Have You Ever Compared Yourself To Others?

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  • Published on Jul 14, 2018
  • Whether you admit it or not, you probably have or at least had compared yourself to others before. If so, it probably either felt really good or really bad right? Well, comparing yourself to others have a more negative affect that you even realized. The point is that we are all beautiful in our own way and we all have and don't have things that can be so so different than other people. If you spend all of your time looking at what other people have, you're missing out on all the awesome things that you do have! If you spend all your energy focusing on other people's lives, you're losing energy that could be better spent on building your own life!
    Everyone walks a different path and are given different opportunities. Everyone accomplishes different goals and fails at different challenges. We all have different dreams. The most important thing is to find what makes YOU special to yourself and focus your energy on that.
    Oh, it's also important to share it with us in the comments ;)
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  • Jasceel Tan
    Jasceel Tan Year ago +4295

    I love these artworks. May I know who the artist is? She deserves recognition. This is so gooood. 💖💖

    • ludie
      ludie 4 months ago +2

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    • Káylä wølfíe
      Káylä wølfíe 5 months ago

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    • Nicole Gabrielle Pingol
      Nicole Gabrielle Pingol 5 months ago

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    • Aaliya frhn
      Aaliya frhn 6 months ago

      The artist needs an award!!

    • The Tea News
      The Tea News 7 months ago

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  • Awesome Blossom
    Awesome Blossom Day ago

    You are yourself. And no matter how much you try to hide it, it will show one way or another. Comparing yourself to others can either cause low self esteem or a high pride. Neither one of those are good. Sticking to your own skin is best. Your aren't a mold, so don't shape yourself. You were formed the way you were for a reason🖤💜🧡💛💚💙❤💖🤵👱🏻‍♀️👱‍♂️🧔🧕👲👳‍♀️
    #lovemyself

  • Queen LCA
    Queen LCA 5 days ago

    Stop comparing yourself to others .....
    Your beautiful in your own way
    💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • Jessica Wilds
    Jessica Wilds 6 days ago

    Why the hate? This is a good video for people with self confidence problems. This is very beautiful thank you 🙏💯

  • Chronic Randomness
    Chronic Randomness 11 days ago

    Tigers actually swim pretty well. They even eat fish if others types of prey are unavailable.

  • Barbie Girl
    Barbie Girl 16 days ago

    ALWAYS

  • Barbie Girl
    Barbie Girl 16 days ago

    Me: reads title

    Also me: You know me too well

  • Rinco Chan
    Rinco Chan 24 days ago

    اكو عرب هنا؟

  • Ivy Campbell
    Ivy Campbell Month ago

    My younger sister.....I feel like I can never be good enough.....

  • AwkwardUnicorn
    AwkwardUnicorn Month ago +1

    I’m 13 and I constantly compare myself.
    My “friend” always says my boobs are small.
    And?
    I don’t have to hear it from you 365 days a year.
    It just annoys me to the bone

  • Water Sheep
    Water Sheep Month ago +1

    RUclip: You can't go back to change the past.
    Max Caufield : Hold my camera.

  • Clarity Chan
    Clarity Chan Month ago

    Why am I seeing the title on italian even if my youtube language is English
    Cioe Cosa e successo ?!

  • Phoebe
    Phoebe Month ago

    I wish I knew what minute videos is when I needed this the most. It was also posted at the time I wish I watched it.

  • Suchitra Chakrabarty

    So minute video has decided that someone who is inferior to you -is a nerd girl with glasses?

  • Kitty Cutetastic
    Kitty Cutetastic 2 months ago

    The past is history
    The future is a mystery
    The present is a gift. That's why is called "The Present"

  • Amy
    Amy 2 months ago

    this video helped me realize how often I do this thankyou for this it's let me realize how much I need to change

  • Noor Ayoub
    Noor Ayoub 2 months ago

    I love her voice SO MUCH

  • Michelle ‘
    Michelle ‘ 2 months ago

    *sees title*
    WeLl oF CouRse.
    Also the drawing in this video is so beautiful I can’t 💕😪😫👏

  • Adu Venku
    Adu Venku 2 months ago

    I compared myself to others who were better than me in studying, making friends, prettier, smarter and successful than me.

  • Ekrem Emin
    Ekrem Emin 2 months ago +2

    I've been and still am comparing myself to more beautiful girls than me.

    • Ekrem Emin
      Ekrem Emin 2 months ago

      @Sinead xvx exactly

    • Sinead xvx
      Sinead xvx 2 months ago +1

      @Ekrem Emin same I probably can't go out of the house without comparing myself then feeling down all day

    • Ekrem Emin
      Ekrem Emin 2 months ago +1

      @Sinead xvx my issues kill me

    • Sinead xvx
      Sinead xvx 2 months ago +1

      I do all the time it's such a pain wish I could just stop all together
      :(

  • Giancarlo Picanco
    Giancarlo Picanco 2 months ago

    I started acting by age 13. I just had my second play a week ago. However, many of the actors have started acting probably as toddlers. I would always compare myself to people my age but more experienced then I am and think that the younger actors will have bigger roles when they reach my age. I tried to make myself feel better by searching for actors that started later then I did but it didn't work. I felt a little discouraged about acting but I don't want to quit it.

  • Itz kawaii studio
    Itz kawaii studio 2 months ago

    I compare miself only to superior ppl because there are no inferior ppl than me

  • ULTRA INSTINCT Zack
    ULTRA INSTINCT Zack 2 months ago

    No, my mom does

  • Gaming with Gage the gamer

    I have lessons called PSHE at the end of each term before major holiday breaks. They are about people that compare themselves with others and appearance ideal. Which is basically where you are wanting something and when you get it you just want more or you realise how pointless it is and how hard it is the actually get these things completed. Things like plastic surgery.

  • αmρhιe
    αmρhιe 2 months ago +1

    This is why I quit Instagram because of this

  • RosexUwU
    RosexUwU 2 months ago

    I will make this short.
    I'm awkward and have and always will have anxiety.

  • BTS SUPER ARMY
    BTS SUPER ARMY 2 months ago

    Me: *Tall, skinny legend (lol no I'm fat) , ugly af*
    My mom:Even Natalia and Lorena are better than you
    *Natalia and Lorena do you wanna know who are thows 2 girls? They're non other than my childhood bestfriends but guess what..NATALIA GETS TO FUCKING BE WITH LORENA WHILE I DON'T!!!! I FEEL LIKE ME AND NATALIA HAVE ALWAYS BEEN FIGHTING FOR LORENA'S ATTENTION BUT WITHOUT ANY REASONS AND I GUESS THAT LORENA IS CLOSER TO NATALIA 😭 we've all 3 grown up together in the same places...I might be overdramatic but when I'm on Facebook gues what i find?? Them 2 together having fun without me..sometimes I'm wondering if we ever we're friends..our mothers are friends but..at this point I'm jealous of how close they are..BUT I'M NOT LESBIAN OR ANYTHING it's just that i miss hanging out with them and watching Nickelodeon together....I would give anything to go back in time and play with them....i guess I just don't like the idea of being replaced...Okay maybe I regret ignoring Natalia because she liked the same guy i did but i was 6 ok?! And maybe I regret not making it to Lorena's birthday...I'm such a bad friend! Why am I even jealous on Natalia?! She deserves it..she's better than me*

  • wait huh
    wait huh 2 months ago

    0:50 but Pepsi pretends to be Coca Cola

  • Acelyn Fury
    Acelyn Fury 2 months ago

    cool

  • Baking with Judy
    Baking with Judy 2 months ago

    Who did the voiceover?

  • euphoriaユングー
    euphoriaユングー 2 months ago

    omfg they look like ulzzangs or kpop idols >

  • This Is Me
    This Is Me 2 months ago

    Don't ever compare yourself with others....
    Especially on instagram :p

  • Marina Kanare
    Marina Kanare 2 months ago

    WOW.

  • Pozole
    Pozole 2 months ago

    I have compared myself for so many years to someone else who’s better and basically made me feel broken when they didn’t know that they were breaking someone. Imagine a kindergarten class - 6th grade class with 50 girls. In my kindergarten class and the other kindergarten classes, all the girls were (and still) in categories; Pretty or Ugly. I was the ugly part of the class with only 5 other girls, in kindergarten. I had short brown hair, with bangs that were so staight, they felt like I can never see the sky or anything. While the rest of the girls had curly hair, perfect skin, beautiful blue eyes, and trending clothing. I didn’t care too much. I was just me. This went on until 4th grade, were I began seeing the other girls blooming. As kids we were like flower buds. But in 4th grade, we were read to bloom. We were soon about to hit our puberty or atleast know more trending stuff such as trending Thrasher clothing, makeup and asthetics. I had my eyes on a guy but across our table was a girl who was very beautiful. Ever since the guy had his eyes on her, I felt broken. I myself, have fallen in love before but it goes south, always ends in rejection snd losing to another guy or girl. So that year I thought maybe I finally won’t get rejected. Maybe I’ll find ‘the one’. I was always told about ‘the one’ from friends, others, teachers, and family. It was like my #1 goal. But it failed.
    In 5th grade, I felt the same, I wore some trending clothing but it felt seriously uncomfortable. So I stopped. My teacher kept piling homework that were usually pointless, I was going throught toxic friendships and bullying. That lead me to... wearing the same thing every day. Still doing it. I wore our school hoodie and a different pair of pants each day (but not shorts ;-;). Then once it got too uncomfortable, I wore this thick black jacket that made me feel better, I was always asked why I had it. I was always bullied for it. But I wore it, even on the hottest days. Once the bullying got worse, I was peer pressured into wearing this green hoodie I still have today, it was olive green and it was nice. I wore it until the end of the year, the whole summer, and a week and half of 6th grade. Then I wore a black hoodie that had a gold crown picture and said King in bold white caps.
    Then I made it to 6th grade, my bully left the school, I was happier. I made more friends, I felt complete. But there were few things to accomplish the needs to be better and complete; being pretty enough, getting a boyfriend/girlfriend, or simply finding a crush who likes me. The pretty part was almost accomplished but until my mom cut my bangs the same way like they were in kindergraten. People called me out for it. Remember when I mentioned that guy I had a big crush on in the 4th grade? We became friends in the end of my 4th grade year! I Still liked him. He probably liked me for a month but I moved classes because I was smart. I was put in the stupid group (The so called ‘smart’ group). I barely had no friends. Being smart was not in the “complete list”. The girl he liked was the same girl from 2 years ago. She liked him back. I always tried to compare myself to her. Wishing I was her. I had serious of problems at home. My mom and dad wanted me to be different. Not exactly myself. We always argued, there I promised that I’d move out with some friends once I make it to college or atleast graduate college. Then the worst happened. Girls’ bodies began changing quickly. Most of them were now flowers, some were still blooming, I was barely a blooming flower. Some girls had boobs that were big enough for a 14 or 15 year old. Both the boys and girls were getting taller. Their voices became mature enough. More mskeup snd trending stuff. I wore the same hoodie. I didn’t style my long brown hair into anything, I had a squeaky yet deep voice for a girl, I was pretty short for my age. I was unordinary. I kept comparing myself to about 35 other girls and possibly 12 boys. My weight felt like it was a whale compared to girls who drink starbucks almost every week but st the end, they’re normal or skinny queens. I attempted to starve myself before I saw a pizza slice, and you know where this pizza slice and I event went. The way that people won’t judge me is by sitting between a friend group of 5, sitting alone and drawing at the field. I isolated myself to others. I even had guys flirt with me (I figured out that those were just dares for money). I was exactly flattered until it was him who did it. I felt emptier finding out the truth. I kept silent. Still put up with this today. Yet today I still compare myself.

  • Emily Sullivan
    Emily Sullivan 2 months ago +1

    I'm now a fish....

  • Kim Kardashian Ugly crying

    I feel like this is related to school, what teachers expect you to do. They expect you to be good at math, reading, writing, science and geography. But they never think about other things that child might want to do with their life. School is supposed to be fun and honestly it's made me want to die more than anything else.

  • Leah Star
    Leah Star 2 months ago

    DID THEY JUST COMPARED ME TO JUWELS??!!!ANOTHER THING I HAVE TO GET OVER

  • Pink lemonade
    Pink lemonade 2 months ago

    Omg theres 666k views on dis

  • CottonCandy 65
    CottonCandy 65 3 months ago

    I say everyone is beautiful but I look in the mirror and I’m like ok that’s not true

  • لڤينا دەروونی

    👌👌👌👌👌

  • dank memez
    dank memez 3 months ago

    "if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree. then it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid." -Albert Einstein

  • shaimaa Alsmadi
    shaimaa Alsmadi 3 months ago

    Were all difierend thise is what i like about peppole

  • shaimaa Alsmadi
    shaimaa Alsmadi 3 months ago

    I love thise art

  • Ina Ric
    Ina Ric 3 months ago

    I just really really loved this one...it's just changed my perspective

  • Avleen Sondhi
    Avleen Sondhi 3 months ago

    *me reads the title*
    Me: Omigod this. Is so. *M E*

  • Na Mi
    Na Mi 3 months ago

    Just saying it is easy

  • bts_crackhead_ familyArmy

    YOU sound Just Like BTS Love yourself, speck yourself, found yourself.

  • Sakura A
    Sakura A 3 months ago +1

    I’ve always wanted to be the fastest runner in my school, every Wednesday we run a mile and I always try to beat Allan (the fastest runner in my school. I would run faster then my friends, leave them, to just beat him

  • Latasha Lee
    Latasha Lee 3 months ago

    I like her voice what person is behind the voice

  • Crazyanimallover 242
    Crazyanimallover 242 3 months ago +1

    This is literally my life, comparing myself to others cause I suck.

  • paranoiaprincess
    paranoiaprincess 3 months ago +1

    "There is nothing nonle in being superior to your fellow men. True nobility lies in being superior to your former self." - Hemingway

  • paranoiaprincess
    paranoiaprincess 3 months ago

    ... diamonds have no intrinsic value so...

  • Lawal Olayinka
    Lawal Olayinka 3 months ago

    Yes

  • Sister power X
    Sister power X 3 months ago

    Thanks for the advice! This is probably one of the most useful video I’ve ever watched in my life! I may blame myself sometimes and be insecure but this I’ll try to remember!

  • saarrah fashion
    saarrah fashion 3 months ago

    thank you so much i really needed to hear this

  • Just Browsing
    Just Browsing 3 months ago

    I don't compare myself to others; however I find people seem to like my taste, style, and imitate my taste...you know what they say imitation is a form of flattery....

  • sandra tatai army
    sandra tatai army 3 months ago +1

    *reads title *
    yes.

  • Your Lucky devil
    Your Lucky devil 3 months ago

    I do compare myself to other
    When i was in grade 2 i saw a Pretty girl who is popular i tried Fitting in
    But when i turned grade 3 i stoped it

  • Sheila Figueredo
    Sheila Figueredo 3 months ago

    Well I have pample

  • ·IVERY·
    ·IVERY· 4 months ago +1

    This artist is amazing😍

  • tHaT fAn oF eVeRyThInG
    tHaT fAn oF eVeRyThInG 4 months ago

    *compares self to the girl*

  • Spilled Tea
    Spilled Tea 4 months ago

    I just don’t compare myself because I know I’m an individual and don’t need to pretend anymore

  • Girly Alexie MLBB Gamer and Beauty Vlogger

    When I was younger, I would compare myself to famous and crazy rich people and other popular kids out there. All my whole life, I've dreamed to be an actress, and go viral so people can adore me. In my school, I was an introvert, and a bookworm. I'm anti-social, and my classmates don't even talk to me very often. When I reached middle school, boys in my class would tease me and I was stereotyped as "Weird." "Freak." Etc. They would yell at me for no apparent reason, like they are much more better than me. Boys in my class just love to seek attention and cause trouble. I remember the time when I looked in the mirror and asked myself "Am I pretty?" I went to my Mom and asked her "Am I pretty?" Then she smiled and said "Clean up after yourself. If you want to be accepted, you must first accept yourself. Love yourself, and accept yourself. If you don't, then who will? Your different, and that's what makes you unique." Those words were like music to my ears.
    So now, I learned to accept myself for who I am. Defend yourself, and be brave. Don't let others bring you down. I'm very proud for being myself. I still get bullied in my school and the boys still call me a Freak. But if they bully me, I would stand up bravely to myself, and ignore them. I'm proud to be ME. So now, I have a positive attitude towards school and at home, I made also a few new friends, and became the highest in my class.
    Moral: Be yourself. Love yourself. Accept yourself. Don't let others judge you. Your unique. Your beautiful just the way you are! And have a nice day! ~♡
    Your friend, Alexie~Chan

  • Nia dremzz
    Nia dremzz 4 months ago

    Is the artist who is drawing this a robot or a machine? I cannot even make a stickman properly

  • squaring up
    squaring up 4 months ago

    what kind of question is that;
    always..
    everyday.

  • Fleur Hanley
    Fleur Hanley 4 months ago

    The best voice and the best drawings 😍🌸

  • Just_gachaby EmmA
    Just_gachaby EmmA 4 months ago

    It’s ok, I’m bad at bible and not the best in math, but very good in English! In English I’m one of the top students in my class

  • —hyuniniee3
    —hyuniniee3 4 months ago

    I love this artwork It’s to aesthetic

  • Lillian Cui 催依亭
    Lillian Cui 催依亭 4 months ago

    Sometimes, but my family mainly does it for me.

  • Strawberrymilkshakeu
    Strawberrymilkshakeu 4 months ago

    I cant stop compairing. Every girl around me is super skinny and i am kinda cubby it makes me feel depressed but i cant stop compairing. Its hard.. becuase the girls also talk to me like they are something better. I know i have a pretty face because alot of people tell me that but i still feel like thats not enough.. by the way i think the artworks are so pretty and all the stories are very interesting! I love them. thanks for making them because actually alot of people need this.