Hey Steve: The Friend’s Wife Causes Problems || STEVE HARVEY

  • Published on Apr 22, 2019
  • She’s been friends with a man for over 10 years, and now his wife is causing problems. Should she expect him to defend their friendship?
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Comments • 886

  • MarlyK
    MarlyK 2 days ago

    Y’all don’t have to bash the woman for trying to get clarity lol. Most of y’all aren’t even married so chill out

  • Balaji C
    Balaji C 7 days ago

    Boy ...these people need to grow up

  • jmejam_90 jmejam_90
    jmejam_90 jmejam_90 23 days ago

    Yeah it's his wife but at some point he should be a man stop holding his wife's purse and evaluate the situation and act according if it's on the friend or wife handle it respectfully and decisively

  • Michele G
    Michele G 26 days ago

    Chick, have several seats. What is he going to do with 2 women in his life. Get over it

  • Beth Sullivan
    Beth Sullivan Month ago

    This lady is definitely in the WRONG! She needs to leave the couple along!

  • Ashton Gilmore
    Ashton Gilmore Month ago

    Im sick and tired of the atmosphere that men should be afraid of their wives.

  • oppaxx45
    oppaxx45 Month ago

    Yeah I'm not sure about marriage but if I have a 100% platonic friendships that's been for years I'm not giving them up unless I choose too not because I'm married if he's insecure he needs to fix that . ppl throw away good ppl like they're trash

  • R H
    R H Month ago

    She was close to them and even like the boys' Auntie, and now suddenly the wife is treating her badly. Maybe the husband said something to his wife about finding his friend attractive or something like that

  • Priyanka Nimbalkar
    Priyanka Nimbalkar Month ago

    Why her dark eyes looks like evil eye? 😅

  • Michelle Nash
    Michelle Nash Month ago +1

    Yes I agree when got married she should have left him alone. It doesn't matter if they just "friends" or they've known each other for a long time. He is married now leave him the hell alone. If I were I were THE wifes position I would have done the same damn thing.

  • Chris Hall
    Chris Hall Month ago

    The wife's insecure... he can't any friends because men sleep too

  • Tevin Reid
    Tevin Reid Month ago

    I feel like there's gotta be a middle ground on this. I don't think marriage should end friendships but definitely priorities need to change and boundaries need to be respected.

  • Cam J
    Cam J Month ago

    I’ve had a guy friend that I have known for yearrrrss. Everytime he would get into a relationship we would not talk for the sake of his relationship I would never want to make his significant other feel uncomfortable even if I knew they wouldn’t last lol.

  • Dustin Johnson
    Dustin Johnson Month ago

    I’m not going to lose a friend male or female over a girl if we can’t be friends with the people we’ve been friends with prior too or after relationship then I don’t neeed her she should remains friends with him it’s FRIENDS they were friends before him an her an they can remain friends long after him an her she being the wife being childish an need to sit in timeout if she gone act like a kid


    So, wait... am I supposed to end all my friendships my muy guy friends when one of us gets married? SOOOOO nonsense to me...In all honesty, it seems like her friend's wife was so insecure about her relationship with her husband that she felt the need to break their friendship up.
    This is not "protecting your own relation", this is more like "I don't trust my husband".
    On the other side, if her friend is not even able (or is not even willing) to stop his wife's nonsense, maybe he simply isn't worth it.

  • Desiree Mendieta
    Desiree Mendieta Month ago

    Yup 🙌🏻

  • autumn cullen
    autumn cullen Month ago

    I don't know who needs to hear this but honey your soulmate is not that womans husband!

  • D D
    D D 2 months ago

    Has she lost her rabid ass mind. I hate her dignify attitude like I don't deserve to feel bad and be treated this way. The wife established the boundaries and said listen he's married he doesn't need your friendship anymore leave us alone and she's acting like the victim. He made it very clear to her that he does not care to preserve the friendship and he or she is still thinking about him what a loser

  • Catalan Don
    Catalan Don 2 months ago

    Steve is right

  • dhilip kumar
    dhilip kumar 2 months ago

    Thank you!!! Ma man Steve Harvey.

  • asjeje
    asjeje 2 months ago

    So I have to disconnect from my best friend just because I have a wife am not doing that especially if we were friends before my wife. Let's be honest wife is insecure because the best friend is attractive. They been friends over TEN YEARS

  • Faisal Mushtaq
    Faisal Mushtaq 2 months ago

    Truth is always harsh... I like it Steve sometimes bluntly truthful.

  • Arthur Salas
    Arthur Salas 2 months ago

    Women are manipulative both emotionally and socially, just like in a divorce a woman will do all she can to keep the kids from the father and lie to her kids about their father. It gives them a since of power and control to hold something over the father of their children. The wife wants to cut off his social circles and has no trust or respect for her husband. She probably doesn’t even feel threatened by this woman just wants the control of being able to take her away so her husband has no one but her. I’ve also seen lots of psycho wives that don’t want their husbands to have anything to do with their families. It’s really sad

    • Special K
      Special K 21 day ago

      You're REACHING! (Meaning that is NOT AT ALL what's going on here)

  • Dark Sister
    Dark Sister 2 months ago

    It was simple the wife was jealous. I think the husband knew it. She was just a little cowardly in saying I don't want you to hang out with my husband anymore

  • Lady Rootz
    Lady Rootz 2 months ago

    Cuz ur friends with her man....ya haffi ovastand

  • Lindalee Law
    Lindalee Law 2 months ago

    When a best friend gets married, the single friend must step back.

  • Lindalee Law
    Lindalee Law 2 months ago

    No. No. No and no.
    YOU DIDNT GET THE MESSAGE ..He's married .
    Women, stop it.

  • Shaddae Lewis
    Shaddae Lewis 2 months ago

    I would love to hear the situation that she is talking

  • ladooshopprincess
    ladooshopprincess 2 months ago +1

    Lol this is hilarious! This woman actually has the nerve to think that her ‘best friend’ will defend HER to HIS WIFE WHO HE HAS TO SEE AND BE WITH EVERYDAY OF HIS LIFE?!? Ummm the second he got married, you should have backed off. Men do not need female ‘friends’ in their lives after they are married, whatever happens before is the past. The only females that should be in a man’s life after he’s married are the ones he’s related to by blood, not ones who play brother and sister. And before I get jumped, the same goes for women. The second I got married, i put my husband first and cut off all of my male friends, no matter how close we were because my home comes before the outside world. My husband comes before anyone else and I would expect the same respect from him. You are an intruder in their marriage and you gots to go sweetie. Sorry for the tough love but it’s the truth. There is no reason that you should be near someone else’s husband or know more about someone else’s spouse than the actual spouse (which is usually the case with best friends). Ever heard the song ‘you make me wanna’ by usher?!?!🤨🤨🤨

  • Mr London
    Mr London 2 months ago

    People her age still do that best friend between men and women rubbish?

  • Whalesnamedshark
    Whalesnamedshark 2 months ago

    We need better parents to teach kids these things

  • Luke Wilmoth
    Luke Wilmoth 2 months ago

    If she’s not secure enough why get married, obviously wasn’t ready yet if she’s trying to be that controlling 😂

  • Sanyu Ndekou
    Sanyu Ndekou 2 months ago

    Girl, that's her husband and it's time you move on.

  • Name
    Name 2 months ago

    I have male family friends I consider cousin because I knew them since I was a baby and I still wouldn't be hanging around or texting them. It's just disrespectful to their wife and it's weird. We aren't kids anymore. I'll come to the birthdays and stuff but other than that married people have their own lives now. Besides I don't really want to hang out with married people with kids. I find their lives boring and we gradually have little in common.

  • Perfectly Imperfect
    Perfectly Imperfect 2 months ago

    I became so emotional while watching this because I'm someone who values friendship a lot. True and real friends are few and far between. I think this situation could've been handled differently. Not only did she lose her bestie of over 10 years, she lost a family. It probably feels like a death to her. The only question I have is, why are so many people in the comments so ready to invalidate her pain? Why does her being as hurt as she is mean that she is in love with him? Is she not meant to feel hurt over losing her friend/brother? You can't choose your family but you can choose your friends. Friends are family that you choose and that's why losing a friend can sometimes hurt more than losing a blood relative. The fact that her pain is so palpable is a testament to how much this friendship meant to her. Can we please show more compassion to each other. Let's not be so quick to judge😭😭😭😭.

  • devin weber
    devin weber 3 months ago +1

    these people are slow

  • devin weber
    devin weber 3 months ago

    u cant treat a person any way you want its wrong shes a bioch

  • devin weber
    devin weber 3 months ago

    steves wrong he a
    beta if he dont do anything.next will be him

  • Nikki wilson
    Nikki wilson 3 months ago

    Odds are that marriage will have issues. If the wife couldn't communicate whatever her concerns were to make her feel compelled enough to act out then her coping and communication skills are shot. And in time it will trickle over to her spouse. What u watch them do to others they will eventually do to u.

  • Catprincess
    Catprincess 3 months ago

    Has she got black contacts in?

  • chanelle dee
    chanelle dee 3 months ago

    Get a boyfriend and stop trying to be a home wrecker

  • Reinette SINED
    Reinette SINED 3 months ago

    Where was the wife when he knew her! My would still be my friend

  • Phuong Huynh
    Phuong Huynh 3 months ago

    This would make sense if you’re his sister or extended family, but if you’re just a friend, he better not stand up against his wife for you. He can fight for an amicable relationship between his wife and his family, but not between his WIFE and just a childhood friend. Cmon now should be obvious

  • Cali T
    Cali T 3 months ago

    Great episode!!!

  • clove 1971
    clove 1971 3 months ago

    Again I typically don't agree with Steve but I do agree with him on this. Move on lady and get a life

  • Chevy Paige
    Chevy Paige 3 months ago

    most friendships don't last forever they have their time & place! It sucks but move on!

  • jijsta
    jijsta 3 months ago +1

    Sorry wife trump's friend.. that's your friend's choice.. you got to live him alone.

  • 6spider4
    6spider4 4 months ago

    Vows or no vows that's no excuse for treating someone badly

    • KrypticKitty
      KrypticKitty 2 months ago

      Its obviously her one sided view of it

  • jinxjaws
    jinxjaws 4 months ago

    I don't think that the woman has the right to demand the Split with a longterm friend.

  • daAmazin FatB0y
    daAmazin FatB0y 4 months ago

    Nope.....this dude is perfectly in the right and you gotta be in the background.

  • Salome Kabinga
    Salome Kabinga 4 months ago +1

    He should open his mouth. Must all friendships end because of love?? 😢😢😢

  • KeiKei Jefferson
    KeiKei Jefferson 4 months ago

    Whew chile!!! You're the problem!!!

  • Galaxi 7
    Galaxi 7 4 months ago

    Seems to be two types of people in the comment section. Jealous, insecure women and immature, insincere men.

  • Kita Kelley
    Kita Kelley 4 months ago

    Girl know your place. I know it's disappointing that you lost a friend, but his wife comes first , even if she was disrespectful. Also women are territorial.

  • Papa Cage
    Papa Cage 4 months ago +1

    Everyone in this comment section could be on r/nicegirls
    If this dude's wife is so insecure about their realtionship that he can't have female friends then the female friends aren't the problem.
    Men and women can be friends without any other feelings being there, and just because they aren't related by blood doesn't mean they can't have a brother-sister type of relationship.

  • giselle joseph
    giselle joseph 4 months ago

    Girl define friend to a married man she would not trust u

  • kgoldmon
    kgoldmon 4 months ago

    "The Friend's Wife Causes Problems"? uh no, more like "The Husband's Friend Causes Problems for the Wife"

  • Kevin A.
    Kevin A. 4 months ago

    It's over sis 😂 until you get married too or something

  • Carleen-Mariee
    Carleen-Mariee 5 months ago

    I feel like the comments in here are a little harsh. I Defo agree, okay it’s his wife so she should fall back, but imagine having a bestfriend for years that’s become family and you genuinely don’t see them in an form of romantic way and then because the wife in my opinion is insecure, you lose that friendship. I see it from both perspectives🤷🏾‍♀️. My question is, does that wife have any guy friends? Has she been allowed to keep them? Hmmm and if the shoe was switched would the reaction be the same. I don’t know

  • Sparkle LovesYou
    Sparkle LovesYou 5 months ago

    Ppl are crazy... You have no place inn their marriage period. No way to get around that. I had a platonic relationship with a friend and he got married and his wife wouldn't meet me and didn't want me around I told him that he had to honor her wishes. No one comes before your wife/husband. If she was a true friend she would understand that. If she was a real woman with pure intentions she wouldn't press the issue and respectfully back off like she would want a woman to do if she were someone's wife.