No Sex Marriage - Masturbation, Loneliness, Cheating and Shame | Maureen McGrath | TEDxStanleyPark

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2016
  • Love? Marriage? Sex? Can a married couple have all three? Perhaps it’s unrealistic since so many marriages end in divorce today. Why is that? One reason might be that a reported 20% of all marriages are sexless and that number is rising. Why have we lost the lust in our marriages? Is it technology, is it trust? More importantly, how can we “get back at it” in our marriages today?
    Maureen McGrath - nursetalk@hotmail.com - hosts the Sunday Night Sex Show on News Talk 980 CKNW. She is a Registered Nurse, Sex Educator and author of “Sex & Health".
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • CH7
    CH7 2 дня назад +1

    I do not wish to throw in a religious argument (I respect everyone's beliefs) so feel free to interpret this statement. Satan is having a field day because standards are dying. He assaults single people with an avalanche of temptations and when they finally wed, he afflicts people with abstinence. It's truly sick. Before I wed, I am going to make my expectations very clear and every other man or woman should do the same.

  • G.E.T Lifestyle
    G.E.T Lifestyle 4 дня назад +1

    why does she sound like she reading off a damn paper!

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 4 дня назад +1

      Not sure why because I wasn't. +G.E.T. Lifestyle

  • John Dyer
    John Dyer 5 дней назад

    Women could care less until they are the ones doing without. Interesting.

  • Geogria Peach
    Geogria Peach 7 дней назад +1

    Wow. Thank you. Wonderful.

    • vijay s
      vijay s 4 дня назад

      Geogria Peach for what?

  • Zomber WonderClan
    Zomber WonderClan 8 дней назад

    All i see is women asking and asking for stuff, and never thinking about give, or at least not to the degree in which they ask, it's like a tamagotchi, you gotta check up on it twice an hour, you don't in like 3 days? There, an affair, it's your fault, by the way.

  • Willy Awesomehttps://youtu.be/1IYvxP7kVt8

    I love this woman

  • TheMostGodless SinfulBastard
    TheMostGodless SinfulBastard 9 дней назад

    Marriage is such a an old, no longer needed, institution ---- it is a CONTRACT for god's sake!!
    The best way to go at it is to never ever never have just one woman to sleep with and never marry, that is according to nature.
    These people still want to fix this situation WITHIN the confines of the same old paradigm. If one person or both no longer feel desire for he other, all other nice feelings just will not do the trick. Daily life is passion's killer.

  • gtrmusic69
    gtrmusic69 9 дней назад

    She just keeps rocking back and forth the entire time.

  • Hippy(Bboomer)
    Hippy(Bboomer) 9 дней назад +1

    Her opening line is totally cycnical.

  • TheUniversalAcid
    TheUniversalAcid 9 дней назад

    What a load of nonsense

  • Joe Nelson
    Joe Nelson 10 дней назад +1

    Wow... there seems to be a lot of man-bashing in the beginning of this video. Doesn't seem very helpful to men who are already self-conscious about their performance, intimacy, etc. Thanks.
    Watched the whole thing though, but it definitely colored my perception. Made it hard to concentrate on the points she was trying to make later in the video.

  • R4P3 NETWORK
    R4P3 NETWORK 10 дней назад

    21:48 anyone hearing weird noises too?

  • Karlo Moharić
    Karlo Moharić 10 дней назад

    A lot of marriages end in divorce , simply because young people entering them have unrealistic expectations of one another. I personally blame all those romantic comedies and soap operas.

  • Hippy(Bboomer)
    Hippy(Bboomer) 10 дней назад

    My parents were doing it when they were over 70.. Marriages fail because people are not committed, and they live by feelings instead of faith

  • avoime
    avoime 10 дней назад

    Those statistics sound extremly sus

  • Umashankar Ram
    Umashankar Ram 10 дней назад

    U

  • Jay Bloom
    Jay Bloom 11 дней назад

    The Red flag to watch for is: "You do not make me happy any more." Reason: Happiness comes from within our own inner self and our inner makeup. And that derives from our interaction Spiritually--often directed by our familial experiences.

  • Allan Stokes
    Allan Stokes 11 дней назад

    Amazing. Never mentions the British once.

  • SIR WAFFLEBOB
    SIR WAFFLEBOB 11 дней назад

    Just don't get married. Ever!

  • D:
    D: 11 дней назад

    Women are delusional.

  • Derek Hippensteel
    Derek Hippensteel 12 дней назад

    Painful decades slipping...

  • Derek Hippensteel
    Derek Hippensteel 12 дней назад

    Show up for the divorce proceedings. Still waiting for someone I recognize through the court proceedings. Third judge...

  • leni lenape
    leni lenape 12 дней назад +1

    Women create all these chores that need to be done. Women just have more material needs.

  • Parth Patel
    Parth Patel 13 дней назад +1

    Life changes when you get married you love your work more

  • Parth Patel
    Parth Patel 13 дней назад

    It should not be in brain it should be in stomach

  • freepointsgals
    freepointsgals 13 дней назад

    Why am I watching this? WHY?

  • Brian Ramsey
    Brian Ramsey 13 дней назад

    "50% of men would not have married their spouses if they had known that their marriage was going to be sexless."
    And yet some wonder why MGTOW is a growing movement.

  • Con Artist
    Con Artist 13 дней назад

    Wish she'd stop moving and rocking sideways!!

  • Edmond Boulanger
    Edmond Boulanger 14 дней назад

    it is a lack of thrust that leads to a lack of thrusting.

  • Furrowed Brow
    Furrowed Brow 14 дней назад +1

    Very cleverly worded presentation.

  • HK83IE
    HK83IE 14 дней назад

    swayyy left right left right left right left right ...

  • MJ mj
    MJ mj 14 дней назад +1

    Men are tired of women, and the society they now dominate. It was not meant to be this way; men cannot adjust to being co-equals or less. Men are taller, stronger, faster, less complicated thinkers, and more aggressive - naturally. This made men the natural leader of familial and tribal arrangements. The last 100 years of our 50,000 years together has turned this all on it's head - in the relative blink of an eye... And people do videos like this, wondering what happened. Add our estrogen laden food supply to this mix, and you got what we got here in the west...The west is dying, all the older traditional societies have to do is hang on a little bit longer. We'll be gone - of our own arrogance and ignorance about the balance of life, nature, men/women...the universe.

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 14 дней назад

      Not sure what planet you're writing in from but I can tell you one thing; life here on Mars is quite different. +MJ mj

  • uday bhaskar
    uday bhaskar 15 дней назад +1

    very informative

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 15 дней назад

      Thank you +uday bhaskar Appreciate that.

  • ralph domond
    ralph domond 15 дней назад +2

    Why does she sound like the “please leave a message at the tone” lady

  • Paul Fernando
    Paul Fernando 15 дней назад

    Bollocks 😊

  • Drk RE
    Drk RE 15 дней назад +1

    She was quite funny, but what I concluded from this is that marriage is a s**t sandwich for men and men staying in sexless marriages are total wusses...

  • XRAW TV
    XRAW TV 15 дней назад +1

    Marriage is for ...Women! Freedom is for Men !

  • Steven Homan
    Steven Homan 15 дней назад

    Damn. liar. Yeah to much sexb

  • peter58peter
    peter58peter 16 дней назад

    Do not, even by accident, include in all of this capitalist ugliness.

  • vip1000001
    vip1000001 16 дней назад

    No money no funny

  • Tommie White
    Tommie White 17 дней назад

    STOP MAKING BABIES

  • Dianna Yates
    Dianna Yates 17 дней назад +1

    What about when the roles are switched? What about the women who initiate and it's the men who dont want you?

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 14 дней назад

      I'm including it in my next You Tube talk planned for Q1 2019. +Dianna Yates

    • outlawruffryder
      outlawruffryder 15 дней назад

      Maureen McGrath even more painful? How so? Is there a thing such as a pain measuring device ?

    • Dianna Yates
      Dianna Yates 16 дней назад +1

      Maureen McGrath It is quite painful, wish there was a Ted Talk on the other side of this. Women tend to take it put on themselves. Been with this man for 9 years and married 6 and we are in a sexless marriage. We have a pretty awesome relationship otherwise. I think it just isnt discussed enough that it isnt always the women saying "no." Thank you for responding, by the way. Appreciate it :) Bless you

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 16 дней назад +1

      That happens and it is even more painful +Dianna Yates

  • Wabbit Hunter
    Wabbit Hunter 17 дней назад +1

    "Intimacy" is for women. Men don't give a fook. We just want to fook. We do not put effort into it - we just want to do it. Why "care" about it when we have to have "feelers" about everything?

  • Wabbit Hunter
    Wabbit Hunter 17 дней назад

    As someone who has been married for 30 years - I masturbated furiously to this video - anyone else?

  • William Ted Brown
    William Ted Brown 17 дней назад

    Approaching z90 a good memory jogger.

  • DeAndre Enrico
    DeAndre Enrico 18 дней назад +1

    All the insecure men in here calling this a man bashing fest are hilarious.

  • gladys mueller
    gladys mueller 18 дней назад +1

    Too late

  • LassieRF
    LassieRF 18 дней назад +1

    for whoever the problem is trouble in getting hard + keeping it up, just have your hubbies eat watermelon on a regular basis. or take L-arginine. works wonders. + have them do kegels every 2nd day. 3-5 seconds - 50 kegels ideally. but 20 in the first week or 2 works great too. you're welcome 8)

  • isacusful
    isacusful 18 дней назад

    how do you got time to that this conversation

  • Amrendra singh
    Amrendra singh 18 дней назад +2

    She has got a charm.

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 17 дней назад +1

      Why, thank you very much. +Amrendra singh

  • Groundbate Smith
    Groundbate Smith 18 дней назад +2

    Its all true, I live on my own,,, im glad theres no wife here, married for 18 years,,, glad she gone...

  • Mayank Soni
    Mayank Soni 18 дней назад +1

    Please translate it in hindi or hindi subtitles

  • cataderian
    cataderian 18 дней назад

    I like the train analogy. Men reach that destination 98% of the time, women far,far less. Some never. Whats the point of a long train ride if you almost never get to the destination?

  • Don try-ya
    Don try-ya 18 дней назад

    58 times a year!!!!!! No, at least 5 times a week , 260 a year!! She with a wrong man or husband

  • Ken MacMillan
    Ken MacMillan 18 дней назад +1

    Colds really are harder on men.

    • Ken MacMillan
      Ken MacMillan 18 дней назад

      It's scientifically proven, the cold virus attacks men harder.

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 18 дней назад

      Of course they are! +Ken MacMillan

  • tony harmon
    tony harmon 19 дней назад

    get a dog....

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    alexandra9508 19 дней назад

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  • videogalore
    videogalore 19 дней назад

    Really good talk once I forced myself past the unnecessary sexism at the beginning. Stereotypes are there for a reason because they work more often than not, but I can't help but think that if the presenter was a man and produced the same slurs against women then this would have had a very different reception!

  • knowledgetracker
    knowledgetracker 19 дней назад

    The voice-over in sections is annoying.

  • Nancy Lee
    Nancy Lee 19 дней назад

    I'm surprised she didn''t mention morals ,concerning cheating. It's not worth it, folks, if you believe what the Bible says...So a sexless marriage becomes very difficult and heartbreaking!

    • outlawruffryder
      outlawruffryder 15 дней назад

      Nancy Lee what dies the bible say about submitance?

  • Shannon Patitucci
    Shannon Patitucci 19 дней назад

    Amen sister !

  • T Onion
    T Onion 20 дней назад +1

    Is this a robot?

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 19 дней назад +1

      That's because they were off! I've just had an aha moment! They wanted me to edit this and probably cut out the audio. I declined. Thanks for your kind words! +T Onion

    • T Onion
      T Onion 19 дней назад +1

      Maureen McGrath Lol! The videos audio seems kinda off. I really enjoyed your speech. So much truth, you are an amazing person!

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 19 дней назад

      No, I'm no. +T Onion

  • Jason Wood
    Jason Wood 20 дней назад +1

    wow that was an awesome presentation

  • James KNAPP
    James KNAPP 20 дней назад

    The most fulfilled marriages are swingers!

  • joukcrew03
    joukcrew03 20 дней назад +3

    I was too distracted by that expensive necklace around her neck.

    • joukcrew03
      joukcrew03 19 дней назад +1

      Maureen McGrath ..lol seemed too sparkly to not be expensive. The talk was very very informative.

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 19 дней назад +1

      LOL, it was $50 bucks. +joucrew03

  • Jean Keats
    Jean Keats 20 дней назад +1

    BAL oney! I don't want to fantasize about anyone but my own husband and we've been together almost 20 years. He still gives me that feeling she's talking about. Now, does he feel the same? Don't know.

  • Daniel Johnson
    Daniel Johnson 20 дней назад +1

    Today’s lifestyle

  • Enyonam Att-eshun
    Enyonam Att-eshun 21 день назад +1

    Great piece!

  • Vincent Gabriel Antonini
    Vincent Gabriel Antonini 21 день назад

    Ok speech, bad audio edit...

  • Dan Leach
    Dan Leach 22 дня назад +1

    Maureen, that was great.

  • Margaret Hale
    Margaret Hale 22 дня назад +1

    Cheating gene? Wha? Just curious: what protein, enzyme, hormone does the "cheating gene" code for and what part of the brain is stimulated by it? Does the status of married/not married activate the gene? What about a divorce? Will a divorce paper shut off the "cheating" gene?

  • Random Stranger
    Random Stranger 22 дня назад +1

    me

  • No One Is Listening Until I Fart !!!
    No One Is Listening Until I Fart !!! 22 дня назад +2

    The stage is on boat?

  • No One Is Listening Until I Fart !!!
    No One Is Listening Until I Fart !!! 22 дня назад +1

    Why marry anyway?

  • No One Is Listening Until I Fart !!!
    No One Is Listening Until I Fart !!! 22 дня назад +1

    I got nausea after watching her for a couple of minutes...

  • m b
    m b 22 дня назад +5

    If only women lusted after their husbands as much as they lust after food

  • robert hingston
    robert hingston 22 дня назад +2

    There is a way around this.. stay single

  • Crypto Sensei
    Crypto Sensei 22 дня назад

    Get outta here...no wonder the divorce rate is so high

  • mareeyo1
    mareeyo1 23 дня назад

    Totally did not expect this type of talk. Too many attempts at being funny and not staying on track. Had to stop watching halfway through.

  • wheatonna
    wheatonna 23 дня назад +1

    "scourging through your blood vessels" ? I think she means "coursing".

  • Travis Hamblin
    Travis Hamblin 23 дня назад

    That was my ex wife. EX.

  • Forest Groomer
    Forest Groomer 23 дня назад

    One word. Feminism. That's the problem. Until women figure out feminism is toxic for both sexes you will keep trying to figure out why women are on average unhappy.

  • dev0n james
    dev0n james 23 дня назад

    It's always a completion to see who's better or worse. we get it you always win.

  • Dave Wygonowski
    Dave Wygonowski 23 дня назад

    It's all about earthly pleasures...

  • Suren Knewton
    Suren Knewton 24 дня назад +1

    Very importand pserspective

  • 50young603
    50young603 24 дня назад

    KMA

  • CRYSTAL QI
    CRYSTAL QI 24 дня назад +1

    Why I’m watching this? I don’t even have a bf . But it’s good to know about marriage couple

  • Adrian Tomlin
    Adrian Tomlin 24 дня назад +1

    I agree with some in this commentary. Why is it always the man at fault. Last time I checked it's a 50 50 situation. There's 2 involved here!!!

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 24 дня назад

      It's not the man's fault. In fact, in this I explain women's culpability. +Adrian Tomlin

  • dave roche
    dave roche 24 дня назад +2

    I stay single and take care of my self and my money!!!!

  • Samuel Geiger
    Samuel Geiger 24 дня назад

    "We're exasted!" That's what you get for wanting it all bitches! You can't have your cake and eat it too cunts. Women don't care about men. They only care about what men can do for them and how men can make them feel. F*co women. MGTOW!

  • ED Shawn
    ED Shawn 24 дня назад +1

    Blah blah blah...life isn't perfect..just be happy if you have food and health. Don't expect too much.

  • borg386
    borg386 25 дней назад

    If a man can’t get it up then the woman needs to arouse him better. It doesn’t happen automatically without foreplay.

  • strengthtrain91
    strengthtrain91 25 дней назад

    The best option is to live a married life based on the way it was designed to work. Check out marriagetoday with Jimmy and Karen Evans.

  • Lars Paulsen
    Lars Paulsen 25 дней назад +2

    I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say, she's probably not married and is currently raising a bunch of cats, but I could be wrong.

    • Maureen McGrath
      Maureen McGrath 25 дней назад +1

      I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess that you are a troll living in your mother's basement and haven't seen the light of day for a while now. +Lars Paulsen I doubt I'm wrong.

  • Gaabinubat Rafinulifilit
    Gaabinubat Rafinulifilit 25 дней назад +1

    I came here for the masturbation.

  • Vicki Takacs
    Vicki Takacs 26 дней назад +1

    This misses the huge elephant stamping about in America. That would be impotency and how many men give up and do nothing to fix it.

  • Go Cubs
    Go Cubs 26 дней назад

    Bro when is Ted gonna talk

  • niall coonerty
    niall coonerty 26 дней назад

    You sound like a robot...

  • Olu Agbi
    Olu Agbi 26 дней назад +1

    Thank you for sharing..although l have never been married. I'm 40 years by the way. keep it up with good work..

  • backyardsman
    backyardsman 26 дней назад

    "Men don't feel they're good at housework"
    Maybe that's because every time they do house work, the wife complains about how they did it, tells them how they should have done it, and then proceed to b******g about how the man never wants to do housework.