TRY BEFORE YOU BUY
that is a whorish counsel.
This segment was interesting to watch lol. I personally am waiting for marriage. It is a faith based decision, but also something that just makes sense. Sex is more than just physical. It's one of the most intimate acts you can partake in with someone. In my opinion only one person is deserving of that. That person will see me in my purest form and I don't want to hand that out to just anyone.
As far as being afraid of not having sexual chemistry, I believe in 2 things (1) If you are with the right person, it can happen naturally or (2) that's something you two can work on! The beauty of saving each other for marriage is that you get the opportunity to explore each other's bodies and learn likes/dislikes.
Anyhow, this is my opinion and I'd like to think it's a pretty good one!
What's with people and virginity? It's nothing special. Nothing to be admired for. Have sex if you like. Abstain if you like. Being a virgin doesn't make you clean or clever. It just makes you a virgin.
Baby when youve popped your cherry...
"Born-again virgin" lol
so weird that I've been considering this!
I know its controversial, but just interested in learning more.
Stupidest thing ever!! Once you've been penetrated you can NOT be UN-penetrated!! Waiting to have sex with someone new is not being a born again VIRGIN, its called WAITING TO HAVE TO SEX because you're tired of giving it up so easily and then it not lasting with that person. My opinion is if I am going to be with someone for the rest of my life I want to make sure they can satisfy me completely so we're having sex, living together, sharing responsibilities (NOT HAVING KIDS THOUGH) before we put a ring on it and I am stuck with it forever!
so, any single ladies between the ages of 18 and 25 want to have sex before we start dating? you know... for compatibility and stuff...
For people or this case women who would defend to the death about pro choice and lecture everyone that people have the right over their bodies . They sure forget easy what they preach 😒. And last time I checked doesn't born again Christian/virgin meant you're going back to believing sex before is a sin and thus wait until marriage 🤔?
There are few things in life for which lack of experience in a benefit. Marriage is no exception.
Yes Sarah slay!
you have to test drive the car before you buy it
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I'm a BAV. I haven't had sex since August 2014!!!
this group is way better without Whoopi
Coming from a faith based standpoint, I've been with my now fiancé for three years and we will be having sex for the first time on our wedding night. Has it been hard to say no??? Heck yea!!!!! But in the Bible the reason virginity is so sacred is because once the hymen is broken and there is blood, the blood signifies a blood covenant between you, your husband and God. I get that many people have different beliefs but for me, it's important to give myself to just one person and have that be special for me and for him.
DeAnna Mayes that sounds great if the whole hymen thing was true but it can break anytime during normal activities like exercise. Some women are even born without it and not all women "bleed" their first time especially if the sex is slow and gentle as it hopefully should be. Even during biblical times, sometimes mothers would be afraid that their daughters wouldn't bleed and would instruct them to make a cut on their thighs so they would bleed even though they were virgins. Sadly the hymen theory has persisted to today where it's even possible to have rehymenation surgury. There's no problem with people who want to wait till marriage to have sex, but the hymen theory has got to go, it's so inaccurate.
DeAnna Mayesa thanks same here,my views are mine really based on the word of God,no one compels me to do so,it's my own sacred faith with my God and people don't have to agree.
You are not "born-again" anything. Once you lost your virginity, you are not a virgin. You can abstain from sex with your next partner until you get married.
Jedidiah been fuckin'?
I had parents like Sunny and believe me those kids are going to go crazy in college.
Susannah Rose sunny reminds me of my mom and well ...... I didn't turn out as she expected either let's just say 😁
Susannah Rose she's teaching her children her values and doesn't force them upon them I think. those children do get crazy tho that's true.
Susannah Rose lol thank you
Why does Sara tell Paula twice thank you ?
Jed's hair is on point today. For real....
I agree!! ❤️☺️❤️
does sarah put blush on her chin?
Joy Behar is all B! Old woman with the big dirty mouth!
thats why people like her
That's why I love her
so weird how much I agree with Jed outside of politics...alot more than say sunny but once they get into politics based conversation its completely different
Watch out for these born-again virgins they're usually hoes in disguise, and their body count is probably over 20
Think about it--- women date up until their late 30's sometimes before getting married. You could date one man a year from 16-36 and end up w/ 20 by the time you get married and they'd all be long term relationships.
20 is mind boggling to me guess I am more old fashioned than I realized..
i think anything more than 5 is a lot. 20 sounds astronomical, but I've heard people say that number more times than I wish I did. one girl said she lost count after 60. So since I am a prude considering the norm these days, what would you say the average is? I always thought average sex partners was somewhere between 4-10. Am I right or would i be wrong in this assumption?
thatkidd jennifer - we're "hoes" if we've had more than 20 sexual partners??? Wow... I think that makes a looooot of women "hoes" then. Lol. And probably most women you've slept with are "hoes" by that definition. (that is, if you've ever slept with women, of course...)
thatkidd jennifer is 20 a lot ? Lol
lol like they said once you take a bite of fruit it doesn't matter what it won't change. But just cuz your not a virgin is fine its 2017 just take care.
"I'm a fruit girl." I love Sarah so much!!!
Sarah really needs her own daytime chat show, she's so funny, personable and has a great spirit!
To Jedediah's boyfriend: don't do it man.
It's not that hard ladies... I've tasted many apples, oranges, bananas etc and while it isn't easy it is absolutely possible.
Jed the good thing about waiting for sex is if it doesn't work the first time you have your whole life together to get it right
these women talking over each other gives me a headache.
It's a PEACH, Joy
lol hoes just wanna do-over
I'm not a born again virgin, I just haven't had sex since 2008. Once you lose your virginity, you can't get it back.
Sarah looks beautiful today.
Omg the energy is so light without Whoopie interrupting and yelling at everyone! It now seems like other talk shows where people treat each other with some respect and not one person dominates.
no such fucking thing
Thank God I'm an atheist, I don't have to deal with nonsense like this.
There are some good reasons for abstaining from sex.
Sexual transmitted disease.
You don't understand.
Atheists don't believe in God.
You can thank your God for that.
+Andeavor You can be an atheist and still practice abstinence....it's not only religious people who want to wait.
You should believe in this nonsense. A prostitute I know became a "born again" virgin and that's why her prices are so much higher now.
Waiting till marriage to have sex is the worst idea ever- cuz if the sex turns out to be horrible, that's gonna have a terrible impact on the marriage 👎
haha its a way to pick out the good apples after a series of bad ones
You can only be a virgin again in your heart.
Sevipants19 ....not even there. You can't erase past sexual experiences. Just live with them. It's fine. Everyone has sex. It's not a big deal. That's how we were all born.
I agree with Jed completely. Sex and living together before marriage is important.
Brianna my question is why are you taking relationship advice from a man who's never been married? LMAO-- only in Catholicism is it okay to have a Vegan managing the butcher shop!
I won't live with someone prior to marriage but by all means I will have sex with them. Ever hear of a micro penis? Look it up. If you don't test drive the car you could end up with a husband with a micro penis.... Let me tell you if I found that out on my wedding night I'll be googling "annulment law" at 1am and calling random divorce attorneys offices hoping their paging service can get me in touch with them ASAP!
Correlation does not equal causation. For every study you find that says a certain thing, I can find one that says the exact opposite.
@ Brianna VanDermark Me and my girlfriend are saving it for marriage. She has big boobs, so I could titty bang her. Some of these liberal women that have sex before marriage are condom lovers and don't want any alcohol or drugs during sex, so liberals aren't risky.
I find it really crazy how much I agree with Jed on many aspects of life and then as soon as policy enters the picture I cannot relate. It's like we were walking and talking from point A to B and then C comes and she spits on me. 😑
The accuracy, I wanna love her but her views on politics is trash!
Virginity doesn't exist.
Please comment on this if you can see it? I don't think my comments are posting .
Sarah looks so cute
Whatever! But they shouldn't share their intimacy. No body cares!
Paula is so boring
"Not to change food groups..."
"Vegetables are nasty."
Thank you for posting this, The View! 😀
I really think they need to stop calling it a Second Virginity or Born Again Virgin. You can only be a virgin once. What this is really should be called is abstaining from Sex until Marriage.
You can test drive the relationship live together before marriage and still end up divorced. Since when has that ever been a predictor of marital success.? There is nothing wrong with making sure the person you are marrying is compatible in all facets of life outside of sex before you marry. I truly believe if you love the person you can learn how to please one another sexually.
Ever hear of a micro penis? Look it up. Don't test the car out before you buy and you could end up with a husband that has one of those things!
Anna Kohler Furthermore I think that is part of the problem. People do not discuss the really important things before saying I do.
Haha I love Sarah... just something about her that seems happy all the time. I like those kind of people.
Virginity is a construct created by men to control women's sexual behavior
Virginity means the state of never having had sexual intercourse.
Gender has nothing to do with anything, so i have no idea how it could oppressive women.
+Claire Knight So should men not be more careful with a woman who has never had sex? He should just shove it in and expect her to not be nervous at all because it's "just a construct"? Just because something is a construct doesn't mean it's not valuable to some people.
Claire Knight it is definitely disturbing that men don't suffer with these questions in the same way as women.
Claire Knight Interesting perspective
For starters there is not such thing as born-again virgin. Being a virgin means you have done anything sexual with anyone yet. However, there is a such thing as being celibate meaning that you have had sex but you are now choosing to abstain from it until you are Married. I was celibate for 3 years before I married my wife and now we have been happily married for 11 years.
Yeah I think it depends on your level of maturity and ability to categorize. The truth is most young men just want to have sex and don't actually like the individual they're having sex with. So for them abstinence could be the way to find a partner who they're really interested in. But for those who already have the ability to separate lust from love, abstaining from sex may not make as much sense.
Mani M I did so because when we are married it is more spicier. I have done it before I was married in my other relationships and we did not stay together for life. It was sex no love.
rodney1279 why did you deprive yourself? Life's too short and there's no after life. You lose brah!
People who call themselves "born-again" anything are always the most hypocritical people out there always trying to come up with ways to try and excuse their behavior and still appear self-righteous in front of everyone
Claire Knight - so true!!! And nobody is really a "born again anything." We're born once. We live and make choices, some good ones, some bad ones, we (hopefully) learn from mistakes... but once you've had sex, you're not a virgin anymore. That's it. Live with it. You can choose to abstain from sex at any time, but you're no longer a virgin. Just deal with it. (Besides, who wants to have their virginity back!? It was bad enough the first time. 😝)
+Texanwildflower there's a difference between waiting a while longer to give it up for the next person vs. calling yourself a 'born again virgin'. It's the latter that comes across as phony.
Claire Knight as someone who has waited their whole life, I find no harm in it. People want to wait , why shame them for that decision ? They see how sex may have negatively affected their relationships in the past and they want to wait. I am happy for people who make that decision because it really helps you find deep meaningful relationships.
if Joy and Whoopy go the panel will be crazy.
Once your Hymen is broken ,you're no Virgin!!
hymens can break from riding a bicycle or falling so maybe lean a bit about human anatomy before commenting...
Liz Tew thanks for the knowledge preach on Preacher👏👏
Once we start having Wet Dreams and start using jergins, then we become men lol!!
+SuperBullaMan You are focusing on women. What about men? They don't have a hymen or anything that a person could look at to speculate as to whether or not HE is a virgin other than what he says or how he might react around persons who he is attracted to.
Also, if a person engages in oral sex, anal sex or extreme petting (including finger insertion) are they still a virgin? If a person is molested/raped are they still a virgin? If sex is not consensual, does this mean that they lost their virginity? I'm just bringing up these various points because it is not enough to focus on an adult female to determine whether "people" are virgins.
My Hymen Repairing Business is going to explode!
I wanting in marriage and people think I'm weird for that.
You're not and u know that. Shut up lol. Be confident