Mothers vs Daughters: Is Marriage Necessary?

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  • Jubilee
    Jubilee  Month ago +1361

    Hey everyone - thanks so much for watching this amazing conversation. Thank you to SK-II for making this episode possible! If you enjoyed this piece, be sure to check out SK-II's amazing docu-series #Timelines with Katie Couric ( that addresses pressures women face all around the world. Love you all - thanks for watching and supporting!

    • F.S WORLD
      F.S WORLD 4 days ago

      Jubilee how about a video showing couples married young and those that married late? Me and my wife got married early and of course there were so many challenges but now we are way better

    • Erika Croft
      Erika Croft 5 days ago

      A great job as always! I would love to see a behind-the scenes of the casting process. I'm really curious, as I'm sure others are!

    • Deboras Smith
      Deboras Smith 6 days ago


    • nala beans
      nala beans 23 days ago

      kind of ironic SKII is one of the MOST over-hyped "all the cool kids are doing it" you too should spend enormous amounts of money on products with slim to no evidence.

    • mplsridah
      mplsridah 29 days ago

      Aleesha Khan exactly. Jubilee is partnering with a brand that promotes SELF-HATE. Look it up!

  • Anushri Lama
    Anushri Lama 7 hours ago

    And by the end of it, we were weeping 💛

  • Cici Phen
    Cici Phen Day ago

    So sad that ppl think it’s selfish to not birth your own children?! This world is already overpopulated it’s actually selfless af to either not have kids or to adopt/foster.

  • adetokun abeeb
    adetokun abeeb Day ago

    i'm amazed by the way Jubilee is improving the presentation of their contents.

  • Snips
    Snips Day ago

    When Annemarie was talking about the walk on the beach with her daughter after she paid for her wedding venue I really related, my mother told me the exact same thing recently. My Mom got married at 23 because she thought it was the next thing she had to do, and she knew as she was walking down that aisle that it wasn't what she wanted, he wasn't the right guy, but she thought that "well I've come this far I can't really go back." and that relationship later went up in flames. She told me that she would never want that for me and I could be at the altar about to say I Do and if I had second thoughts she would never think less of me for that. It's really comforting knowing you have the full support of your parent behind your choices. It was nice seeing another Mom saying the same things my mom has to me.

  • Joshua John
    Joshua John Day ago

    Love the format of this video. We were able to peek into each person's life, even if it was just a preview. It made it a lot easier to empathize and understand each perspective.

  • madkatt333
    madkatt333 Day ago

    Why couldn't you have done both points of view for both sides??

  • Shelby Rayne Music

    I really wish there was more conversation about the current social/political climate and bringing a child into the world at this time, and the men's role in child rearing too. Interesting episode!

  • Erika Moss
    Erika Moss Day ago

    Annemarie reminds me of a very good friend of mine from college. She got married prior to graduation and was a stay at home mother for many years, she eventually did go back to school and received her masters however her husband was completely in control of the household finances. When he left her for another relationship after over 20 years of marriage; it devastated her not only emotionally but financially she was left in the lurch. It is of the utmost importance that women who chooses to stay at home, is very much involved in the household finances because anything can happen and she would need to step in and keep the household afloat. My friend told me that she made the mistake of giving her ex-husband too much power and it backfired on her. I hope that Annemarie will make that change.

  • Elio
    Elio Day ago

    Having a child is a big commitment. You have to make constant sacrifices for your child. Some people don’t want that.
    We understand that having a child is a serious decision and decide not to because we know we could not provide or/and support that child in the way they need to grow.
    I REFUSE to parent a child for the “experience”. I am following my passions through my career.
    Do not force women to give birth. That is not your place. This is not debatable. That is a decision that will affect the rest of your life and it’s a choice for that individual to make.

  • Ilze Bornman
    Ilze Bornman Day ago

    This was a beautiful episode about empowering women and their beliefs.

  • Elinoa Delazerda
    Elinoa Delazerda Day ago +1

    What annemarie said at 17:45 almost brought me to tears wow moms are actually the best person you’ll ever have in your corner

  • Vick Marie
    Vick Marie Day ago +2

    This was a beautiful video and a conversation that needs to be had.

  • huyked
    huyked 2 days ago

    This was a great episode. Looking forward to father/son, father/daughter, mother/son version of this. ;)

  • Hey Okay
    Hey Okay 2 days ago +2

    I don’t think u NEED marriage but I want to get married.

  • Jöelle
    Jöelle 2 days ago +2

    marriage doesn't mean a fulfilling life and neither do children.

  • MILK
    MILK 2 days ago +2

    marriage : bringing the government between two people

  • mark9241
    mark9241 2 days ago

    Why is it only people in California who are interviewed? I mean the world probably thinks these are the average Americans. If that's the case, let me spend the rest of my life with a dude

  • kaijxnzTube
    kaijxnzTube 2 days ago

    They’re all daughters 😐

  • Mehmed Cavas
    Mehmed Cavas 2 days ago

    I really liked the mothers

  • Mehmed Cavas
    Mehmed Cavas 2 days ago

    I really like it that the daughters want to do what they want and have their own dreams. However, it is also a bit sad to see that they are a bit too much against the old generation and they would even accept to not mary or getting children. They think the old generation is a slave of the old tradition but can't really see that they are also a slave of modern civilication.

  • sotskuo
    sotskuo 2 days ago

    Afrika’s mom seems like an amazing person

  • Rachel Jay
    Rachel Jay 2 days ago

    FACTS: studies show that if you live with someone before getting married to them, your chance of getting divorced at some point is higher.

  • Soz Ziad
    Soz Ziad 2 days ago

    Jewel , that woman is so mature !!

  • Daniel Hoyt
    Daniel Hoyt 2 days ago +2

    As a father of an only son. Please do DADS VS SONS

  • Khushal Paherwar
    Khushal Paherwar 2 days ago

    Next video Father vs. Son
    I'm expecting at least 1 father will whoop their son

  • Megan Axelía Carrington-Ráðvarðurdóttir

    I cannot imagine not having children; little, mini versions of me and my future husband to carry on our knowledge, lineage and mark to the future generations😊.
    It’s almost like immortalizing your presence in the world.
    It’s also quite important as my nation has a low population anyway and we’d like to keep the national, cultural, ancestral, historical identity and roots alive.

    • Marvin Morris
      Marvin Morris Day ago

      Megan Axelía Carrington-Ráðvarðurdóttir - Ew, white children are gross 🤢

    • Megan Axelía Carrington-Ráðvarðurdóttir
      Megan Axelía Carrington-Ráðvarðurdóttir 3 days ago +1

      Sai Acharya
      Of course. I am currently studying medicine and I want to be the best cardiothoracic surgeon in the world haha.
      Children won’t stop me from achieving that.
      It’s a shared commitment between my future husband and me so it isn’t just my time and responsibility. The government has many benefits and ways for women to not be held back or discriminated by their pregnancies in their career.
      Regardless, I will still be learning, doing courses, studying, etc on leave.

    • Sai Acharya
      Sai Acharya 3 days ago

      Don’t u want a professional career and that

  • Anthony Richardson
    Anthony Richardson 3 days ago

    I just can't get over how effective, open and honest the communication was without any aggression or adversion
    *Especially politics*

    • Amiah Herrera
      Amiah Herrera 3 days ago +1

      Lmao how regressive can you be...
      My mother is not like this so I guess she isn’t a real or proper woman.
      Women and men can be and are unique in personality. Judge by merit and individual character. Not what’s between someone’s legs.

  • Anthony Richardson
    Anthony Richardson 3 days ago

    Do mothers and sons! Fathers and daughters!

  • Always Smile
    Always Smile 3 days ago

    Why isnt there any man in this video?

  • aawesome114
    aawesome114 3 days ago

    That was beautiful!

  • Ocean Maitreya
    Ocean Maitreya 3 days ago

    this was an incredibly wholesome episode

  • Kaylee Parada
    Kaylee Parada 3 days ago +1

    lowkey cried bc Ion got this kind of relationship w ma mom.

  • Omar Arreola
    Omar Arreola 3 days ago

    Living life I figure out most people only have families at the end children change most people traditional marriage is great it teaches people not to quit most people will not find the perfect person or close but its accepting differences that makes us great to build and evolve our views something this generation doesn't have enough

  • nattiemagic
    nattiemagic 3 days ago

    I feel like my soul is lighter after watching this

  • H R
    H R 3 days ago

    People talking about adoption like it's some field trip. Sure she can get her tubes tied. There's none who can force her do other way, but adopting child isn't easy either.

  • Hellsangel 04
    Hellsangel 04 3 days ago +1

    I hate feminazis as if men don’t have a tone of pressure to live a certain way,women have it easy trust.

  • Nellie Brown
    Nellie Brown 3 days ago +2

    I think both sides were very respectful. But the 'you should have children just to experience it' is something I hear a lot. You go travelling just to experience it, you do bungee jumping just to experience it and if you dont like it you dont do it again. You shouldn't have a child just to experience it, they're a life long commitment. That's horrible advice

    • Amiah Herrera
      Amiah Herrera 3 days ago

      Nah they’re only a commitment till like 18 years old😂

  • Colleen Hunter
    Colleen Hunter 3 days ago

    Marriage is unnecessary. Period.

  • datkipztho
    datkipztho 4 days ago

    this is such a beautiful and heartfelt conversation between women who are supporting one another and respecting everyone's opinions

  • Itz_Aabir
    Itz_Aabir 4 days ago +1

    I can't wait till I have kids tbh

  • The Orange Lime
    The Orange Lime 4 days ago

    Men can also be married.

  • Karina
    Karina 4 days ago

    18:30 she really said "period" girlll ouu i see u😂

  • Lourdes Fonseca
    Lourdes Fonseca 4 days ago

    I, as a mother and wife, pay ALL the bills.
    My husband takes care of the household: laundry, dinner and keeping the house clean.
    We never talked about “our roles.” We just fell into what we do best.

  • DublinGreen
    DublinGreen 4 days ago +1

    Annemarie is the type of woman I want to marry, a woman's woman. Not marry a man in woman's body or a woman that behaves like a man.

  • DublinGreen
    DublinGreen 4 days ago +1

    "Can I have my mother's to the left and my daughters to the right" lol how many daughters and mothers does that lady have?

  • Emma
    Emma 4 days ago

    This was so wholesome

  • nick cap
    nick cap 5 days ago

    these 1 dimensional guys that havent thought about having kids, he aint the one

  • Hannah hannah
    Hannah hannah 5 days ago

    why am i crying in the club rn. i love you mom

  • Matthew Thompson
    Matthew Thompson 5 days ago

    I don't think marriage is necessary (outside of some legal problems like not getting to make your partner's end-of-life decisions), but I do think I've benefitted from mine. I like the idea that making a life commitment gives you a chance to cultivate the deepest relationship of your life. The longer I stay with my spouse, the more important it is for us to stay together. Having that type of commitment has helped me become a better person. Caution: Results May Differ

  • mali goebel
    mali goebel 5 days ago

    "kids do better with the mom" LMFAO NO YOURE WROG

  • mali goebel
    mali goebel 5 days ago

    when youre old and need help, dont make your kids take care of you and you don't need marriage and you dont owe a child to your mom

  • mali goebel
    mali goebel 5 days ago

    annemarie is prob anti vax

  • mali goebel
    mali goebel 5 days ago +1

    Lmfao Afrika was about smack Annemarie 'what do you know at 25?!". But just because you get your tubes tied doesn't mean you won't have kids. You can always adopt or have a surrogate if you change your mind

  • Erika Croft
    Erika Croft 5 days ago

    A great job as always! I would love to see a behind-the scenes of the casting process. I'm really curious, as I'm sure others are!

  • man man
    man man 5 days ago

    All I got from the white daughters home life is that she getting it from BBC and she paying for it lol.

  • Luna Moreno
    Luna Moreno 5 days ago

    Okay but overall this video was super wholesome because in the end all the mothers supported their daughters and understood where they were coming from.

  • Dani Alexandria
    Dani Alexandria 5 days ago

    Can yall not just mic the person asking the questions?

  • Barney Stenson
    Barney Stenson 6 days ago +2

    It's narcissistic to think only women have societal pressure to live a certain way

    • Diva Tude
      Diva Tude 2 days ago

      Barney Stenson yes but obviously they’re not going to talk about the other side of things because they don’t have that experience and never will so they obviously won’t have them speak on it. If they did a video like this as fathers vs sons I’m sure it would be brought up.

  • Panda God
    Panda God 6 days ago +1

    I believe gender roles are very important but they are NOT mandatory. It's just a cultural belief. I'm Mexican and I totally believe in being a strong woman but it's not impossible to be strong and have a level of respect for yourself and your husband. It's just a moral and personal choice.