No Sex Marriage - Masturbation, Loneliness, Cheating and Shame | Maureen McGrath | TEDxStanleyPark

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2016
  • Love? Marriage? Sex? Can a married couple have all three? Perhaps it’s unrealistic since so many marriages end in divorce today. Why is that? One reason might be that a reported 20% of all marriages are sexless and that number is rising. Why have we lost the lust in our marriages? Is it technology, is it trust? More importantly, how can we “get back at it” in our marriages today?
    Maureen McGrath - nursetalk@hotmail.com - hosts the Sunday Night Sex Show on News Talk 980 CKNW. She is a Registered Nurse, Sex Educator and author of “Sex & Health".
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 14 372

  • Eddie Jeffers
    Eddie Jeffers 2 дня назад +1

    This is because many couples stop the very things that made them date.

  • rad 02
    rad 02 2 дня назад +1

    True

  • Hugh E
    Hugh E 2 дня назад

    None of this is funny to me. I went thru it for 12 years with a frigid wife. It was a wonder we had 3 kids. I cheated on her, but don't feel it was a cheat. She did, but now, I realize I was the healthy one, not her. So it wasn't cheating to me.

  • nhendrych
    nhendrych 3 дня назад

    Everything with pleasure coming from Satan -Go behind me -Satan

  • BigC
    BigC 4 дня назад +1

    I bet she loves facials......

  • Katrina Hutchison
    Katrina Hutchison 4 дня назад

    So this is a comedy schtick...

  • Jesse Peterson
    Jesse Peterson 5 дней назад

    Being with someone that makes you feel alone, is worse than actually being alone.

  • Joe Galtic
    Joe Galtic 5 дней назад +1

    It's not funny at all.

  • Misfit Flow
    Misfit Flow 6 дней назад

    MGTOW

  • Bronx one zero 466
    Bronx one zero 466 7 дней назад

    Sexless marriage is the best,you don't have to touch her or kiss her, she don't talk to you and you don't have to talk to her.

  • M
    M 8 дней назад

    Las manos de la oradora...dicen algo tambien jajajaja!

  • j C
    j C 9 дней назад

    Less netflix more xvideo pips

  • Jace Cavacini
    Jace Cavacini 10 дней назад +1

    All the bitter men in this comment thread... Maybe you people should all start learning how to communicate with your partners.

  • Amit Yadav
    Amit Yadav 11 дней назад +1

    Sexless marriage if it is true,I am going to marry with my own hands.

  • Ray Finkle
    Ray Finkle 12 дней назад

    Thumbnail looks like the broad from Shark Tank.

  • Kokuma Patrick
    Kokuma Patrick 14 дней назад

    Practice makes perfect! Keep trying

  • angel rain
    angel rain 17 дней назад

    MGTOW!!

  • Travis McAllister
    Travis McAllister 17 дней назад +1

    She just rambles on

  • Don Little
    Don Little 17 дней назад +1

    When does this get interesting?

  • GirlsKick
    GirlsKick 19 дней назад +2

    I will have to take your ideas about a sexless marriage with some doubt because you are obviously very liberal....I am a Christian.

  • Jacob Staten
    Jacob Staten 19 дней назад +1

    You didn't kiss all those boys in spite of being Irish Catholic, but because of it.
    I would call less than 24 times in 12 months sexless.
    Lgbtq...I?

  • j j
    j j 19 дней назад

    pls I meant

  • j j
    j j 19 дней назад

    I feel like relapsing. anyone want to help? old.???

  • S Austin
    S Austin 20 дней назад +1

    The answer is, no man can be faithful to ONE woman. Period. ALL Men are weak, and they are users, so they can feel powerful and good about themselves. They simply cannot help themselves, they have absolutely zero self control. It doesn't matter to a man if they destroy a faithful wife who actually believed in them and trusted them. It's ALL ABOUT the pathetic male ego. Men are such a disappointment.

  • Let there be Peace On God's Earth
    Let there be Peace On God's Earth 21 день назад +3

    No point of getting married after a short time divorce comes and you lose half of everything you own that's if you lucky and if you are not you lose everything.

  • greg dean
    greg dean 21 день назад +1

    what if the wife orgazms and then stops and says I'm done and leaves. after having multible and major orgazms?

  • al dee
    al dee 21 день назад +1

    that's true when we first got together it was almost anytime but after we got married it started to go down like a falling rock. i feel that if i knew this was going to happen i would have stayed single!

  • Glenn Smith
    Glenn Smith 22 дня назад +1

    I’m glad I am not married. I do not feel like dealing with this problem and drama

  • MewCat100
    MewCat100 23 дня назад +1

    Here's the bottom line, the vast majority of women are selfish. No more needs to be said.

  • Kenaram Mondal
    Kenaram Mondal 24 дня назад

    Yb

  • Vijayasimha N. S.
    Vijayasimha N. S. 24 дня назад +1

    Only Vedas can help all,seek it. I sought and am happy ever since.

  • bikebudha01
    bikebudha01 25 дней назад +2

    she rocks back and forth way to much, it almost make you seasick. either she should stop rocking or the cameraman should pan back a bit...

  • -RD- Salind
    -RD- Salind 27 дней назад +1

    So play dead already

  • Guy Reece
    Guy Reece 27 дней назад

    IT'S A TRAP !!!!!!!!!

  • because it's not right
    because it's not right 28 дней назад +1

    I'm married don't bother

  • Patricia Shaw
    Patricia Shaw 28 дней назад

    What a lot of Codswollop, don't judge everyone by yourself, have you asked everybody in the Country, you sound like a Satanic puppet..get a more meaningful life love, you sound bought.

  • John lamar
    John lamar 28 дней назад +1

    Great Ted Talk!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • wannabe freespirit
    wannabe freespirit 29 дней назад +1

    Orgasm is not necessary

  • jadekayak01
    jadekayak01 29 дней назад +1

    no its not ok.
    catholic priest arent supposed to get any and look at what they do to little boys

  • 1950steele
    1950steele 29 дней назад +1

    She is making me dizzy. She won’t stand still.

  • Vianna Janelle
    Vianna Janelle Месяц назад +1

    Wow! I am astonished by the comments! I am so sorry for all of you who are struggling! It shows me the kind of wife I don't want to become once I get married. I really hope everything works out for you all.

    • bansheebot2
      bansheebot2 24 дня назад +1

      You are female..you WILL become that wife..lol

  • b nf
    b nf Месяц назад +1

    My french wife always gets off the train before my reaching the destination.

  • Kristine Willems
    Kristine Willems Месяц назад +1

    Why do I feel pity?

  • Tina Tran
    Tina Tran Месяц назад +2

    Don’t step into the marriage life if you’re not so sure about that person who you called soulmate .. your life will turn upside down..
    Masturbation is the best solution to keep you away all the trouble.. no shame at all..

  • Mich Hell
    Mich Hell Месяц назад +1

    Try once a year, or 9x in the last 5. 😭🙈

  • Combat 121
    Combat 121 Месяц назад +1

    Your 1st 50 seconds tuned u out went and went to different talk

  • Sarfraz Ashraf
    Sarfraz Ashraf Месяц назад +1

    We muslim’s get married to make Allah happy, it’s worth it.

  • jbbraham
    jbbraham Месяц назад +1

    stay single then you can have it when you want it....

  • Derick B
    Derick B Месяц назад +7

    Single and lonely or married and bored there’s no happiness nowhere- chris rock.

  • Michael Lamont
    Michael Lamont Месяц назад +1

    I'll get a girlfriend/wife when I Win the Lottery.

  • The Cup of Truth
    The Cup of Truth Месяц назад +2

    A many of these comments are the way of the Worldly habits of the flesh. I confess I am a sinner as well. Now with understanding and more importantly Grace , I can see the Gift of my Wife and now she is more radiant and appreciated for my eyes to behold. I almost died in 2013 and she was there and I told her that if I passed she was above all thoughts and I am great full that she was the greatest role model of being a wife and living it. Now closing on 30 years with her , she is like a fine wine that has many facets of the aroma of what was put into creating the wine , the time , the labor and the many words through her eyes that spoke most importantly Love. Men trust in God and not your ways , I promise you will see and experience His love.

  • Russell Barnes
    Russell Barnes Месяц назад +1

    When she said lubed up, the men and women didn't see it coming she was taking about drinks. Tell me I'm wrong?

  • Juicefulll
    Juicefulll Месяц назад +1

    LGBTQIC,
    How dare she not include the C.
    I identify as Chair.
    They call me the chairismatic chair

  • Jesus Christ
    Jesus Christ Месяц назад

    RIp

  • Holli Austin
    Holli Austin Месяц назад +1

    Im female and I am not the standard, even my husband tells me I am not the norm... bc I love to have an OG...

  • Dan Mabee
    Dan Mabee Месяц назад +1

    why does she think it's a good idea to talk like captain kirk?

  • Ricardo Pires
    Ricardo Pires Месяц назад +1

    This woman is out of touch

  • Brian
    Brian Месяц назад +1

    Viagra?

  • STOTS
    STOTS Месяц назад +1

    Not sure why women are so territorial about something they ignore.

  • Smashy2009
    Smashy2009 Месяц назад +2

    A wedding is a funeral with cake, what you burry is your freedom and your sexlife.
    Mgtow all the way.

  • Ed Ippilito
    Ed Ippilito Месяц назад

    Q. Why do dogs lick their balls?
    A. Because they can!

  • Mr MEMé
    Mr MEMé Месяц назад

    M.G.T.O.W.

  • Rich Richards
    Rich Richards Месяц назад +2

    Why was the audio re-dubbed at 15:04 minutes in, for a few seconds? Note how the echo in her voice disappears for a few seconds before returning....

  • Deryl Leon
    Deryl Leon Месяц назад +1

    I dunno, man. Where did she get these stats?

  • Glenn Turner
    Glenn Turner Месяц назад +1

    Shes strange and boring

  • H B
    H B Месяц назад

    Yup that's what you have to do when you're married for 30 years. Cheaper than divorce.

  • Boris Karloff
    Boris Karloff Месяц назад +1

    Men are no good at household chores because women tell us we aren't.

  • David Marks
    David Marks Месяц назад +1

    Funny you never see a young beautiful woman talking about this.

  • karaaa 73
    karaaa 73 Месяц назад +2

    😔

  • Andre Abreu
    Andre Abreu Месяц назад

    Sad. Truly sad

  • David James
    David James Месяц назад +1

    Yeah ok. So, what's wrong with that? This woman has a very rigid way of looking at things. Besides, gays in the past dealt with this issue some 50+ plus years ago & still kept a one on one relationship. So, why does this woman think she has come up with something new? She hasn't. Get real, grow up & stop ripping people off for financial gain. Most of us know all that stuff. Boy, are you years behind! Wake up. Very sad to see this woman has not progressed.

  • Rob Erickson
    Rob Erickson Месяц назад +11

    I love my wife more than the world but even I can admit everything changed pretty much the second we got married. The Kleenex company is making a killing off me

  • RadioRich100
    RadioRich100 Месяц назад +1

    You can see why this chick talks about this.

  • Rodger B
    Rodger B Месяц назад +1

    I’ve been a better housekeeper and cook then all of my X’s except for one professional chef.

  • 66945ccusd93appscom
    66945ccusd93appscom Месяц назад +1

    I wish the speaker would STOP SWAYING BACK AND FORTH!!! I’m about to HURL!!!!!

  • smokeystriper
    smokeystriper Месяц назад +1

    I couldn't finish watching this. I got seasick from har swaying.

  • Osebiya Odiansiye
    Osebiya Odiansiye Месяц назад +1

    lets go back to the creator

  • Coderoid
    Coderoid Месяц назад +1

    MILF alert.

  • อยากให้พี่ รักมาก

    So can i ask to someone like” sexcuse me?”

  • Sarah Nguyen
    Sarah Nguyen Месяц назад +1

    Brilliant!

  • Joe S.
    Joe S. Месяц назад +10

    Time to divorce them....plain and simple.

  • anonymous anonymous
    anonymous anonymous Месяц назад +5

    MGTOW .. 🚶‍♂️
    go away from this comment section ✌👋

  • Bravo 4 Adventure
    Bravo 4 Adventure Месяц назад +3

    6:30 in and I'm already glad that I never re-married.

  • Dano1947
    Dano1947 Месяц назад

    Humans are not monogamous, new partners can spark desire. Use your imagination. You don't have to be you all the time. Be the mysterious stranger from time to time. Make you man feel desired too. Don't just lie there, participate.

  • Alexander VII
    Alexander VII Месяц назад

    Because its reality about human life

  • Alexander VII
    Alexander VII Месяц назад

    In reality your lips is perfect lips

  • Alexander VII
    Alexander VII Месяц назад

    Man have milk in the women's pussies

  • Alexander VII
    Alexander VII Месяц назад

    In reality your lips for kissing not for nothing

  • Endyra
    Endyra Месяц назад

    She sounds like a robot

  • Alejandro Murcia
    Alejandro Murcia Месяц назад +3

    Go to southerr America find a god fearing young woman. And live happily ever after. Stop dying on purpose.

  • Zura Lanch
    Zura Lanch Месяц назад

    What kind of guidelines is she talking about on 21:01? what should you do in this case if you like someone and unfortunately it is not your spouse?

  • eric homsy
    eric homsy Месяц назад

    i'd show her such a good time wow

  • Laz Arus
    Laz Arus Месяц назад

    Killed my relationship with a woman I really loved so sad wish i could have coped but could not.

  • Sarah Dell'Eva
    Sarah Dell'Eva Месяц назад

    Yes I agree that movies have destroyed relationships!!! They made it impossible to meet the new expectations

  • mike oxlong
    mike oxlong 2 месяца назад +4

    It's called menopause I mean man on pause 😣

  • Marcos Carvalho
    Marcos Carvalho 2 месяца назад +2

    This is the worst Ted Talk I've ever heard. She sounds like an 80's sitcom. Did she go to the Al Bundy University of Bad Marriage Cliches? Regrettable.

    • Marcos Carvalho
      Marcos Carvalho Месяц назад

      +Maureen McGrath - Thought Leader & Clinical Care Expert I never said it wasn't for everybody, I'm happy 99k people like it. Even if there's 14k people like me who don't. I'm just a dissenting voice, keep up the good work! (sincerely)

    • Maureen McGrath - Thought Leader & Clinical Care Expert
      Maureen McGrath - Thought Leader & Clinical Care Expert Месяц назад

      Not for everyone just 17.905211 people. +Marcos Carvalho

  • Genuine Comments
    Genuine Comments 2 месяца назад

    What the heck are you going on about your so frustrated

  • J.R L
    J.R L 2 месяца назад

    It's Nerf or nothing boys

  • bucketophil
    bucketophil 2 месяца назад +1

    Was this video made 30 years ago? Because this nonsense around women still doing all the housework and men don’t have any extra responsibilities doesn’t fly anymore.

  • dwait lee
    dwait lee 2 месяца назад +1

    Interesting