How to make stress your friend | Kelly McGonigal

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  • Stress. It makes your heart pound, your breathing quicken and your forehead sweat. But while stress has been made into a public health enemy, new research suggests that stress may only be bad for you if you believe that to be the case. Psychologist Kelly McGonigal urges us to see stress as a positive, and introduces us to an unsung mechanism for stress reduction: reaching out to others.
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  • Santiago Pena
    Santiago Pena Day ago

    Recover faster from stress with social contact....me in the middle of a world pandemic and told to social distance under stress....

  • deviltzu
    deviltzu Day ago

    Bring on the stress

  • siddhesh kadam
    siddhesh kadam Day ago

    The book : " The subtle art of not giving a f*ck " by Mark Manson tells exactly this, great video. 👌🏻

  • Quỳnh Văn
    Quỳnh Văn Day ago

    she looks like Shakira, she's so pretty and funny

  • kobe ml
    kobe ml Day ago

    Stop schrolling and listen

  • TheMHG09
    TheMHG09 Day ago

    She is SO GOOD!

  • OMAIR SALEH
    OMAIR SALEH 2 days ago

    This EFT technique worked for me.
    www.selfhelppod.com/eft-tapping-script-for-overcoming-stress-overwhelming-work/amp/

  • Shubert
    Shubert 2 days ago

    or you could make zen your friend... ruclip.com/video/aoObTxlx7BY/video.html

  • rEvolución MGTOW México

    No, ni mergas.

  • Life Hacks
    Life Hacks 4 days ago

    I have alot of oxytocin.

  • Shubhi
    Shubhi 5 days ago +3

    This reminds me of something my granddad always say - your brain is the most powerful tool you have.

  • T.a.w Bailey
    T.a.w Bailey 6 days ago +5

    This is where Psychology becomes a Philosophy. Finally catching up.

  • Shoeb Shaikh
    Shoeb Shaikh 6 days ago

    M?6

  • Marcia Santucci
    Marcia Santucci 7 days ago

    i really need to say Thank you!! You are Beautiful.

  • Phuongvy Ly
    Phuongvy Ly 8 days ago +6

    Briefly: Once we believe stress is a part of our life and it's not dangerous as we think, we follow it and our body response follow as well.

  • Emanuele T
    Emanuele T 9 days ago

    What Is the R^2 calculating this Risk of dying correlations?

  • Channing Bartlett
    Channing Bartlett 9 days ago +1

    I've heard somethinng like this before, in a book, "The End of Stress as We Know It," Bruce McEwen and Eliz. Norton Lasley (2002)

  • na chatozu
    na chatozu 10 days ago

    thank you!thank you!thank you!
    from JAPAN

  • FrozenPunchStar XD
    FrozenPunchStar XD 10 days ago

    Steve Rogers: Dr Banner. Now might be a really good time for you to get angry.
    Bruce Banner: That's my secret, Captain. I'm always angry. Avoiding stress isn't the secret.

  • Garner
    Garner 10 days ago

    Olum komik değil. Kadın dramatik bir şekilde anlatıyo ota boka gülüyorlar.

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  • Neul Ha
    Neul Ha 11 days ago

    The title is WRONG!!!

  • איתמר אברהם
    איתמר אברהם 11 days ago

    Great and helpful lecture thanks 🙏🏼

  • Entab CampusCare
    Entab CampusCare 11 days ago

    ruclip.com/video/uR0SMOcJX4Q/video.html
    in this new age when there is so much work pressure, students at early age have to learn to deal with stress. An experienced educator shares his views about it. he talks about student suicides and how to deal with it?

  • zain
    zain 11 days ago

    Thank-you so much:))

  • まめまめた
    まめまめた 11 days ago

    Adler said you can change by selction

  • Thoa Tran Vlog
    Thoa Tran Vlog 12 days ago

    thanks for your speech!

  • Student RafaelEmmanuelle Vicuna

    My teacher emailed us this video

  • Alperen Çapar
    Alperen Çapar 12 days ago

    Yakınlarıma "stres, ilk çağlardan beri insanları hayatta tutmuştur" diyordum. Şuan aydınlanma yaşadım :)

  • Ron Kraus
    Ron Kraus 12 days ago

    She shouldn’t be able to wear that suit

  • Yee S Ai-Yin
    Yee S Ai-Yin 12 days ago

    So glad I watched this.

  • Thơ Trần
    Thơ Trần 13 days ago

    God! This speech really saved my life!
    Love you Dr. McGonigal

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  • Ahmed Kutty
    Ahmed Kutty 15 days ago

    Waaoo wonderful topic..

  • Υ Ω
    Υ Ω 16 days ago

    awesome

  • Delaz Is
    Delaz Is 17 days ago

    A study on this topic that I found super interesting was, Rethinking stress: the role of mindsets in determining the stress response (Crum & Achor, 2013). I read it during my undergrad and it has helped me tremendously.

  • Brian Tarroja
    Brian Tarroja 18 days ago

    Very well said. Thank you

  • Trần Việt MB Ageas

    Amazing .

  • Raja Ram
    Raja Ram 18 days ago

    we people follow these instructions and one of the most informative topic

  • Nandika Kaul
    Nandika Kaul 18 days ago

    beautiful!

  • TAN ZI YI Moe
    TAN ZI YI Moe 18 days ago +1

    Thanks, finally somebody helping with stress!

  • Emilyn Wood
    Emilyn Wood 19 days ago

    I think this is my first time watching this video, and it's so good!! Why hasn't everyone seen it yet?

  • Kantor Krisztian Mark
    Kantor Krisztian Mark 20 days ago

    This is real. Like why all the supportive work become much more famous if not because people want to support?
    Other: This video is another evidence of belief is a true power, a true healing effect but also a damaging effect. And it is the same in the Bible.

  • sd c
    sd c 21 day ago

    she needs a water

  • see boy
    see boy 21 day ago +1

    wow, beautiful

  • góc sống mỗi ngày

    Your presentation and topic are Very good, thanks you ,

  • Yuki Nakayama
    Yuki Nakayama 22 days ago

    This story makes my mind a lot. Thank you!

  • hai linh
    hai linh 22 days ago

    A great ted talk

  • subaru [RATED]
    subaru [RATED] 23 days ago

    Awesome TED.

  • Yukari
    Yukari 24 days ago +2

    私は人前で話したり本番が苦手です。鼓動が速くなり冷や汗が出てきて頭が真っ白になります。
    しかしその反応は悪いことではなく、成功のために身体の準備をしているのだと考えると多少楽になる気がします。もっと早くにこの動画に出会いたかったです。

    • SEIL PARK
      SEIL PARK 22 days ago +1

      そんなもんです !_! リラックスしてなれますから :)

  • tayyab ali
    tayyab ali 25 days ago +1

    her face making me streess she looks like a witch.

  • mellowmash
    mellowmash 26 days ago

    Thank you for this 💕

  • Jennifer Haney
    Jennifer Haney 26 days ago +19

    "Chasing meaning is better for your health than trying to avoid discomfort."

  • John Mandrake
    John Mandrake 26 days ago

    Best tedtalk I’ve come across

  • Javier Luna-Victoria
    Javier Luna-Victoria 28 days ago

    You are an amazing presenter

  • Ahn Chiguk
    Ahn Chiguk 29 days ago

    Stress makes you social! Excellent!

  • Nabanita Pramanik
    Nabanita Pramanik Month ago

    i always believe stress is joy

  • abdralin
    abdralin Month ago +4

    Oh, reading this book... Thank you Kelly

  • 王一博
    王一博 Month ago

    Bạn đang học muốn học tiếng anh.
    Bạn có sử dụng tiếng a thường xuyên k, đưngquền nói ta 💚
    Tải app cake mỗi ngày học 1 câu và nói nhé

  • 정소연
    정소연 Month ago +2

    I listened this speech for years because it was soooo funny. I learned about the knowledge of the important stress. Thank you!

  • Trang Le
    Trang Le Month ago

    looking at the subtitles and you will not be upset

  • man Super
    man Super Month ago

    So great

  • Rachel W
    Rachel W Month ago

    She seriously needs to drink some water before giving a speech. Awful to listen to her smack and bubble that cotton mouth

    • Happy Doodler
      Happy Doodler Month ago

      I think you should go a bit easier on your criticisms... sure, it's not the best quality for a presenter to have while presenting, but it's a minor one at that. Her "cotton mouth" gave a significant speech about how we, as humans, can deal with stress more effectively, yet you only include what she has done wrong.
      Instead, let's be a bit nicer - you have to give it to her for getting through her presentation pretty effectively otherwise.

  • THUG LEGENDS
    THUG LEGENDS Month ago

    cool , its all about perspective she proved it!

  • rohan raj
    rohan raj Month ago

    First time I dislike your video because you cheated with title 😠

  • Neha Sharma
    Neha Sharma Month ago +1

    its just wow i went through the same and i understand what happened that time!!! its all a process

  • Hamna
    Hamna Month ago

    Needed this. Now I can manipulate my stress into a good thing! 😆

  • Hyunwoo Kim
    Hyunwoo Kim Month ago +46

    Summary: Only if you believe that stress is bad for your health, you would die more of stress. Stress makes you more social by releasing oxytocin. This hormone which you more compassionate and caring, and helps your heart.
    Also, people who spend time caring for people are not affected badly by stress.

  • mahshid karami
    mahshid karami Month ago

    TANX alot .that was the best remedy for stress.a new view which invite you friendly relationship with stress . also you learn what happen inside you and the story behind stress times .

  • Ved Vardhan
    Ved Vardhan Month ago

    Beautiful lady 🙏🙏😊

  • Maryanne Fernandes
    Maryanne Fernandes Month ago +1

    Professor McGonigal, is that you? :o

  • Demi
    Demi Month ago +6

    So tired that I read this title 3 times and still was like, "brain, focus on the words. The words, brain"