Nothing is wrong w having that discussion during engagement. Would you call off the wedding if your partner won't do an act? Let your partner know what excites you and fantasy you have.

  • Bre ME
    Bre ME 2 месяца назад

    Anyone who wants me will have to wait until we're married, I'm totally with Sunny

  • Watson Everly
    Watson Everly 3 месяца назад +1

    love this discussion, lots of fun. not because of the topic but because they are having fun.

  • Leslie Boozer
    Leslie Boozer 3 месяца назад

    OK. If Paula only slept with her husband, how would she know the fruit doesn't taste the same?

  • Kadeesh Fishley
    Kadeesh Fishley 3 месяца назад +1

    I miss Jed

  • Snicker Doodle
    Snicker Doodle 3 месяца назад

    You gotta test drive the car before you buy it...

  • FA O
    FA O 3 месяца назад +2

    oh god religious people

  • shapeshfters
    shapeshfters 3 месяца назад

    2:30 apparently turning a blind eye to kiddy didlers is also a faith based thing.

  • Eric Rivers
    Eric Rivers 3 месяца назад +7

    Sunny sounds lame in bed...

  • Kashandra Cambria
    Kashandra Cambria 6 месяцев назад +12

    I have a friend from Saudi Arabia who slept around like a freaking koala. She was engaged to a guy back home, had surgery before she got married. The guy was so naive, he praised her parents for raising a respectable young woman. I laughed so hard, I had a headache.

  • bigmac23ist
    bigmac23ist 6 месяцев назад +1

    On these social things I love Jed....but politics is a different story. I would be friends with her but politics needs to be off the table

  • Zechariah Cameron
    Zechariah Cameron 8 месяцев назад +1

    This is why people cheat, because everyone acts like sex is everything. Once someone has sex, they want more of it and go to someone else if they aren't happy. Sex is an addiction.

  • Zechariah Cameron
    Zechariah Cameron 8 месяцев назад

    Sarah is ridiculous. Sex isn't everything and people only bring up the negative situations not the positive ones.

  • Zechariah Cameron
    Zechariah Cameron 8 месяцев назад +2

    Come on Paula, you aren't missing out on crap. You married the guy, have kids with him, and can have sex forever. She's one if the sane ones, but is falling for the media's narrative that sex is everything.

  • Anli Qi
    Anli Qi 8 месяцев назад +5

    It would've been a little more entertaining with both Candace and Raven here.

  • TheClumzylerch
    TheClumzylerch 8 месяцев назад +2

    Born again virgin? No such thing as born again virgins.

  • Nazli Nazareth
    Nazli Nazareth 9 месяцев назад +5

    It's not just Catholics most religions

    • Kashandra Cambria
      Kashandra Cambria 6 месяцев назад +1

      Nazli Nazareth I'm religious and I think it's a bunch of bs.

  • Calvin George
    Calvin George 9 месяцев назад +2

    LOL, the level of self delusion is off the scale !!!!!

  • Misskt15
    Misskt15 10 месяцев назад +1

    woman of faith but evil on belief.

  • djalexia
    djalexia 11 месяцев назад +2

    Love this girl, chirpy, funny, sensitive and very bright...Sara... :)

  • deborah van rijn
    deborah van rijn 11 месяцев назад +3

    love sarah. she is honest🤣

  • k mn
    k mn Год назад +1

    Whats with all the fruit talk? lmao

  • Andrea Kae
    Andrea Kae Год назад +30

    I hate the argument that it is the most sacred thing that you can give somebody. I get that it can be special but I think the most sacred thing you can give somebody is trust, and sharing your vulnerabilities and your deepest secrets and fears and dreams. And letting somebody get to know the person you really are and decide whether they want to be with you knowing all of that. To me that is much more sacred than a physical act.

    • IamSofia
      IamSofia 28 дней назад

      That is true but there's something meaningful in showing parts of your body to a person who is the first and only one to see them.

    • S B
      S B Месяц назад

      Andrea Kae I certainly respect that.

    • Kashandra Cambria
      Kashandra Cambria 6 месяцев назад +4

      I agree

    • Zoie
      Zoie 11 месяцев назад +6

      I wish you could hear me clapping at your comment. Very well stated.

  • Ľæůřęņ
    Ľæůřęņ Год назад +3

    I think yoy needa test drive before you buy.🚗

  • Freya
    Freya Год назад

    just because you take something into consideration doesnt mean you are elevating it

  • 1988vikable
    1988vikable Год назад

    I think what they mean by being a "born again virgin" is not necessarily being a REAL virgin again but more of a symbolical meaning, that if you wait you are honoring and treasuring the unity of the two until that special day. which would mean a lot more because it was a test of your love for each other.

  • applejuicyjuice
    applejuicyjuice Год назад +8

    If you wanna abstain from sex great. If you wanna bang every guy on the first date... do you boo boo.

    • d m
      d m 10 месяцев назад

      I agree apple juicy/do you. don't trya jack me and we're good. Know? :)

  • Boadsy
    Boadsy Год назад +1

    It works with some, it's not for others; what exactly is the discussion here?
    Oh, I see why men hate this show, now. Wow.

  • agt24
    agt24 Год назад +2


  • Courtney Nazaire
    Courtney Nazaire Год назад +14

    This segment was interesting to watch lol. I personally am waiting for marriage. It is a faith based decision, but also something that just makes sense. Sex is more than just physical. It's one of the most intimate acts you can partake in with someone. In my opinion only one person is deserving of that. That person will see me in my purest form and I don't want to hand that out to just anyone.
    As far as being afraid of not having sexual chemistry, I believe in 2 things (1) If you are with the right person, it can happen naturally or (2) that's something you two can work on! The beauty of saving each other for marriage is that you get the opportunity to explore each other's bodies and learn likes/dislikes.
    Anyhow, this is my opinion and I'd like to think it's a pretty good one!

    • kennedy thedford
      kennedy thedford 3 месяца назад

      I like your opinion. I also thinks idiots should stop telling people what to do with their sex life.

    • Kashandra Cambria
      Kashandra Cambria 6 месяцев назад +2

      Good luck finding a virgin

  • Jasmine Rochester
    Jasmine Rochester Год назад +15

    What's with people and virginity? It's nothing special. Nothing to be admired for. Have sex if you like. Abstain if you like. Being a virgin doesn't make you clean or clever. It just makes you a virgin.

    • Kashandra Cambria
      Kashandra Cambria 6 месяцев назад +2

      I agree, I'm tired of people acting like they are giving the guy a gift. It's a piece of flesh.

    • J.K.
      J.K. 7 месяцев назад +2

      thank you...the only normal answer up in here.

  • Ornacia
    Ornacia Год назад +1

    Baby when youve popped your cherry...

  • Luthor Bratt
    Luthor Bratt Год назад +4

    "Born-again virgin" lol

  • first comment
    first comment Год назад

    so weird that I've been considering this!
    I know its controversial, but just interested in learning more.

  • Michael Robinson
    Michael Robinson Год назад +4

    Stupidest thing ever!! Once you've been penetrated you can NOT be UN-penetrated!! Waiting to have sex with someone new is not being a born again VIRGIN, its called WAITING TO HAVE TO SEX because you're tired of giving it up so easily and then it not lasting with that person. My opinion is if I am going to be with someone for the rest of my life I want to make sure they can satisfy me completely so we're having sex, living together, sharing responsibilities (NOT HAVING KIDS THOUGH) before we put a ring on it and I am stuck with it forever!

  • Yair Celis
    Yair Celis Год назад

    so, any single ladies between the ages of 18 and 25 want to have sex before we start dating? you know... for compatibility and stuff...

  • Kaya Nurshiya
    Kaya Nurshiya Год назад +3

    For people or this case women who would defend to the death about pro choice and lecture everyone that people have the right over their bodies . They sure forget easy what they preach 😒. And last time I checked doesn't born again Christian/virgin meant you're going back to believing sex before is a sin and thus wait until marriage 🤔?

  • AsSheLikesIt
    AsSheLikesIt Год назад

    There are few things in life for which lack of experience in a benefit. Marriage is no exception.

  • Laura L. Parr
    Laura L. Parr Год назад +1

    Yes Sarah slay!

  • M. E
    M. E Год назад +19

    you have to test drive the car before you buy it

    • Tay Boone
      Tay Boone Месяц назад

      M. E humans aren’t cars smh..

  • Firstname Lastname
    Firstname Lastname Год назад

    Speaking of virgins, imagine your virginity being stolen from you as a child! Near Washington DC? Help bring attention to sexual child abuse and trafficking: PLEASE, Join citizens on March 25th at 11am: INVESTIGATE PIZZAGATE/ Pedogate, A PEACEFUL Demonstration in DC at The White House/ Lafayette Park.

  • ermasing
    ermasing Год назад

    I'm a BAV. I haven't had sex since August 2014!!!

  • Fatma Al-Ubeidi
    Fatma Al-Ubeidi Год назад +2

    this group is way better without Whoopi

  • DeAnna Mayes
    DeAnna Mayes Год назад +25

    Coming from a faith based standpoint, I've been with my now fiancé for three years and we will be having sex for the first time on our wedding night. Has it been hard to say no??? Heck yea!!!!! But in the Bible the reason virginity is so sacred is because once the hymen is broken and there is blood, the blood signifies a blood covenant between you, your husband and God. I get that many people have different beliefs but for me, it's important to give myself to just one person and have that be special for me and for him.

    • NataLeigh Mosley
      NataLeigh Mosley 2 месяца назад +4

      Never heard about the hymen blood covenant thing. Vigorous activity and using tampons wears down the hymen and not everyone bleeds their first time. I respect your choice though.

    • Anthea Amonini
      Anthea Amonini 6 месяцев назад

      Ignorance is bliss

    • J.K.
      J.K. 7 месяцев назад +3

      that is the stupidest thing ive ever heard. but i guess we all have a right to believe in stupid things.

    • Zoie
      Zoie 11 месяцев назад +11

      Not only that but it stresses the importance of a woman's virginity but not a man's. Ehhhh.........

    • Maip video
      Maip video Год назад +18

      DeAnna Mayes that sounds great if the whole hymen thing was true but it can break anytime during normal activities like exercise. Some women are even born without it and not all women "bleed" their first time especially if the sex is slow and gentle as it hopefully should be. Even during biblical times, sometimes mothers would be afraid that their daughters wouldn't bleed and would instruct them to make a cut on their thighs so they would bleed even though they were virgins. Sadly the hymen theory has persisted to today where it's even possible to have rehymenation surgury. There's no problem with people who want to wait till marriage to have sex, but the hymen theory has got to go, it's so inaccurate.

  • Brandon Yitzhak
    Brandon Yitzhak Год назад +1

    And Jesus was a bisexual polygamist.

  • Flor
    Flor Год назад +5

    You are not "born-again" anything. Once you lost your virginity, you are not a virgin. You can abstain from sex with your next partner until you get married.

  • tangled55
    tangled55 Год назад

    Jedidiah been fuckin'?

  • Patrick P
    Patrick P Год назад

    Why does Sara tell Paula twice thank you ?

    • PjD0150
      PjD0150 3 месяца назад

      Paul’s first day Jesus loves you and then said I love you too. Which is why she said thank you twice

    • Patrick P
      Patrick P Год назад

      Time 1:55

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      TCt83067695 Год назад


  • Asriana Ariffin
    Asriana Ariffin Год назад +70

    Jed's hair is on point today. For real....

  • CSpan1993
    CSpan1993 Год назад

    does sarah put blush on her chin?

  • bmc
    bmc Год назад +4

    Joy Behar is all B! Old woman with the big dirty mouth!

    • Thomas Steven
      Thomas Steven Год назад +4

      thats why people like her

    • Nancy B
      Nancy B Год назад +6

      That's why I love her

  • luke smith
    luke smith Год назад +2

    so weird how much I agree with Jed outside of politics...alot more than say sunny but once they get into politics based conversation its completely different

  • thatkidd jennifer
    thatkidd jennifer Год назад +16

    Watch out for these born-again virgins they're usually hoes in disguise, and their body count is probably over 20

    • Kashandra Cambria
      Kashandra Cambria 6 месяцев назад

      thatkidd jennifer LMAO. So true.

    • Anna Kohler
      Anna Kohler Год назад +4

      Think about it--- women date up until their late 30's sometimes before getting married. You could date one man a year from 16-36 and end up w/ 20 by the time you get married and they'd all be long term relationships.

    • Judy Holiday
      Judy Holiday Год назад +1

      20 is mind boggling to me guess I am more old fashioned than I realized..

    • mistymorning195
      mistymorning195 Год назад +7

      thatkidd jennifer - we're "hoes" if we've had more than 20 sexual partners??? Wow... I think that makes a looooot of women "hoes" then. Lol. And probably most women you've slept with are "hoes" by that definition. (that is, if you've ever slept with women, of course...)

    • victoria hale
      victoria hale Год назад +3

      thatkidd jennifer is 20 a lot ? Lol

  • Zyrah Orihara
    Zyrah Orihara Год назад +1

    lol like they said once you take a bite of fruit it doesn't matter what it won't change. But just cuz your not a virgin is fine its 2017 just take care.

  • selbyfan2305
    selbyfan2305 Год назад +15

    "I'm a fruit girl." I love Sarah so much!!!

  • Francis
    Francis Год назад +318

    Sarah really needs her own daytime chat show, she's so funny, personable and has a great spirit!

    • bluepixie25
      bluepixie25 19 дней назад

      Sarah is the whole package!

    • Charlene Johnson
      Charlene Johnson 2 месяца назад

      Francis .I agree with you 🤣🤣

    • d m
      d m 10 месяцев назад +9

      she is super sweet it's true

  • Sam B.
    Sam B. Год назад +8

    To Jedediah's boyfriend: don't do it man.

  • Sara Gonzalez
    Sara Gonzalez Год назад +2

    It's not that hard ladies... I've tasted many apples, oranges, bananas etc and while it isn't easy it is absolutely possible.
    Jed the good thing about waiting for sex is if it doesn't work the first time you have your whole life together to get it right

  • R Navs
    R Navs Год назад +7

    these women talking over each other gives me a headache.

  • Lo Oo
    Lo Oo Год назад +1

    It's a PEACH, Joy

  • swiperboy sb
    swiperboy sb Год назад +8

    lol hoes just wanna do-over

  • rachel1120ify
    rachel1120ify Год назад +5

    I'm not a born again virgin, I just haven't had sex since 2008. Once you lose your virginity, you can't get it back.

    • Vanessa Scamurra
      Vanessa Scamurra Месяц назад

      rachel1120ify you haven’t had sex in 10 years?!

  • Ashley22288
    Ashley22288 Год назад +22

    Sarah looks beautiful today.

  • Penny Author
    Penny Author Год назад +25

    Omg the energy is so light without Whoopie interrupting and yelling at everyone! It now seems like other talk shows where people treat each other with some respect and not one person dominates.

    • S B
      S B Месяц назад +1

      Penny Author Whoopie doesn't really dominate. However, she does stand her ground if she believes in something. She has a heart, big as the sky! We're about the same age. I've watched her career, thru the yrs. If you're lucky Enuff to have a friend like Whoopie, you're Blessed! She's a loyal person. Someone, u can trust, completely!

  • jerimiah johnston
    jerimiah johnston Год назад

    no such fucking thing

  • Andeavor
    Andeavor Год назад +101

    Thank God I'm an atheist, I don't have to deal with nonsense like this.

    • d m
      d m 10 месяцев назад

      That's right Dorrett P = Well said!!

  • You’ll Float Too
    You’ll Float Too Год назад +5

    Waiting till marriage to have sex is the worst idea ever- cuz if the sex turns out to be horrible, that's gonna have a terrible impact on the marriage 👎

  • runrockwater
    runrockwater Год назад

    haha its a way to pick out the good apples after a series of bad ones

  • Sevipants19
    Sevipants19 Год назад +19

    You can only be a virgin again in your heart.

    • ann l
      ann l 2 месяца назад +1

      Sevipants19 well is there really such thing as virginity though? I had watched a Ted talk vid w 2 female medical students and they said medically there's no way to prove if a women has or hasn't slept w a guy yet. They actually pointed out they felt it was more religious thing that virginity came bout in order to control women.

    • mistymorning195
      mistymorning195 Год назад +7

      Sevipants19 ....not even there. You can't erase past sexual experiences. Just live with them. It's fine. Everyone has sex. It's not a big deal. That's how we were all born.

  • StingingwithqueenC
    StingingwithqueenC Год назад +118

    I agree with Jed completely. Sex and living together before marriage is important.

    • S B
      S B Месяц назад

      Zechariah Cameron Well, some ppl do. I'm much like that. If I'm not compatible sexually with someone, then absolutely not!! However, as one gets older, and, their health fails them -- sex doesn't matter so much for many when they get old and sick. I think many ppl who remarry after their spouses pass away, they are seeking more of a companion. Then again, there's that 20 percent whose still rock"n"rolling, so-to-speak. Which is healthy, if two, are compatible, and still likes sex.

    • S B
      S B Месяц назад

      Anna Kohler Lol!! 😂😂

    • S B
      S B Месяц назад

      StingingwithqueenC Yes, testing the waters is okay, I certainly think it's important. However, keep um at bay, as much as you can after that. Why marry, when u can get the cow free? Know what I mean?

    • Zechariah Cameron
      Zechariah Cameron 8 месяцев назад +2

      Oh stop it, if you stop caring about sex so much then waiting won't matter. Why does being in bed matter, you don't date or fall in love with someone because of sex

    • lexaneli
      lexaneli 9 месяцев назад

      lol funny

  • padillalili
    padillalili Год назад +97

    I find it really crazy how much I agree with Jed on many aspects of life and then as soon as policy enters the picture I cannot relate. It's like we were walking and talking from point A to B and then C comes and she spits on me. 😑

    • T Jackson
      T Jackson Год назад +17

      The accuracy, I wanna love her but her views on politics is trash!

  • Gina
    Gina Год назад +19

    Virginity doesn't exist.

  • Gina
    Gina Год назад +2

    Please comment on this if you can see it? I don't think my comments are posting .

  • I'm Always Right
    I'm Always Right Год назад +3

    Sarah looks so cute

  • cristina solano
    cristina solano Год назад

    Whatever! But they shouldn't share their intimacy. No body cares!

  • R A
    R A Год назад +11

    Paula is so boring

  • Elaine Marie
    Elaine Marie Год назад +16

    "Not to change food groups..."
    "Vegetables are nasty."
    DEAD 😂😂😂

  • Jonathan Michael
    Jonathan Michael Год назад +2

    Thank you for posting this, The View! 😀

  • 4daluvofnikki
    4daluvofnikki Год назад +171

    I really think they need to stop calling it a Second Virginity or Born Again Virgin. You can only be a virgin once. What this is really should be called is abstaining from Sex until Marriage.
    You can test drive the relationship live together before marriage and still end up divorced. Since when has that ever been a predictor of marital success.? There is nothing wrong with making sure the person you are marrying is compatible in all facets of life outside of sex before you marry. I truly believe if you love the person you can learn how to please one another sexually.

    • ann l
      ann l 2 месяца назад +1

      Actually I watched a Ted talk vid that involved 2 female medical students and they said medically there's no way for even a Dr to prove that a women is a technically is there even such thing.they also pointed out that it was mostly cause of religion to be able to control women that religionsays there is a thing such as virginity.

    • Zechariah Cameron
      Zechariah Cameron 8 месяцев назад


      REAL TALK W. EMA STAR Год назад

      amen sista

  • JTyme08
    JTyme08 Год назад +89

    Haha I love Sarah... just something about her that seems happy all the time. I like those kind of people.

    • S B
      S B Месяц назад

      JTyme08 Well, life hasn't knocked her down hard enough yet. Give it time. I also like her happy spirit. I once was like that. My sister is still like Sarah.

    • Yene Neger
      Yene Neger 5 месяцев назад

      JTyme08 true ,you can see her heart through her face ; genuine

  • Claire Knight
    Claire Knight Год назад +139

    Virginity is a construct created by men to control women's sexual behavior

    • Zoie
      Zoie 11 месяцев назад

      Maip video....I'm glad that someone has the brains to actually understood where the original commenter was going with this thought. It's incomplete. You explained it perfectly.

    • run away pacman!
      run away pacman! Год назад

      Virginity means the state of never having had sexual intercourse.
      Gender has nothing to do with anything, so i have no idea how it could oppressive women.

    • Marie Abbasi
      Marie Abbasi Год назад

      +Claire Knight So should men not be more careful with a woman who has never had sex? He should just shove it in and expect her to not be nervous at all because it's "just a construct"? Just because something is a construct doesn't mean it's not valuable to some people.

    • first comment
      first comment Год назад +2

      Claire Knight it is definitely disturbing that men don't suffer with these questions in the same way as women.

    • Naturally
      Naturally Год назад +1

      Claire Knight Interesting perspective

  • rodney1279
    rodney1279 Год назад +10

    For starters there is not such thing as born-again virgin. Being a virgin means you have done anything sexual with anyone yet. However, there is a such thing as being celibate meaning that you have had sex but you are now choosing to abstain from it until you are Married. I was celibate for 3 years before I married my wife and now we have been happily married for 11 years.

    • JTyme08
      JTyme08 Год назад +2

      Yeah I think it depends on your level of maturity and ability to categorize. The truth is most young men just want to have sex and don't actually like the individual they're having sex with. So for them abstinence could be the way to find a partner who they're really interested in. But for those who already have the ability to separate lust from love, abstaining from sex may not make as much sense.

    • rodney1279
      rodney1279 Год назад +1

      Mani M I did so because when we are married it is more spicier. I have done it before I was married in my other relationships and we did not stay together for life. It was sex no love.

    • Mani M
      Mani M Год назад

      rodney1279 why did you deprive yourself? Life's too short and there's no after life. You lose brah!

  • Claire Knight
    Claire Knight Год назад +18

    People who call themselves "born-again" anything are always the most hypocritical people out there always trying to come up with ways to try and excuse their behavior and still appear self-righteous in front of everyone

    • J.K.
      J.K. 7 месяцев назад

      What behaviour are they excusing? Having sex is a bad thing? Since when was having consensual sex a bad thing? What is wrong with you people/ Let people have however much sex, with however many people they want. this is coming from a "VIRGIN" as you people like to call it.

    • mistymorning195
      mistymorning195 Год назад

      Claire Knight - so true!!! And nobody is really a "born again anything." We're born once. We live and make choices, some good ones, some bad ones, we (hopefully) learn from mistakes... but once you've had sex, you're not a virgin anymore. That's it. Live with it. You can choose to abstain from sex at any time, but you're no longer a virgin. Just deal with it. (Besides, who wants to have their virginity back!? It was bad enough the first time. 😝)

    • Steph V
      Steph V Год назад +2

      +Texanwildflower there's a difference between waiting a while longer to give it up for the next person vs. calling yourself a 'born again virgin'. It's the latter that comes across as phony.

    • Texanwildflower
      Texanwildflower Год назад +3

      Claire Knight as someone who has waited their whole life, I find no harm in it. People want to wait , why shame them for that decision ? They see how sex may have negatively affected their relationships in the past and they want to wait. I am happy for people who make that decision because it really helps you find deep meaningful relationships.

  • jonathan lopez
    jonathan lopez Год назад

    if Joy and Whoopy go the panel will be crazy.

  • SuperBullaMan
    SuperBullaMan Год назад +74

    Once your Hymen is broken ,you're no Virgin!!

    • Alexandra Flowers
      Alexandra Flowers 9 месяцев назад +1

      Lauren Mia Wrong that's all myth.

    • Lauren Mia
      Lauren Mia Год назад +24

      hymens can break from riding a bicycle or falling so maybe lean a bit about human anatomy before commenting...

    • Valentine Kwaghtsule
      Valentine Kwaghtsule Год назад +2

      Liz Tew thanks for the knowledge preach on Preacher👏👏

    • SuperBullaMan
      SuperBullaMan Год назад +3

      Once we start having Wet Dreams and start using jergins, then we become men lol!!

  • marlon harrison
    marlon harrison Год назад +1

    I wanting in marriage and people think I'm weird for that.