No Sex Marriage - Masturbation, Loneliness, Cheating and Shame | Maureen McGrath | TEDxStanleyPark

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2016
  • Love? Marriage? Sex? Can a married couple have all three? Perhaps it’s unrealistic since so many marriages end in divorce today. Why is that? One reason might be that a reported 20% of all marriages are sexless and that number is rising. Why have we lost the lust in our marriages? Is it technology, is it trust? More importantly, how can we “get back at it” in our marriages today?
    Maureen McGrath - nursetalk@hotmail.com - hosts the Sunday Night Sex Show on News Talk 980 CKNW. She is a Registered Nurse, Sex Educator and author of “Sex & Health".
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 13 586

  • oversteer46
    oversteer46 6 часов назад

    Why is she swaying from side to side? What is wrong with her? It’s so annoying.

  • James Coyle
    James Coyle 12 часов назад

    Change your partner every 10 years problem solved

  • Billy Kidd
    Billy Kidd День назад

    You should get a farm to put those CALFS ON !!!!!

  • Carl Mitchell
    Carl Mitchell День назад

    This doesn’t help anyone.

  • Ed 1
    Ed 1 День назад

    Mgtow

  • Mr Man
    Mr Man День назад

    Everyone, go watch Tom Leykis.

  • Antonio Minaya
    Antonio Minaya День назад

    idiotik

  • Yaqub Tareen
    Yaqub Tareen День назад

    Question, who is married & happy or not? Explain your reason...

  • Hillbilly University
    Hillbilly University День назад

    I believe we value it entirely too much... would you feel the same (folks complaining about the lack of, I mean) if a medical condition made it so it wasn't possible. The mental, habitual behavior is what creates the cravings and the issues concerning the matter. The physical part can be handled on your own. Just don't get caught in the trap of thinking about other people while you handle that. I know that's tough, but everything can be done in practice to create new mental habits. Then, love her/him with everything else you have. That's my thoughts anyway. I know people have their own, but there's something to consider from a very happily married man.

  • robotoda2000
    robotoda2000 День назад

    I'm never getting married.

  • Madhu Reddy
    Madhu Reddy День назад

    Men’s are so selfish 💦lol

  • Yuri Ramirez
    Yuri Ramirez День назад

    I’ve gone on strike; whenever she wants it, I say I’m not in the mood. I’m tired of getting rejected so I’m turning the tables around for a change.
    Edit: she wants it maybe once a month...if that.

  • Md. Abdulla al Mamun
    Md. Abdulla al Mamun День назад

    this is hilarious to listen ..... :)

  • Onyapidi
    Onyapidi День назад

    17:41 that sculpture or is it a drawing? just above letter X in red, a the back of the stage...is kinda creepy! Lol

  • deepfriedsammich
    deepfriedsammich День назад

    She also seems to buy into the Billy Joel lyric that "Catholic girls start much too late..." Again, I'm wondering where she went to school. I'm in my 50's. I was Catholic school educated. Sorry Maureen, Catholic girls are faster and they tend to be kinkier, too.

  • Lord Humongus
    Lord Humongus День назад

    MGTOW! All you Beta Cucks!

  • Marco Medina
    Marco Medina День назад

    It is an old movie, but very helpfull if you're having a complicated marriage, it might help, guides you to an other way to see things inside marriage: "fireproof"

  • DIO GALLARDO
    DIO GALLARDO 2 дня назад +2

    MGTOW

  • James InOregon
    James InOregon 2 дня назад

    Too many disconnected facts and too many anecdotal stories that are also disconnected to any concept of a thesis to the discussion. The stories are basically just medical voyeurism.

  • Carlos Carbonell
    Carlos Carbonell 2 дня назад +1

    I can't get over how she just makes the same hand gesture over and over

  • Rolando Reyes
    Rolando Reyes 2 дня назад

    Gran plática, y lo peor es cierto😑

  • Rob R
    Rob R 2 дня назад

    nice comedy talk

  • Nick Brown
    Nick Brown 2 дня назад

    She sounds like a robot

  • George Guidas
    George Guidas 2 дня назад

    I'm living the loneliness, frustration, anger.

  • hughiemg2
    hughiemg2 2 дня назад

    The marriage vows should be amended to say that you promise to remain faithful as long as the partner continues to put out... otherwise you reserve the right to engage hookers to fill the gap!

  • Matthew Sanders
    Matthew Sanders 2 дня назад

    We evolved to screw everything in sight and have done that for billions of years. Marriage is a very very new concept.

  • Gabriel Roberto Rodriguez
    Gabriel Roberto Rodriguez 2 дня назад

    I watched this and it was very good until the super woman appeared , I'm off now

  • Rachel Tolve
    Rachel Tolve 2 дня назад

    Did she say Diabetus?

  • skinny3715
    skinny3715 3 дня назад

    Seriously. This is good suff

  • skinny3715
    skinny3715 3 дня назад

    My ex wife cut me back to once every 6 months. I was lucky. Some she cut out all together

  • william dobbins
    william dobbins 3 дня назад

    I work 70 hours a week. I romance, I seduce. I do all of my laundry, all the dishes, and take care of the kids.... IN A SINGLE INCOME HOUSE! So give me one reason I ain't getting any.
    If I knew then, MGTOW

  • jr rej
    jr rej 3 дня назад +1

    Is she the Siri voice?

  • Anthony Payne
    Anthony Payne 3 дня назад +1

    This is liberal BS

  • Max Willson
    Max Willson 3 дня назад +1

    Most divorces happen due to financial issues. It’s a little hard to get it up or make her wet when money issues happen. If Americans lived with in their means we wouldn’t have the majority of relationship issues.

  • ghost reader
    ghost reader 3 дня назад +1

    She turned me on

  • Soundwave Superior
    Soundwave Superior 3 дня назад

    I hate my wife. She admitted she’s not even trying in our “ relationship”. Only with her for my son.

  • mete ozberk
    mete ozberk 4 дня назад

    she think how can earn money from morons and decided about this smart women

  • Jason Griffith
    Jason Griffith 5 дней назад +1

    What's the definition of foreplay? At least two hours of begging.

  • Cody Burgess
    Cody Burgess 5 дней назад

    Orrrrr....love?

  • Emi Aman
    Emi Aman 5 дней назад

    Good advice......

  • huseyn veliyev
    huseyn veliyev 5 дней назад

    true

  • grapsta
    grapsta 5 дней назад

    Great talk

  • Catherine Gou
    Catherine Gou 5 дней назад

    MENOS MAS QUE LOS CHINOS Y JAPONESES MAESTROS EN VENGANZAS SUTILES PEERO REALES, DESPUES DE INVENTARSE LAS MOTOS PARA VENGAR LAS BOMBAS DE HIROSHIMA Y NAGAZAKI LAS CUALES SON EFECTIVAS EN MILES DE MUERTES EN TODO EL PLANETA, SE INVENTARON LAS MUÑECAS Y MUÑECOS SEXUALES CON LO CUAL YA NO TENEMOS NECESIDAD DE TENER SEXO CON HUMANOS QUE SOLO PORQTAN ENFERMEDADES, ODIOS, VANIDAD, EGOCENTRISMO, HUMILLACIONES, INFIDELIDAD, TRAICIONES, ETC. ASI QUE EL SEXO NO ES TAN NECSARIO Y SI HAY APURO ESTAN LAS MUÑECAS Y MUÑECOS Y YA, SE EVITA MILES DE PROBLEMAS INNECESARIOS...

  • Lord Teletubby Dipsy :*
    Lord Teletubby Dipsy :* 6 дней назад

    Feminism is ending marriage.

  • CHETTAN sharma
    CHETTAN sharma 6 дней назад

    At 36..M single n happy✌️✌️

  • Leslie Keenan
    Leslie Keenan 7 дней назад

    Good to know

  • L3SAN360
    L3SAN360 7 дней назад

    What is love? Baby don’t hurt me.

  • Five Aces Productions
    Five Aces Productions 7 дней назад

    Wise words. Really helpful! :D

  • Scot Caraway
    Scot Caraway 7 дней назад

    I have always heard that women cheat to save their marriage. Being that they love their husband but are not satisfied.

  • Juan Gabriel Saiz Varona
    Juan Gabriel Saiz Varona 8 дней назад

    This video is utterly terrible. What’s with the continuous bashing and thrashing of men!? It’s truly sickening. I wonder why no one else can seem to realize how poorly she treats men…Is this accepted behavior in the USA?

  • tri-u watersports
    tri-u watersports 8 дней назад

    MGTOW NOW

  • tri-u watersports
    tri-u watersports 8 дней назад +1

    BUT, but... I have 20 cats🤔🤔🤔

  • Deep Knowledge
    Deep Knowledge 10 дней назад +2

    very helpful

  • Sheena McDaniel
    Sheena McDaniel 10 дней назад +2

    I love me❤, I'm glad, I'm single and not sleeping with no one...

  • Indie Fury
    Indie Fury 10 дней назад

    women are useless MGtow

  • Sylvia Stephenj
    Sylvia Stephenj 10 дней назад

    why does this sound more like a mike night stand up than a professional ted talk?

  • Kwabena Asare
    Kwabena Asare 10 дней назад

    I can’t watch her...her swaying is killing me!

  • zeb doz
    zeb doz 11 дней назад +1

    well if you do not get supper at home , you end up going out to eat! glad i am no longer married myself

  • Roland Medgyesi
    Roland Medgyesi 11 дней назад +1

    Good topic big time!! Huge problem nowdays in marriages :(

  • Ankita Sharma
    Ankita Sharma 11 дней назад

    Ohhhh but I am not married 👰

  • Jim Gyselman
    Jim Gyselman 11 дней назад

    Q

  • Rufus T Firefly
    Rufus T Firefly 11 дней назад

    Romantic love? Meh...

  • Steve Jones
    Steve Jones 12 дней назад

    Jokes mocking men are a bit out of date, don't you think? Perhaps men in your life are worthless losers, but I'm not and I know many men who aren't. There are plenty of men who do "the lion's share" and whose wives are lazy and sitting on their butts. How about just presenting the material without putting down half of the married people out there?

  • Mrinalinee Meen
    Mrinalinee Meen 12 дней назад +1

    Haha...settling all marital arguments being naked...I bet there'll never be any argument 😃
    Great speech indeed!!!

  • SEXY JO MAMA
    SEXY JO MAMA 12 дней назад +1

    IM SOLO MAKES ME MORE STRONGER IN LIFE TO BE THE BETTER PERSON.

  • SEXY JO MAMA
    SEXY JO MAMA 12 дней назад +1

    THE ONE I MEET RECENT. HAS BEEN A BAD RELATIONSHIP AND HAS CAME TO ME AND ITS BEEN HONEST LOYAL ON A MAN THAT I HAVE BEEN MARRIED HAS BEEN CHEATING UNFAITHFUL. 2006 FROM 2018 STILL. SO MEN LIKE SENOBIO BALTIERRA AND RACHEL RIO HERNANDEZ HAVE BEEN TO GETHER AS I WAS MARRIED TO SENOBIO BALTIERRA. NOW LEAVING FOR A BETTER PLACE.

  • Brig Sushil Bhasin
    Brig Sushil Bhasin 12 дней назад +1

    Extremely educative

    • Brig Sushil Bhasin
      Brig Sushil Bhasin 12 дней назад

      +Maureen McGrath Can we connect. Subcribed.

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 12 дней назад +2

      Thank you very much +Brig Sushil Bhasin

  • Michael Kahr
    Michael Kahr 12 дней назад +2

    Nobody knows anything so everybody can say anything they like about rhe matter. The topic is up for grabs.

  • Reese 98
    Reese 98 12 дней назад

    Oh wait, I don't care!

  • #Savage Movement
    #Savage Movement 13 дней назад +1

    All men cheat

    • Dave G
      Dave G 11 дней назад

      I have never cheated. But I have been cheated on in one of my relationships. She wanted a wealthier man.

  • 90DayMoneyPro
    90DayMoneyPro 13 дней назад +1

    Single people or married - this video is powerful!!! 💪

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 12 дней назад +1

      Wow! Nice of you to say! +90DayMoneyPro

  • Duane Bettger
    Duane Bettger 14 дней назад +2

    Lonelyness...it will make you hard as steel.

  • Andrew O'Connor
    Andrew O'Connor 14 дней назад +1

    This is FANTASTIC! Preach This! hallelujah!

  • Serginho Urquidez
    Serginho Urquidez 14 дней назад +2

    Communication is key. Married for 18 years and happy as f@&k.

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 12 дней назад +1

      That's awesome! +Serginho Urquidez

  • The GREATitude Coach
    The GREATitude Coach 15 дней назад +1

    Her speaking pace is awful. Way too distracting.

  • morgellon Betancor
    morgellon Betancor 15 дней назад

    TODOS TENEMOS PROBLEMAS Y NO HAY SOLUCIONES PARA TODOS

  • Olympia Alvarez
    Olympia Alvarez 15 дней назад +1

    I needed this

  • Kairo Ent Music
    Kairo Ent Music 15 дней назад +5

    Lick it before you stick it

  • MIKEY VEE
    MIKEY VEE 15 дней назад

    16:35 don’t those go hand and hand???

  • minoo zerafat
    minoo zerafat 16 дней назад

    great
    thanks

  • goodart
    goodart 16 дней назад +1

    You just described my husband! Zero desire.

  • Bloo
    Bloo 16 дней назад +2

    Does anyone else thinks she speaks like an artificially generated voice?

  • lakmeister
    lakmeister 16 дней назад +1

    You get married and yes it's boring and so dull....and not any where near as good as your last g/f ...ring any bells?

    • lakmeister
      lakmeister 12 дней назад

      +Maureen McGrath comforting thought Maureen?

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 12 дней назад

      That bell has been rung before indeed. +lakmeister

  • Kim Taehyung
    Kim Taehyung 17 дней назад +1

    so, um...... how much masturbation is too much doc?

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 12 дней назад

      As long as it doesn't interfere with any domain of your life. +Kim Taehyung

  • Altaranalt
    Altaranalt 18 дней назад +1

    4:22 it frightens women? It frightens men too, lol!

  • GM-drums
    GM-drums 19 дней назад +1

    I thought Wanking was a town in China until I got married.😜

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 12 дней назад

      Good one! Comment of the week! +GM-drums

  • vanessa southern
    vanessa southern 19 дней назад +1

    Solution? BARRY WHITE. The luuurve walrus.

  • qian xu
    qian xu 19 дней назад

    nothing help

  • Ahmet Medunjanin
    Ahmet Medunjanin 21 день назад

    Whores..

  • Ed Ku
    Ed Ku 21 день назад +1

    Wonderful talk.

  • Joe Braxton
    Joe Braxton 22 дня назад +1

    This was so great! I've haven't laughed like this in a long time. She is attractive, great speaker with a nice smile and her sense of humor was fantastic. How much is too much...well, as long as you can go to work. Classic.

  • Ron B
    Ron B 22 дня назад +1

    Men plz stop getting married. Life is easier without problems in your life. Most women arent interesting enough to keep around either way. If you get married its the genesis of your demise. Good luck

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 12 дней назад

      Not necessarily. Married men are healthier and live longer. It's what you make of it. Marry the right person is my advice but know things can change. +Ron B

    • Preye Yinkore
      Preye Yinkore 18 дней назад +1

      Sorry I'm married. Have two boys already.

  • D L
    D L 22 дня назад +1

    I like her ideas but her robotic sentences are off putting like she’s reading a book stopping at every period

    • Preye Yinkore
      Preye Yinkore 18 дней назад +1

      She is reading a Teleprompt.

  • Carl Benjamin
    Carl Benjamin 22 дня назад +1

    She’s hilarious

  • lutschi futschi
    lutschi futschi 23 дня назад +1

    Women.....yeah men are the problem....

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 12 дней назад

      No, in fact this video said the exact opposite. +lutschi futschi

  • bombalu5
    bombalu5 23 дня назад +1

    💪 😂

  • Khathutshelo Nenwini
    Khathutshelo Nenwini 25 дней назад

    What a waste of data

  • iEuno1
    iEuno1 25 дней назад

    Try getting married to a partner where your country start an economic boycott for political reasons, while threatened with incrimination for life if not longer. Not the best way to honor your parents if you stayed there... Even the pentagon gave me a referral for that marriage during our engagement (still ongoing due to delay and diversion).

  • Kok Wah
    Kok Wah 26 дней назад +1

    This is the most uninteresting video after 2 years on RUclip! Bye! I am gonna continue browsing!

  • gilbert madrid
    gilbert madrid 26 дней назад +1

    Wow sad